Finding Acceptance in the “Fat”osphere

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Thin may be in on the runways, but the blogosphere is providing heavy men and women with a place to inspire each other–not to try the latest fad diet or lose that last 5 pounds, but to accept themselves as they are.

The fat acceptance movement has been growing steadily in response to the dwindling sizes of models, celebrities, and the average man or women who feels pressured to live up to those unrealistic standards. The primary message behind fat acceptance is one of health, not excess or loss of control. Because tools like BMI calculators do not take into account frame size or muscle percentage, many athletes and other healthy people are categorized as fat or even obese. This has contributed to shock figures like “6 out of 10 Americans are overweight“.

Some doctors, however, are not convinced. They say that the majority of people who are overweight are that way because of their lifestyle. Doctors are afraid that the fat acceptance movement might deter people from trying to lose weight and get healthy. This competes with the fat acceptance notion that some people are fat or skinny the way other people are tall or short.

Either way, the fatosphere can be a positive and empowering place for people who are sick of unhealthy dieting and snide comments about their weight. It’s a way for people who are comfortable with their bodies to push back against the growing pressure to lose weight, and find like-minded friends in the process.

8 Comments on "Finding Acceptance in the “Fat”osphere"

  1. Lauren says:
    Wed, 23rd Jan 200812:10 pm 

    So what you’re saying is that bloggers like you understand genetics and the human body better than doctors do? And that scientists warning about the obesity epidemic are just shallow Michael Moores with poor math? Obesity is one of the leading causes of preventable death in our country, not some improperly measured inconvenience. I love College Candy, but I’m extremely disappointed that you were given the opportunity to be a new writer on this site. Before you start giving advice about getting heart disease, I’d advise you to put down the keyboard and pick up the salad fork.

  2. J - NYU says:
    Wed, 23rd Jan 200812:20 pm 

    CC loves you too, Lauren. :) But this article isn’t defending obesity…it’s explaining a new internet trend.

  3. Anne says:
    Wed, 23rd Jan 20084:25 pm 

    Actually, there is some evidence cropping up now in support of the fat/thin=tall/short school of thought. Yes, scientific evidence. Who knows, 5 years from now we may be reconsidering what “healthy weight” means, if anything.

  4. leebee says:
    Wed, 23rd Jan 200811:59 pm 

    Actually, Lauren, I believe that writer was just writing about what other jounalists have increasingly been writing about lately. The New York Times recently did an article on the “fatosphere”, including some of the best sites on the net.

    I’m an avid reader of these sites (I’m a proud rubenesque, hour-glass shaped gal with curves in all the right places). I find that the sites promote a place for those individuals who are not a model size to feel better about their bodies.

    It’s not a matter of obesity, it’s a matter of loving your body.

  5. hanabira says:
    Thu, 24th Jan 20087:35 am 

    “tools like BMI calculators do not take into account frame size or muscle percentage, many athletes and other healthy people are categorized as fat or even obese”

    - so is beth ditto an athlete now?

  6. Carina says:
    Wed, 30th Jan 20082:19 am 

    Just to put a random comment in here. The girl in the apartment next to mine has a paper on her door that reads “Fat people make the world go round.” Glad she is content but i don’t agree, health issues!!

  7. Jill says:
    Thu, 28th Aug 20088:18 am 

    You guys have seen those videos by Joy Nash, right? She’s both fat AND fabulous. And she loves her body.

    I’m a very short girl, I eat healthy (with some extra fibre, as recommended by my doctor), I exercise, I’m on a medication that changed the look of my body… and guess what. I’m chubby. And I’m certainly okay with being that way.

    I found a photo of myself from four years ago when I was ill. I was on a new medication and I was puking every day for 3 months- and not voluntarily. It was a photo from my 16th birthday and I was so effing skinny… I HATE that photo. It made me sick, seeing myself so thin. My arms were tiny, my rosy apple cheeks had disappeared- and my boobs got so much smaller!

    No thank you. I’ll keep my curves.

  8. Ann says:
    Fri, 29th Aug 20081:28 am 

    True… obesity is an epidemic in this country, that can be easily preventable and cured, let’s call it, through a healthier lifestyle of a HEALTHY diet and exercise. BUT! There are many women out there who live according to this and they’re STILL big. So who’s to say that there isn’t some kind of correlation between tall/short-fat/thin? And what is so wrong with saying, “Hey! This is how I was created. This is how I always have been. I am taking care of my body and I feel OK with how I look.”

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