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	<title>Comments on: He Has Girlfriend. Should I Care?</title>
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		<title>By: shanice</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/04/10/he-has-girlfriend-should-i-care/#comment-5937</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 13:08:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[okay..girl im been the other woman many times 
 
yes i have felt bad about it sometimes...well not even that..i&#039;ve thought about what i&#039;ve done..but it never mattered to me.. 
 
Its not your fault he is willing to cheat on his girl for u.you didnt make him. Let them be dogs! 
 
thats the positive side 
 
but then again you would be hurt if you were with someone and there was another woman 
 
see its pros and cons about the situation! ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>okay..girl im been the other woman many times </p>
<p>yes i have felt bad about it sometimes&#8230;well not even that..i&#039;ve thought about what i&#039;ve done..but it never mattered to me.. </p>
<p>Its not your fault he is willing to cheat on his girl for u.you didnt make him. Let them be dogs! </p>
<p>thats the positive side </p>
<p>but then again you would be hurt if you were with someone and there was another woman </p>
<p>see its pros and cons about the situation!</p>
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		<title>By: gregory dykes</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2008 22:16:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Confused</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Dec 2007 21:40:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok I REALLY REALLY feel just like this. 
 
I met this boy about a month ago and then i seen him again a party like idk 2 weeks ago or something. And i mean long story short I drove him home that night and we just talked. He has a girlfriend and I am single. He really likes me accually he wanted to kiss me and he confessed that later that night on the phone with me. So ever since then we have seen each other alot but last night we had our first kiss.But idk if I should feel bad or not. It was a great kiss like the kind u have to stop before it goes to far. We have even talked about going a little further. But I mean him and his girlfriend are going through a hard time and they are on the verge or breaking up. I have been hurt VERY badly before so i know how it feels to be cheated on and I said I would never wish that pain on anyone. He told me last night he would never tell her about kissing me because he doesnt want to hurt her. But yet he still wants to continue this thing that we have going. 
 
idk im so confused because as we continue doing this his girlfriend goes to college out of town and me and him are bound to spend more time together So all these feelings we have. What do you do with them they cant go anywhere we just remain friends. Unless HE DUMPS HER ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok I REALLY REALLY feel just like this. </p>
<p>I met this boy about a month ago and then i seen him again a party like idk 2 weeks ago or something. And i mean long story short I drove him home that night and we just talked. He has a girlfriend and I am single. He really likes me accually he wanted to kiss me and he confessed that later that night on the phone with me. So ever since then we have seen each other alot but last night we had our first kiss.But idk if I should feel bad or not. It was a great kiss like the kind u have to stop before it goes to far. We have even talked about going a little further. But I mean him and his girlfriend are going through a hard time and they are on the verge or breaking up. I have been hurt VERY badly before so i know how it feels to be cheated on and I said I would never wish that pain on anyone. He told me last night he would never tell her about kissing me because he doesnt want to hurt her. But yet he still wants to continue this thing that we have going. </p>
<p>idk im so confused because as we continue doing this his girlfriend goes to college out of town and me and him are bound to spend more time together So all these feelings we have. What do you do with them they cant go anywhere we just remain friends. Unless HE DUMPS HER</p>
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		<title>By: shauna</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2007 19:16:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am sort of in the same situation. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend and a child. I knew from the first day we seen each other that something was in the air. Chemistry? It felt different. I began to get thrilled when I seen him. We never spoke a word to each other and it seems we never had to. I could feel him and he felt me. Finally,after a year I confronted him. Asked him why he has never spoken to me. It was then I found out he had a girlfriend and a child. I confessed that I had a boyfriend as well but, there was definatly something between us. I know he likes me, I can feel it! But he claims to be doing the right thing by not pursuing me. I&#039;ve ran that through my head so many ways. Yes! he is doing the right thing! In every which way. Not only do I like him I also respect him! Not to many men would resist the temptation, especially when some feelings are present. I&#039;m confused now! it is like the forbidden fruit. I want him! give me some advice cause I&#039;m not satisfied with my own answers.... 
 
thanks 
 
shauna ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am sort of in the same situation. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend and a child. I knew from the first day we seen each other that something was in the air. Chemistry? It felt different. I began to get thrilled when I seen him. We never spoke a word to each other and it seems we never had to. I could feel him and he felt me. Finally,after a year I confronted him. Asked him why he has never spoken to me. It was then I found out he had a girlfriend and a child. I confessed that I had a boyfriend as well but, there was definatly something between us. I know he likes me, I can feel it! But he claims to be doing the right thing by not pursuing me. I&#039;ve ran that through my head so many ways. Yes! he is doing the right thing! In every which way. Not only do I like him I also respect him! Not to many men would resist the temptation, especially when some feelings are present. I&#039;m confused now! it is like the forbidden fruit. I want him! give me some advice cause I&#039;m not satisfied with my own answers&#8230;. </p>
<p>thanks </p>
<p>shauna</p>
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