Threesome Rules

My boyfriend wants to have a threesome with me and one of my female friends. But he knew from the beginning that I didn’t want to do this and neither does my friend. But he won’t stop talking about it and now he is mad at me, because I don’t want to do it. What do I do now?

By Candy

Threesome rule #1: Never do it with a friend! You’re asking for trouble. So I’m glad you’re deciding against it. If you want to avoid the awkwardness or intense jealousy, don’t involve your circle of friends in your sexual endeavors. Your boyfriend is selfish. If he can’t get over your negative feelings on the subject, he obviously doesn&#8217t care about your comfort. He clearly isn’t listening to the fact that neither you nor your friend wants to participate. But then again, are you not interested in doing it with her or just completely not into it? If you’re thinking about a threesome with a random chick, tell him that to buy some time. But there’s no sense in bringing him false hope, if you&#8217re totally not interested. Threesomes are fun, but comfort is key. If the comfort level isn’t there, the satisfaction won’t be there either.

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