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	<title>Comments on: A Guide for Guys: Why We Fake It</title>
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		<title>By: Star</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/05/21/a-guide-for-guys-why-we-fake-it/#comment-50104</link>
		<dc:creator>Star</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 23:48:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I disagree that men don&#039;t care. Some say they don&#039;t but every man I&#039;ve ever ran into was absolutely crushed that he couldn&#039;t get me off. He wanted to do it and he cared more about that then getting off himself. And I just couldn&#039;t let the poor boy down and make him think something was wrong just because I couldn&#039;t get off.

And no, I&#039;m not offended by this &quot;garbage&quot; as Layin the smack down (great name by the way, sounds like someone has a large ego) called it. Those who don&#039;t agree probably just haven&#039;t been in a position where they felt they should fake it. Because the problem with the human race is that they all love to run their mouths and call each other sluts to hide the fact that the person doing the name calling usually a rich snob or a slut themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I disagree that men don&#8217;t care. Some say they don&#8217;t but every man I&#8217;ve ever ran into was absolutely crushed that he couldn&#8217;t get me off. He wanted to do it and he cared more about that then getting off himself. And I just couldn&#8217;t let the poor boy down and make him think something was wrong just because I couldn&#8217;t get off.</p>
<p>And no, I&#8217;m not offended by this &#8220;garbage&#8221; as Layin the smack down (great name by the way, sounds like someone has a large ego) called it. Those who don&#8217;t agree probably just haven&#8217;t been in a position where they felt they should fake it. Because the problem with the human race is that they all love to run their mouths and call each other sluts to hide the fact that the person doing the name calling usually a rich snob or a slut themselves.</p>
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		<title>By: He Said/She Said: You Oughta Know : College Candy</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/05/21/a-guide-for-guys-why-we-fake-it/#comment-50070</link>
		<dc:creator>He Said/She Said: You Oughta Know : College Candy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 20:01:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] no doubt make my life (and the life of the girl who came along after me) so much easier&#8230;and pleasure-filled. Or things that I never got the chance to say because the boy decided to break up with me via email [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] no doubt make my life (and the life of the girl who came along after me) so much easier&#8230;and pleasure-filled. Or things that I never got the chance to say because the boy decided to break up with me via email [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Layin the smack down</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/05/21/a-guide-for-guys-why-we-fake-it/#comment-100</link>
		<dc:creator>Layin the smack down</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 07:15:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>girls who fake it are immature sluts really..  i mean c&#039;mon. when in a meaningful relationship why the fuck would u want to fake anything? Im pissed off at this article its so stupid and really makes women seem dumb, just like all those cosmo magazines etc. like seriously , i guess women are too stupid to ask their partners what gets them off.. any woman should be offended by this garbage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>girls who fake it are immature sluts really..  i mean c&#8217;mon. when in a meaningful relationship why the fuck would u want to fake anything? Im pissed off at this article its so stupid and really makes women seem dumb, just like all those cosmo magazines etc. like seriously , i guess women are too stupid to ask their partners what gets them off.. any woman should be offended by this garbage.</p>
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		<title>By: tell it like it is..</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/05/21/a-guide-for-guys-why-we-fake-it/#comment-99</link>
		<dc:creator>tell it like it is..</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2008 07:59:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Matt shut up.. did u even read any of that crap she put down?



If so u will tell that she dont really care about telling u for some reason. Y should u get worked up about it? i know i dont give a crap..

this is what i say.. if u have a itch tell me where to scratch or i cant do f all for u.



so if u dont tell me what u want shut the hell up and leave it.. FULL FING STOP!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Matt shut up.. did u even read any of that crap she put down?</p>
<p>If so u will tell that she dont really care about telling u for some reason. Y should u get worked up about it? i know i dont give a crap..</p>
<p>this is what i say.. if u have a itch tell me where to scratch or i cant do f all for u.</p>
<p>so if u dont tell me what u want shut the hell up and leave it.. FULL FING STOP!</p>
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		<title>By: nude0007</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/05/21/a-guide-for-guys-why-we-fake-it/#comment-98</link>
		<dc:creator>nude0007</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 16:38:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Women who like to have sex are not sluts and are wonderful!  Men (or women) who call these women sluts have no respect for themselves or others.  People who go into sex only wanting to please themselves are missing the point and a far greater experience. It makes me feel great when I know I can give someone else pleasure!  WOW!  what an awesome thing to be able to do!



