He’s a Virgin

By Candy

I’ve been dating this guy for about two months and he’s a virgin. How do I bring up sex without sounding like a whore?

It all depends on his feelings concerning sex. If he’s a virgin because of religion, it may be a bit difficult. Talk about it outside the bedroom first. When couples bring up topics about sex in bed, answers may seem forced or influenced by instant gratification. In other words, there is no stronger way to put someone on the spot than to catch them in a vulnerable state, like naked. He may be a bit embarrassed, so bring it up in an encouraging way. Keep the conversation mature and intelligent. Making fun of him or asking him revealing questions will only make him hesitant. Maybe, you will have to just go out and find someone else.

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