Comments on: Beware the Best Girl Friend

By: jo

jo — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 01:03:53 +0000

Gahhh same problem over here omg!!!!!!!! I really dislike her and she really gets on my nerves at times!!! B4 my boyfriend and I got together, they were already bestfriends, with all their flirtacious/sexually related pda tweets to each other + drinking sessions overnight meet ups etc. She has a really bad attitude and is known to be a major scheming bitch even with her now non-existent girlfriends(they ditched her cos she went too overboard w the bitching) and she has something against my clique!!!!! My boyfriend tells me that she’s just a really good friend and nothing else but when he starts calling her “bestfriend” or some “cute names” even though he now tells me that I’m his bestfriend, I can’t help feeling angry and jealous. I don’t want to be the jealous-at-everything type of girlfriend but regarding her, I can’t stop myself. My boyfriend knows that I dislike her and well, sometimes he understands and at other times, he scolds me for not being understanding and that I have a male bestfriend. But he doesn’t seem to get that I have boundaries that I don’t cross w my male bestfriend and that includes flirting, be it opening or just via texting. I really don’t know what to do ):

By: Whitney

Whitney — Mon, 27 Feb 2012 03:34:33 +0000

That's basically the story of my relationship. Everything would be PERFECT if she would just disappear. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend HAS chosen me. We broke up for a week once (Mainly because of our arguments over his "friend") and she actually came on to him just two days afterwards, thinking we'd never get back together. She had kept her feelings a secret for him for a year while we were dating and they kissed and talked about dating. Needless to say I was pissed, but when he heard I had come to visit his parents once more to drop off some of his stuff he came running over to my house in a flash when his mom told him.

I was shocked, but he confessed everything that had happened and cried over how guilty he felt and how he regretted it. I couldn't really stay mad at him over it because I pretty much went and kissed another old boyfriend of mine the same day he and her kissed so I had no right to really yell. We were both stupid and wanted to forget each other but couldn't, so we got back together and made love all that night ;P Our relationship is a lot better now.

However, he's still friends with that girl and now we both hate each other. I always felt negative feelings around her though. She was always so rude and vulgar around me and his family! She never even tried to start a friendship with me either. I tried until that old boyfriend of mine told me that she was trying to get "dirt" on me. After that I despised seeing her every time she would come over to hang out. I'm just glad I don't have to hide it anymore.

I hate their friendship, but they are spending less and less time together now i've noticed. They still text of course (I've accidentally read a few….eh) But he's not keeping anything from me. I know he would choose me, no matter what. She was the only friend of his I ever had a problem with. Girl wise anyway, lol. I love the rest of his friends that are girls, but her.

By: xxx

xxx — Wed, 11 May 2011 17:44:10 +0000

wow this has made me feel a billion times worse..

By: Tiffany

Tiffany — Wed, 16 Jun 2010 19:08:36 +0000

My boyfriend has been friends with this girl Morgan for a while now, ever since our sophomore year of high school. He and I have been dating since our freshman year of high school, but ever since she became his friend things have gotten tense. She’s always calling him about her latest breakup or the most recent whore thing she’s done. Now he’s wanting to move out into an apartment, and since he makes shit money and so do I, he asked Morgan to become our roommate. I backed out, because I can’t stand her and why should I pay for an apartment that I will hate my roommates? Well, he’s fine with that–he’s still going to live with her. And he told her that I think she’s a whore, so now I can’t even come over to the apartment. But HE also thinks she’s a whore, he’s said it lots of times and agreed with me when I said it. He only told her now so that she would be mad at me. We’ve been dating for 6 years, but he’s basically picked her over me even though he “would never do anything with her”. This bitch has ruined our relationship and he’s defending it. So watch out for those “gal pals” because they will sneak up years later and take your man away!!

By: niki

niki — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 18:14:02 +0000

same problem! i was dating my boyfriend since 2/14/07 (2 n a half yrs). his "girl – friend" text him random texts like "no — i like to lick dick :]" or he will text her complaining about me! i think she is a whore but hay thats just me. he says just friends and he only loves me.. what should i do? HELP!

By: prabhu

prabhu — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 11:36:14 +0000

9843530719 u can make a call

By: anon

anon — Sat, 29 Mar 2008 07:19:54 +0000

Ur absolutely right.I was that 'trusting gf' who s now out of the rel with that jerk while he s with his best girl friend and claims he never cheated.

By: Monique

Monique — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 05:22:40 +0000

Dorthy and Mari…HMMM.

By: Dorothy

Dorothy — Sat, 01 Mar 2008 20:25:46 +0000

OK so my boyfriend has a best friend at college, who also lives like 15mins away when hes home. Its spring break for them (not for me) and him and his best girlfriend and three other people went down to a beach house for the whole week…I was told not to worry there probably just going to sit around and drink, play beer pong, and hotub!…I was just hoping to get any thoughts on this situation.

Side note: He always reassures me that he would never cheat on me.

By: Mari

Mari — Mon, 01 Oct 2007 22:57:44 +0000

I hate my boyfriends best girl friend. Not only does she come crying to him when her (long distance) boyfriend does somthing shitty but she talked about her dislike for me from the start. She's full of hideous veiled insults.We've talked about it and all I get is a "thats just heather" "she doesn't know shes doing it" "shes my best friend shes just teasing" I love my boyfriend, we're moving in together. But I just can't seem to move past and disreguard this girl. I want her and her bitchface out of my relationship.