Get Him to Call You When YOU Want Him To

February 15, 2008     Posted in Buzz

24457516.jpgMy girlfriends are always freakin’ out about dudes. And I can’t really blame them. After all, it is rare that you find a grown up one. And it is even more rare that you find an emotionally available one. (Who is also grown up).


By Elizabeth

It’s no wonder that so many girls obsess over the contact and signals they receive from a guy they have recently met or started a sort of relationship with. After all, this is usually a guy’s chance to pull out every asshole card he has. And how the hell are girls supposed to read that?

Either you’re dealing with a genuine asshole… Or you’re dealing with a nice guy who’s playing his asshole cards to win his upper hand with you.

And lets face it, if you catch the nice guy who is playing the nice cards…well, we never want that guy, anyway.

So how do you get him to drop his horseshit facade and call you back when YOU want him to call back?

Well, there are actually some pretty basic things to keep in mind:

1. Guys want girls who they don’t think they fully have. So when he decides to text or call you; wait at least two hours to respond. I know. Rude. But believe me, at first, this kind of stuff seals your deal as the master of the upper hand.

2. When you finally do talk to him, be sure that you’re the one who cuts off the conversation. Don’t let it carry on too long…always leave him wanting more. Because he is a boy and this is all a game. I know, I know, it’s frustrating.

3. Keep your phone off sometimes. It is a flat out FACT that girls love to obsess. So prevent yourself from obsessing at least one hour out of the day by turning that tormenting device OFF. It will drive you crazy at first, but I SWEAR you’ll find it liberating later.

And if these tactics don’t make him call you back sooner than later…DROP IT. My philosophy has always been that if he’s screwing with you in the beginning, he’ll have you begging later on. No one likes a beggar, girls.

12 Comments on "Get Him to Call You When YOU Want Him To"

  1. Myra says:
    Sat, 16th Feb 200810:12 pm 

    umm what's wrong with nice guys playing the nice card???? that statement is so silly. I prefer a nice guy playing his nice card any day over a jerk.

  2. tina says:
    Sat, 16th Feb 200810:46 pm 

    Playing games is for girls who have to trick a guy into being with them…

  3. LANA says:
    Sat, 16th Feb 200811:06 pm 

    PERSONALLY I HATE PLAYING GAMES I FEEL AS THOUGH IF A GUY IS INTO YOU HE WILL CALL WHENEVER HE THINKS OF YOU, EWHICH SHOULD BE OFTEN

  4. Al says:
    Tue, 19th Feb 20089:06 pm 

    Well I can't speak for all guys, but I for one don't call my girlfriend (or anyone) unless I have something to say. Maybe drop a little txt msg once in awhile. No big deal. What I DO know is that guys do not play games. If they're assholes and they don't call you, they're not interested. If they're nice guys and not interested, they'll tell you straight up. If their too-nice guys (pussies), they won't call you either way. But.. if you play little phone games with any guy, they're not gonna put up with it.

  5. Al says:
    Tue, 19th Feb 20089:22 pm 

    If any girls are like this, you should research OCD. Seriously, it might be a real issue for you.

  6. Janers says:
    Thu, 21st Feb 200811:49 pm 

    you know, this used to be the way that things were done. As old-fashioned, sexist, OCD, whatever, that it seems, it used to work. Thing is, is still seems to for many.

    Ever pined over something and then after you got it, it said in a corner or drawer? Same goes with relationships sometimes.

    Read "Rules" if you want more info on the subject,…or ask your grandmother

    though

    I have to say I'm a semi-hypocrite

    who has the will-power to play games (constantly)?

    I can't even look away from that chocolate chip cookie plate when I'm trying to lose a few pounds

  7. Chris says:
    Wed, 21st May 20088:56 pm 

    You have a life to live. Quit watching the phone, the clock and waiting. If he's into you and worth your time, he'll communicate. Their boys: simply no more complicated than girls.

  8. Elein says:
    Wed, 22nd Oct 200811:12 am 

    Men who r intrested will cal-constantly.those who aint wnt.ha!i stopd callin my boyfie n hez never cald back..2 months later..1 yr relationship.sorry gals.

  9. Diana says:
    Sun, 14th Jun 20092:01 pm 

    I really love him and tried to make him jealous,many years ago ,he married some body else. iI want him back. I married some one that abused me, now vI'm divorced, I want him back. It's been over 15 years.what do I do?I've been by myself for 10 years.Is there any hope? how do I let him know with out running him off agin? he remarried also.

  10. Diana says:
    Sun, 14th Jun 20092:07 pm 

    I want him back ! I was too aloff and tried to make him jealous,we both remarried, now I divorced from a man that abused me, have been by my self over 10 years ,it's been over 15 years since we were together.how do I get him interested,and call me ? I want him for good,forever,and ever ,amen!!

  11. stacia says:
    Thu, 3rd Sep 20095:35 am 

    sometimes unintensionall my phone is turned off and that's when hes calls and if he calls and dont get through…… he just has to see me later… guess that's what i'll have to do him….

  12. Ruky says:
    Tue, 21st Feb 20122:50 pm 

    I met dis guy i fall in love so deeply in love with,now he is finding it difficult to call me,each time i call him he sound as if he dnt want 2 hear my voice,what shuld i do,he keep telin me he dnt hv time nw dat he rily loves me.

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