Summer is your sweetheart.

School’s out, the living’s easy and you’re wasting away again in Margaritaville … what’s not to love?

Well, you could live without the frizzy fro from the humidity, the sweat droplets across your upper lip and the sticky skin. When there’s no air-conditioning to relieve you and no pool to keep you cool, what’s a girl to do?

Spray on Awapuhi Moisture Mist! This hydrating spray is yet another one of Paul Mitchell’s brilliant beauty innovations. For both the hair and skin, a quick spritz will cool your hot face, hands and feet while helping to replenish your hair and skin’s own natural moisture. Formulated for fine to normal hair, this conditioning mist is also great for reactivating styling products.

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“We’ve come a long way, baby!”

Yes, ladies, we have. Our “role” in society has evolved into so much more since the apron-wearing, barefoot-in-the-kitchen days. Thanks to the Women’s Movement, girls grow up feeling as though the sky’s the limit; anything is possible when it comes to school, career and relationships.

Yet unless you’ve taken a women’s studies course, you’re probably unaware of the obstacles women continue to face. Beyond college, the world is full of them, especially when male and female salaries are compared. Statistics show that, on average, women make 76 cents for every dollar a man makes. Depending on the profession, this number varies, according to the U.S. Department of Labor.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for only 2 months and it’s his birthday in a few weeks. Though I really like him, I don’t want to get him a gift that gives off the wrong impression. What gifts give off the wrong signals?

- Amy

This paranoia of the “message” is something we all experience, so don’t sweat it. My suggestion would be to get him something light hearted, maybe even humorous. Pay attention to what he says when you’re out at the mall or walking the streets. He should be giving you clues to what he wants, hopefully nothing that blings. I always recommend discussing the options with a close friend of his that you trust. I don’t know your boyfriend, so in regards to what not to get him, I’d say no jewelry or clothing. Jewelry says “We’re serious” and clothes say, “though we’ve only been dating 2 months, I want you to wear what I pick out.” You can suggest clothing but not as a birthday gift.

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months and I’ve met his parents at least a dozen times, but I get the feeling they don’t like me. What should I do?

- Jackie

If you haven’t opened up about yourself or expressed your interest in getting to know his parents, I can see why they may not like you. Assuming that all is cool, and you’re very social around them, it may just take time. Some parents, especially mothers, are hesitant in accepting someone who’s close with their son. Forgive me for making it seem as though your boyfriend is a momma’s boy. If that’s not the case and the feeling of possibly being disliked by his parents really affects you, try and do something nice for them. Find out what type of flowers his mom likes or what sport his father watches. Spontaneous gifts and thoughtful gestures go a long way with the ‘rents. It’s all about the brownie points. If that doesn’t work, they’re just mean people.

Have a guy question, need relationship advice or wanna bitch about your man? Submit your thoughts to Ryan at ryan@collegecandy.com. He’ll provide you with words of wisdom in the next candy!

Lately, sex has lost its appeal. Your poor boyfriend has gone to great lengths to seduce you, but the only action he’s gotten has been a peck on the lips followed by a “Not tonight, baby. I have a headache.”

Do you and your man a favor and spark your sexual appetite with some food to put you in the mood:

1) Raw Oysters

A classic sexy food, oysters raise sperm count and testosterone production, because they are high in zinc. They also contain dopamine, a hormone that increases sexual urges.

2) Almonds

The smell of almonds has been known to arouse women. Surround yourself with almond-scented candles … or just feed your man a bunch of almonds so that he stores up energy for a serious sex session.

3) Chocolate

It’s been scientifically proven that chocolate makes us feel fabulous. That’s because it contains phenylethylamine, a chemical believed to produce the feeling of “being in love.” So there is no doubt that a little sweetness melting in your mouth couldn’t hurt.

So get munching, licking, sucking … whatever it is that will rev up your sex drive. After all, sex should not only be mid-blowing, but should also be fun.

Trips to the salon can be a little scary.

The “just a trim” that became a bob. The attempt to go blonde that had you looking like Courtney Love pre-makeover. The highlights from hell. Yeah, we know.

All you wanted was to add a little life to your locks.

Don’t cry. Put your mind and tresses at ease.

Now you can create a newfound vibrancy and shine, a hint of captivating color, and manageable, fabulous texture right in your own shower, all by yourself. Our friends, the experts over at John Frieda, have introduced an entirely new innovation in hair care, Luminous Color Glaze. The very first, non-damaging DIY at-home glaze treatment. Yeah, baby!