FAKING IT?  Bad all around.  I think that the men who are only out to get their rocks off are decreasing in number.  Of course, young men are often like that because they only think of themselves.  A more mature man knows that giving pleasure is far more fun and satisfying.

telling a guy what to do doesn&#039;t really spoil the moment, the body will respond and things will be better.  Hopefully next time the guy will remember what he did right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Women who like to have sex are not sluts and are wonderful!  Men (or women) who call these women sluts have no respect for themselves or others.  People who go into sex only wanting to please themselves are missing the point and a far greater experience. It makes me feel great when I know I can give someone else pleasure!  WOW!  what an awesome thing to be able to do!</p>
<p>FAKING IT?  Bad all around.  I think that the men who are only out to get their rocks off are decreasing in number.  Of course, young men are often like that because they only think of themselves.  A more mature man knows that giving pleasure is far more fun and satisfying.</p>
<p>telling a guy what to do doesn&#8217;t really spoil the moment, the body will respond and things will be better.  Hopefully next time the guy will remember what he did right.</p>
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		<title>By: Darren</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/05/21/a-guide-for-guys-why-we-fake-it/#comment-97</link>
		<dc:creator>Darren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Oct 2007 22:51:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dis girl a slut, nobody care if a slut fakes it or not, I dont agree with rob but most guys dont care thats bad but its true. sluts are worthless.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dis girl a slut, nobody care if a slut fakes it or not, I dont agree with rob but most guys dont care thats bad but its true. sluts are worthless.</p>
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		<title>By: Cory</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/05/21/a-guide-for-guys-why-we-fake-it/#comment-96</link>
		<dc:creator>Cory</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 06:04:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The only problem I see with faking it, and this is more for all the girls in long term relationships than you single girls, is that when you are forced to fake it, you are making the guy believe that he is doing something right (to save his ego right?), but the problem is that he wont have any reason to try doing it any differently, hence, you will have to keep faking it.



Ladies, when he &quot;puts her there&quot; don&#039;t be afraid to guide him a little bit (body language, directing with hands, not barking orders), it wont slow things down enough to where either of you will want to stop the whole thing, and it will pay off in the long run.



Trust me, his ego is not THAT small, he wants to know how to please you, so show him, and he will come through...and you can say goodbye to your days of faking it - which we both know you don&#039;t want to have to do.



If you&#039;re having consistent trouble reaching climax, then here&#039;s a secret option number b that you might not have ever thought of: It might not be all the guys fault.  Sex is really something the couple needs to experiment on together, the female can&#039;t have an orgasm unwillingly, so keep in mind that you have control of your muscles, and the little things are what make it sexy (hint: when he&#039;s on top of you, grab his ass, and pull him in tightly, and now you have control, and you can move your pelvis at your own pace, so that you can feel every movement).  I&#039;ll be damned if you guys aren&#039;t having orgasms, damnit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The only problem I see with faking it, and this is more for all the girls in long term relationships than you single girls, is that when you are forced to fake it, you are making the guy believe that he is doing something right (to save his ego right?), but the problem is that he wont have any reason to try doing it any differently, hence, you will have to keep faking it.</p>
<p>Ladies, when he &#8220;puts her there&#8221; don&#8217;t be afraid to guide him a little bit (body language, directing with hands, not barking orders), it wont slow things down enough to where either of you will want to stop the whole thing, and it will pay off in the long run.</p>
<p>Trust me, his ego is not THAT small, he wants to know how to please you, so show him, and he will come through&#8230;and you can say goodbye to your days of faking it &#8211; which we both know you don&#8217;t want to have to do.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re having consistent trouble reaching climax, then here&#8217;s a secret option number b that you might not have ever thought of: It might not be all the guys fault.  Sex is really something the couple needs to experiment on together, the female can&#8217;t have an orgasm unwillingly, so keep in mind that you have control of your muscles, and the little things are what make it sexy (hint: when he&#8217;s on top of you, grab his ass, and pull him in tightly, and now you have control, and you can move your pelvis at your own pace, so that you can feel every movement).  I&#8217;ll be damned if you guys aren&#8217;t having orgasms, damnit.</p>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/05/21/a-guide-for-guys-why-we-fake-it/#comment-95</link>
		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 19:43:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with Major Bob and Rick, some of us dont need it faked, and you dont need to fake it.



