Is He Gay?

By Candy

I have been with this guy for a few months, and we started having sex, which is quite good. But the other day we went into a sex shop together to look for some toys, and he suggested I try wearing a strap-on to pleasure him!? Do some men like a woman to use one or could he possibly be gay and afraid to come out of the closet?

I find it ironic that a lot of the questions I get asked by girls are about their man’s sexual behavior, which is almost always … strange. Nonetheless, that’s what I’m here for, so here are my thoughts. I believe that you may be right about your guy’s preference, but he hasn’t gone Lance Bass quite yet. I’m sorry, but I don’t know a straight guy that would even suggest anal penetration like that. Curiosity is one thing, kinky is another, but taking it from your girl’s strap-on is just not heterosexual. Though I’ve never been tempted to engage in such an act, I hesitate to think what he’ll say if you bring this up as a question of sexual preference. It blows my mind to think that a heterosexual male can walk into a sex shop, skip over the toys to please you and jump to pleasuring his anal cavity. Contact me in a few years when People magazine runs a story on his shocking homosexual lifestyle while you sit back and say “I knew it.”