When He Tests You

My boyfriend and I went to the same bar we always go to with our friends, and a couple of new younger kids were there. After a few drinks, my boyfriend was hitting on one of the new girls — with me and all of his friends right there! He’s always been totally loyal, so what the hell is going on?

By Candy

He’s getting a little cocky and testing the limits of your relationship. If he thinks he can get away with it then he’ll continue to flirt around. Hey, who doesn’t like a little attention from the opposite sex? Doesn’t mean it’s right, and it doesn’t make your feel good either. Tell him how you feel, and call him out on it. Also make it clear that if he’s interested in someone else just say the word and you’re gone. He needs to know you’ll be out the door if he cheats. The thought of losing you should make him correct his behavior. If he’s still doing it after the talk, kick him to the curb. He’s halfway to cheating already and there’s no sign he’s stopping, so why wait around to put yourself through the heartbreak?