http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/20/how-ex-sex-changed-my-lifefor-the-better/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 17:21:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/20/how-ex-sex-changed-my-lifefor-the-better/#comment-104429 Tue, 19 Oct 2010 18:58:39 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7132#comment-104429 This could not be better timing for me right now. This is almost exactly what I've just went through. Except in my situation, I was dumped. It wasn't a super long relationship so I wasn't upset in the fact that I was attached to him or anything.. but I somehow let all these ideas form in my head that I was unattractive to him, that the sex must have been bad, blah blah blah and I really started feeling bad about myself and still didn't feel over him because I felt like I wasn't good enough. I know that's stupid but we all have ways of rationalizing things like that and that was mine. Till last week I got drunk and ended up at his place, talked for a few hours, hooked up for a few more… totally put things back into perspective for me. (especially when he admitted to me that he thinks about me when he..umm…pleasures himself.) Ex sex can sometimes be just the thing you need to move on and not obsess with the thoughts that you're not good enough for someone.. that sometimes the whole "it's not you, it's me" thing is true.

]]> http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/20/how-ex-sex-changed-my-lifefor-the-better/#comment-11828 Wed, 16 Jul 2008 11:27:46 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7132#comment-11828 One of my best friends insists on sleeping with her Exes, and it definitely does not change her life for the better. Instead she stays emotionally involved, only this time it's more of a tangled mess than before because she's working on not being hung up about them after they've broken up. Sleeping with her previous boyfriends doesn't help her "pining" for what she can't have. What she should be doing instead is getting out there and meeting someone new and, hopefully, wonderful.

]]> http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/20/how-ex-sex-changed-my-lifefor-the-better/#comment-11829 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 17:09:47 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7132#comment-11829 This is so true. After months of chasing my ex he finally agreed to at least spend some time talking. We didn't have sex, but of course we did end up making out (this is normally a guy's version of 'talking') and I realized…he was the same jerk I left months before. And he always would be. Hmm, go figure.

]]> http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/20/how-ex-sex-changed-my-lifefor-the-better/#comment-11827 Fri, 22 Feb 2008 16:26:35 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7132#comment-11827 BEST. ARTICLE. EVER.

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