Give Him the Finger

By Candy

I was watching an old episode of Sex & the City where Miranda and Samantha were discussing putting a finger into a guy’s butt. Samantha said that all guys like it, but don’t admit it. Is that true, and should I consider doing it for me and my boyfriend’s anniversary?

As a statement of fact, that area is indeed a pleasure zone, but not for every guy. Everyone has his preference, so take a different approach as opposed to sticking your finger directly in his butt. Run your finger around the area. Go back and forth over the area WITHOUT insertion. This will allow you to play off his movement and feedback. He’ll let you know if he’s enjoying it. At first, he may be a bit startled, but be gentle and see how he reacts.

Don’t focus on his rectum for an extended period of time. Touch everywhere below the belt and come back to it every so often so you can differentiate the feedback. The best time to see if he enjoys anything near that area would be during oral sex. He’s relaxed, turned on and sensitive. Good luck and remember that sexual compatibility is also communicated through sounds and movement. If you both are aware of each other, you’ll have a hot sex life.

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