Is It OK To Ask?

nervous girlThere are a million things we wish we could ask our boyfriends and for one reason or another, we feel like it’s not appropriate to do so.

Is this normal and healthy or is it adding unnecessary strain to a relationship?

Is there such thing as knowing (or asking) too much?

We here at College Candy think that making what you feel or want known is one of the most important things in a relationship but we want to know what you think!

Should you ever ask the following questions to your significant other?

Is it OK to ask your guy…

…to buy tampons for you?

…to help you pay for birth control?

…out on a date?

…to skip a night with the guys?

…to change his hair, clothes or style?

8 Comments on "Is It OK To Ask?"

  1. sara says:
    Mon, 5th Nov 20071:02 pm 

    you should be able to ask your bf anything!

  2. J.S. says:
    Tue, 6th Nov 200710:45 pm 

    If you have a boyfriend that you are having sex with and you can’t ask him to buy condoms or out on a date, you shouldn’t have a boyfriend. Seriously!

  3. Julia says:
    Fri, 16th Nov 20079:39 am 

    I disagree that you should be able to ask your bf anything. There are some things that are still unique to females, that should be kept that way. Otherwise, he might as well just date a dude.

  4. Jules says:
    Mon, 19th Nov 20076:24 pm 

    You should be comfortable with your boyfriend, not trying to hide stuff from him. But for some people, I guess some stuff is personal. I wouldn’t ask him for condoms or tampons if I could get them myself.

  5. Lizzy says:
    Wed, 9th Jan 20083:13 am 

    Maybe, If I had none left and desperately needed them, and then only if I couldn’t go to the shop my self.

  6. V says:
    Tue, 22nd Jan 20086:15 pm 

    BC for one thing is not only the girl’s responsibility. Tampons, are.

    However, I do think you should be able to ask your boyfriend anything…so long as you would answer it yourself.

  7. Al says:
    Wed, 20th Feb 20082:12 am 

    If you ask him to get condoms and he says no, then ask him if a baby would be better haha.

    As for tampons, or anything exclusive to women.. if you need your bf to get something for you, let him know EXACTLY what you want. I mean, makeup products, shampoo, soaps.. jesus, do you need THAT many options??

    Other than that, it depends how comfortable you are with your partner. My girlfriend asks me the strangest things sometimes, but it’s fine.

  8. Al says:
    Wed, 20th Feb 20082:16 am 

    O yeh, and I guess tampons would be personal (I don’t know!), but if you engage in any sexual activity, doesn’t that redefine your.. personal affections??

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