Unless your a heartless ladykiller like rob usually the girl your with you care about and you want them to be pleased...them being pleased...pleases us...and no faking it doesn&#039;t take care of that. So if you&#039;re with a guy that can&#039;t get the job done fuckin tell him how to do it...unless the problem is the inadequacy of his member its almost 100% of the time fixable.



btw, guys do fake it too...i&#039;ve done it...&#039;whiskey dick&#039; is a big contributing factor. A long day of work or school is too...believe it or not...sometimes guys just aren&#039;t in the mood...



And regardless of what sneaky tricks you think your playing on us...any guy who&#039;s gotten more than one girl to orgasm can tell when your faking it...



The usual response to this is to finish up and leave...ever wonder why some guys dont call back girls? theres your answer...faking it and being discovered hurts their ego, and they&#039;re view of you FAR more than not getting there. Most guys know it&#039;s a task to get a woman off, and in some cases very difficult...this they understand and have learned to live with. So don&#039;t kid yourself and think your doing us a favor by faking it...cause your not doing yourself much of a favor either.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Major Bob and Rick, some of us dont need it faked, and you dont need to fake it.</p>
<p>Unless your a heartless ladykiller like rob usually the girl your with you care about and you want them to be pleased&#8230;them being pleased&#8230;pleases us&#8230;and no faking it doesn&#8217;t take care of that. So if you&#8217;re with a guy that can&#8217;t get the job done fuckin tell him how to do it&#8230;unless the problem is the inadequacy of his member its almost 100% of the time fixable.</p>
<p>btw, guys do fake it too&#8230;i&#8217;ve done it&#8230;&#8217;whiskey dick&#8217; is a big contributing factor. A long day of work or school is too&#8230;believe it or not&#8230;sometimes guys just aren&#8217;t in the mood&#8230;</p>
<p>And regardless of what sneaky tricks you think your playing on us&#8230;any guy who&#8217;s gotten more than one girl to orgasm can tell when your faking it&#8230;</p>
<p>The usual response to this is to finish up and leave&#8230;ever wonder why some guys dont call back girls? theres your answer&#8230;faking it and being discovered hurts their ego, and they&#8217;re view of you FAR more than not getting there. Most guys know it&#8217;s a task to get a woman off, and in some cases very difficult&#8230;this they understand and have learned to live with. So don&#8217;t kid yourself and think your doing us a favor by faking it&#8230;cause your not doing yourself much of a favor either.</p>
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		<title>By: Rob</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/05/21/a-guide-for-guys-why-we-fake-it/#comment-94</link>
		<dc:creator>Rob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2007 02:03:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here is a great angle...fake all you want, I don&#039;t care.



As long as I get to cum, I couldn&#039;t care if you recite the pledge of allegiance. Knock yourself out, scream, yell, make all the groans/moans/squeeks that make you feel like a natural woman - i came. Put on a show, and I&#039;ll buy a ticket next time too, as long as I get to cum again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is a great angle&#8230;fake all you want, I don&#8217;t care.</p>
<p>As long as I get to cum, I couldn&#8217;t care if you recite the pledge of allegiance. Knock yourself out, scream, yell, make all the groans/moans/squeeks that make you feel like a natural woman &#8211; i came. Put on a show, and I&#8217;ll buy a ticket next time too, as long as I get to cum again.</p>
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		<title>By: Emily</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2007/05/21/a-guide-for-guys-why-we-fake-it/#comment-93</link>
		<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jun 2007 17:26:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Giude for Guys: Why We Fake It: because we&#039;re too scared or immature to actually grow up and tell you.



Anyone who is so scared to tell their partner shouldn&#039;t be with that partner in the first place. And anyone who is, isn&#039;t going to get orgasms often anyhow because they can&#039;t relax enough in bed to actually open up and tell their partner how to get them off.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Giude for Guys: Why We Fake It: because we&#8217;re too scared or immature to actually grow up and tell you.</p>
<p>Anyone who is so scared to tell their partner shouldn&#8217;t be with that partner in the first place. And anyone who is, isn&#8217;t going to get orgasms often anyhow because they can&#8217;t relax enough in bed to actually open up and tell their partner how to get them off.</p>
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