The glaze can be used on color treated or natural hair and is available in three signature John Frieda Professional Hair Care customized color-families: Sheer Blonde, Brilliant Brunette, and Radiant Red, with two shades of beautiful in each color family.

Blondes: Refresh and perfect your blonde with a burst of shimmering color and shine as you re-texturize and add oomph to lifeless hair. Luminous Color Glaze is available in two blonde shades: Platinum to Champagne and Honey to Caramel.

Brunettes: Reawaken the tone and texture of lackluster, limp brunette hair with a shot of dazzling brown color and multi-dimensional shine. Luminous Color Glaze is available in two brunette shades: Amber to Maple and Chestnut to Espresso.

Redheads: Recharge that faded red and liven up tone with a dose of fiery red color and blazing shine that also imparts a burst of bounce to your hair’s texture. Luminous Color Glaze is available in two red shades: for deeper, richer reds and reds that are brighter and more vivid.

Simply shampoo, condition and then … glaze. Ooh la la.

And remember the rule of three: Three minutes, three times a week for three stunning results: a gorgeous glossy finish, a hint of color and soft, supple strands.

John Frieda Luminous Color Glaze cost $9.99, and is available at mass-market retailers nationwide or by calling 1-800-521-3189 to find the store nearest you.

Thursday nights are your favorite. There’s nothing better than getting the “weekend” started with a little wine and the girls while you watch The OC. You feel pleasant and buzzed until you have to decide on a “going-out” outfit.

Then the dreaded moment: You stand in front of the full-length mirror and stare; no matter what you put on, you feel plump.

You scold yourself for ordering pizza and skipping the gym. Depression sets in.

Before you let college weight-gain ruin your night … read into it. Danica Lo, author of How Not to Look Fat, has plenty of simple tricks that will magnify what she calls your “skinnifying potentials”.

Clean Out Your Closet

1) Jersey. This fabric is not your friend if you have any kind of fat rolls, because it tends to cling to your body.

2) Crewnecks. If you are insecure about your arms, back or chest, this top-style will do nothing for your confidence. Stick to V necks.

3) Capri pants. These make everyone’s legs appear shorter. Get rid of them.

Slimming Solutions

1) Hide back fat. The number one way to conceal this bulge is to stand up straight. Also, wearing an undershirt can help since the outer shirt will cling to it.

2) Buy jeans that fit. When you’ve packed on some pounds, it sucks having to buy the size up. But you have to; it’s much more flattering when your tummy isnt hanging over the top of your pants.

3) Keep it simple. A consistent style will make it easier for you to dress yourself without continuing to undergo the pangs of nightly and daily dressing.

For more tips, order How Not to Look Fat on www.amazon.com.

College = sex, drinking, unprotected sex, drinking and more sex.

As a hot lady on campus, you’re young, carefree and loving the party … as you should.

Sure, you have a list of fine fellows who have slept in your bed. No shame there. But do you always have protected sex?

If “most of the time” is your answer, don’t assume you don’t have a sexually transmitted disease. Most college women aren’t aware of the many STDs running rampant on their campuses. According to a study by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, college girls tend to underestimate their odds of getting infected when their sex lives are in motion. But you are at risk.

Creepy Fact #1: Some common STDs don’t show their symptoms right away, such as Chlamydia, one of the most widespread STDs in the US. It not only causes infertility in women, but also increases the risk of catching HIV. New research has shown that this disease is particularly widespread amongst female college freshman.

Creepy Fact #2: Younger women are more likely to get STDs than older women: The cellular structure of their genital tissue is more susceptible to infection. Also many college girls don’t take advantage of the health services on campus; they are less familiar with their bodies.

Creepy Fact #3: Many college girls don’t get tested regularly. If you’re not keeping tabs on your sexual health, you could be infected and not know it, heightening potential health risks.

**All sexually active women under the age of 26 should be screened annually. Take care of your bodies!

When my boyfriend and I have sex, he only lasts about five minutes. I never have an orgasm and he doesn’t seem to care. How can I bring up the problem without angering him?

