Comments on: Yep. I Got Dumped. Fantastic.

By: Elizabeth

Elizabeth — Thu, 10 Mar 2011 22:56:13 +0000

Oh I know exactly how you girls feel! I was with this guy for 2 and a half years and I thought things were going great. The family seemed to love me, the friends thought we were good together and he even used the L word (that's right, the o-v-e one). And just when I thought it couldn't get any better, a month ago he ended it just out of the blue over a quick phone call. And he pulled the "talk to you later" "no you don't have to say that" "okay. bye" thing too. And before I knew it, he was with someone new! I mean really? What a scum bag! But nothing helped more than a good boy-bashing session with my BFFs and some sugary desserts.

By: Jenna

Jenna — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 04:53:02 +0000

And here I was thinking that the world is against me. All these stories I can relate to unfortunately, I was just dumped this week by a guy I was head over heels in love with.

But My ex couldn't even be bothered breaking up with me, he just cut me off completely – stopped calling/emailing/texting. Just like that, no call, no closure. We were together for nearly 2 months. He was moving to fast for me but the romantic inside me told me to go with it and enjoy falling in love but the realist was saying this doesn't happen in real life and it's just going to end in pain. After only 3 weeks he told me he loved me and even invited me to spend Xmas with his family! He wined and dined me, send beautiful messages about how he just wanted to hold me and keep me safe from the world, how he had found his soulmate. It was great- great sex, great conversions, great times – I gave him everything. and then I woke up one day and that was it…I am laying here going over and over the past 2 months – what did I do wrong!

By: Annie

Annie — Tue, 01 Jun 2010 15:41:21 +0000

This happened to me this weekend. Hell, mine was acting lovey dovey just hours before "realizing something didn't feel right." Uh, can someone explain this to me? This is someone I've known for years, who pursued me, and then 6 weeks into was out with no explanation, was out in a matter of hours. He still can't explain it. So, can someone PLEASE explain to me why this would happen? Is it really possible for someone's feelings to change so drastically in such a short period of time? I am certain there's not another woman in the picture. It was the only thing I could come up with. I would love to know how it is possible to change one's feelings so quickly……

By: Dai

Dai — Sun, 21 Mar 2010 17:17:36 +0000

I totally feel for you, but to me you got it easy, at least when that a-hole broke your heart he actually talked to you about it. I was with the most amazing, beautiful girl in the whole world for 3 months, and out of nowhere she starts acting strange and begins talking to, and openly flirting with her ex-boyfriend, right in front of me. She stops accepting my compliments, she stops laughing at my jokes, she stops "wrestling" with me (actually shudders every time I touched her), and every time I tried talking to her, she started giving me sarcasm. That went on for a few weeks, and whenever I let her know that I was hurt, she would just get mad at me and ignore me for days at a time. Oh yeah, and here's something important: I was infatuated with her for two years before we started dating, and she was the only girl I ever really liked, and also my first and only girlfriend. I tried to talk to her about it, but she would just ignore me, I asked her friends for help, but they just made everything worse. Then, all of a sudden, nothing. She doesn't even look at me anymore. I still love her so much, and I just can't do anything about it, and the only way I could ever be happy again is if either she comes back to me, or if she has a long lost twin somewhere out there who's exactly like her. FML.

By: malous

malous — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 01:27:18 +0000

OH MY GOD! There are other people in this world with the same story??? I thought I was the only girl who fell in love in a few weeks, got worshiped by the guy and got dumped so abruptly.. and over text message too… He would tell me that I'm the love of his life, how he'd love me forever.. and then all of a sudden he disappeared for a few days and finally texted me saying its too serious too fast, besides he never meant any of the things he said and i trapped him into saying them.. how the f do someone trap someone else into saying sweet things? I was absolutely infatuated with this guy, he was everything I ever wanted, I held nothing back and gave him my all. Aaaaand …I got dumped 6 weeks after I met him -we started dating immediately, i thought it was love at first sight, it was meant to be, and half a dozen other cheesy things in the book-. I can't believe this happened to other people too.. I bawled, was numb and not eating for days, and I still after a couple weeks I miss him like crazy.. But what can I do, I will forget this and move on, and will NOT take any mans word for their love again. When a man catches a bird with his mouth, swims across the atlantic ocean with his hands tied behind his back just to prove his love, then my response will be "i'll think about it!"

By: sue

sue — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 12:26:00 +0000

ha!…man this actually feels good to know im not the only one feelin this way!…on jan 1st 2010!…new years eve…my boyfriend of 3 and a half years ( 8 months of long distance) tells me he wants a break!…till i transfer to the same place…he wants to reserve me but not be exclusive!…i mean!…are all guys like this?…he says he still loves me and want to have a future and everything but wants the break…as in no commitment…wow!…i honestly dont know hot to feel though about this…

By: Alex

Alex — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 07:26:28 +0000

Gawd, I got dumped last night. On gmail cat. I find dumping someone without going to their faces is extremely… Well, rude. I cried my eyes out, but now I see that there are bigger things to worry about, like the huge geography test today. I've been in those shoes, and worn them too many times. It was so quick, just like, "oh, we'd be better off if we were just friends, blah blah blah I suck, everyone else hates me I'm a d*ck" ok, maybe I added that last part, but you get the point.

By: Mary

Mary — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 16:23:22 +0000

I just got dumped too. The guy wasn't totally my type but I figured I would give it a try anyway. So after 2 months of spending time together and of course getting intimate, he tells me he will come over tomorrow and bring dinner and never showed up and never called me. The looser supposedly does not have a phone…red flag! Well it really hurts a lot. I have been having trouble sleeping, can't stop thinking about it and feel like crap. At least I know I will get over it. Another notch on the headboard.

By: Angelica

Angelica — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 22:48:06 +0000

Wow I am so glad I found this website. I got dumped about 3 weeks ago.we were talking for about 7 months and he was like no other guy I had dated before. That's why I felt like it was going to work. So I developed feelings for him and he did as well. One night I got drunk and called him and he thought that was disrespectful so he said it was over and ignored my calls and text. I begged him that I was sorry and asked for another chance but he said he couldn't. I felt so crushed and cried. Since then I havnt been able to have another drink but I could use a corona right now lol.

By: madzness

madzness — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 03:42:48 +0000

OMIGOD yourstory is EXACTLY what happened to me, down to the very last detail, even the breakup was similarly abrupt! i never thought that was anyone else there who had my situation. that is to say, a lot of people on line got dumped and were upset, but they had really long relationships, so i felt kindof sily posting about a two month relationhip, but i was so happy to find this! anyway, what sux is now, two months later, i still see him everywhere since we go to the same university, and i still have feelings for him-which really sux