- Jess

Unfortunately, you’re dealing with the type of guy who doesn’t understand your needs, let alone how to fulfill them. This type of behavior isn’t about coming too quickly or you not having an orgasm but about his lack of concern for your satisfaction. Though sex can be rough and animalistic, the feelings shouldn’t. He may just be embarassed about his stamina problem and feels that ignoring it will make him not have to worry about it. You must talk through this problem with him; keeping silent will only make things worse, along with the sex. Sex may not be the most important part of a relationship, but lack of communication in the bedroom will affect other aspects of your relationship. If he doesn’t care about you, ditch him. There are plenty of other guys out there who’ll get you off at least once before bed, maybe even multiple times if you’re lucky. Some may even care enough to get you off again in the morning.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year and he hasn’t introduced me to his parents. Is that weird?

- Jamie

College guys can be really strange about the parent-girlfriend introduction. Some guys don’t even think about it, and others feel their parents won’t approve. Okay, don’t freak out. Chances are he probably doesn’t think it’s necessary right now. Then again, there may be a reason for his hesitation, so I’d approach the subject nonchalantly. Bring it up in passing, mentioning how you’d like to meet his parents and that it’s important to you. I assume he’s met your parents, so tell him it’s only fair that you meet his. But most likely, it’s not a big deal, and he will eventually do it when it’s the right time.

Have a guy question, need relationship advice or wanna bitch about your man? Submit your thoughts to Ryan at ryan@collegecandy.com. He’ll provide you with words of wisdom in the next candy!

Guys aren’t the only ones afraid of commitment.

Ladies can be just as commitment-phobic as the hottie who is “just not ready for a relationship.”

Terms like “final sale,” “no samples” and “the tester is missing” are as terrifying to us ladies as hooking up with only one girl is to a guy.

Would you want to be stuck with a pair of jeans that looked great in the fitting room mirror but turned out, after closer home inspection, to be all in the lighting? Damn clothing-store fluorescent lighting.

And don’t we all wish we could try a beauty regimen before committing to it? (Note: importance of free samples and testers!)

Nothing is worse than full bottles of “instantly longer” locks shampoo and “miracle magic” hair treatments taking up the already limited space in your medicine cabinet.

Rather then pull your hair out in frustration, take yourself to Sephora where you will find Ojon’s five-piece “Try Me” Hair Ritual Kit: a complete hair-restoration ritual from native Tawira of Central America’s tropical rainforest, known as “the people of beautiful hair.”

Yes, it is another hair treatment, but this one works, trust us, and you can try it out before committing to a lifetime supply.

It works like this: Rare, organic Ojon oil adds incredible healing moisture at each stage of this five-step ritual to restore hair to a natural-looking beauty and healthy shine!

The kit includes: Ultra Hydrating Shampoo and Conditioner; Restorative Hair Treatment; Revitalizing Mist; and Shine & Protect Glossing Mist.

Bonus: A portion of the profits from the sale of Ojon go directly to the Miskito Indian tribes to help preserve their traditional lifestyle as well as the rainforests of the region.

“Try Me” costs $45 and is Sephora- exclusive, found in stores and at sephora.com

Dream: You can charm any guy with a sexy stare.

Reality: You’re looking for Mr. Right Now, but no man’s taking the bait.

Solution: In her book Superflirt, author Tracey Cox reveals simple tricks that single girls can use to get him hooked.

Hang Around A Lot … Then Be Unavailable

The truth is, the more you interact with a guy the more he’ll like you. So spend lots of time with him. Then, just when you’re sure you’ve won him over, start being a little less available. This will only make him want you more.

Don’t Do Nice Things For Him, Let Him Do Nice Things For You

When you’re into a guy, you like doing thoughtful things for him. Yet once the gift or gesture has been given, you feel like you’ve made yourself more vulnerable. So, let him be the one to put himself out there.

Give Him The Eye

Scientific studies show that couples deeply “in love” gaze adoringly at each other 75 percent of the time. If you do the same, as he talks to you, you’ll trick his brain: The long gaze will trigger the release of phenylethyamine (PEA). This is what makes our palms sweat, our stomachs flip and our hearts race. Therefore he’ll feel like he’s in love.

Don’t Look Away

If someone else enters your conversation, don’t break your eye contact with him. Keep your eyes locked on his. Once you drag your eyes away, do it slowly and reluctantly toward the other person. But let your eyes bounce back to his, indicating that you’re more interested in him.

Does this sound ridiculous? Maybe. See for yourself. Order a copy from www.amazon.com.