Comments on: So, Is He My Boyfriend? http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Tue, 14 Feb 2012 00:18:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: shewolf http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/#comment-162412 Tue, 31 Jan 2012 03:37:38 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7183#comment-162412 ok so initially i told him i wasnt attracted to him pshyically but will see what happends even tho im pretty sure he was / is attracted to me now the more time i spend with him the more im attracted to him im hesetant to bring things up as far as a relationship with him because of what i said before we fooled around and stuff since i told him i wasnt attracted to him pshyically but im also confused as to if he thinks it was because of the alcohol ( we were at a party i wasnt drunk though )

]]> By: shewolf http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/#comment-162406 Tue, 31 Jan 2012 03:23:21 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7183#comment-162406 ok so initially i told him i wasnt attracted to him pshyically but will see what happends even tho im pretty sure he was / is attracted to me now the more time i spend with him the more im attracted to him im hesetant to bring things up as far as a relationship with him because of what i said before we fooled around and stuff since i told him i wasnt attracted to him pshyically but im also confused as to if he thinks it was because of the alcohol ( we were at a party i wasnt drunk though )
so what the f do i do?

]]> By: Coco http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/#comment-69857 Tue, 02 Mar 2010 00:03:08 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7183#comment-69857 Maybe I was wrong.. For a short while I really felt we had something between us.. Maybe it's time to let go?

]]> By: Coco http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/#comment-68584 Thu, 18 Feb 2010 00:23:55 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7183#comment-68584 On this past V-day, I asked him, "so… what are we?" We are now exclusive. Bf/gf status is just around the corner. I can feel it :)

]]> By: Coco http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/#comment-67763 Thu, 11 Feb 2010 01:16:09 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7183#comment-67763 V-day is just around the corner. Yet I still feel a disconnection. Wonder if a miracle will happen this V-day.

]]> By: Me http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/#comment-66127 Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:27:57 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7183#comment-66127 Here's my scenerio. I met this guy online almost 2 years ago. We communicated for over 3 months before we even discussed meeting. So we meet, have dinner…hang out at my place and hook up. We go out for breakfast the next morning, play miniature golf, then he has to head home (he live about an hr away). After that, he tells me the distance is too great and that if he can't have me all the time, he's not sure if he wants to try the part-time thing.

Sooooo…a year and a half later, he contacts me on Facebook on Christmas Eve. He proceeds to tell me how he made a huge mistake, and that he's been trying to find me for 3 months. He, pretty much, begs me to give him another chance and is completely honest and open about his feelings for me.

We've been "seeing eachother" for the last month and a half. We both speak in future-tense when we are together…we are with eachother every weekend and we talk/text every day. Birthdays are being observed and we have had tons of extremely personal conversations. It's very important for both of us that we are being honest and open.

Long story short, he poured his heart out to me, things feel great between us…but it's almost like he went from over the top to "eh, now that I've got here I can drag my feet". Any suggestions?

]]> By: Coco http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/#comment-65426 Tue, 19 Jan 2010 19:17:57 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7183#comment-65426 I had the same problem. I met this guy at a speed dating event about a month ago. We were a match, and we went out a few times already. My 6th sense tells me that he's looking for a committed relationship, just like I am. We rarely talk on the phone (he's not the type to call), but he did agree to text me at least once a day. Being very mature and finicially established at such a young age, I truly value that and understand the fact that he is extremely busy with work, so I'm willing to let that slide. We've hugged, he's wrapped his arms around me, we've held hands. But due to his hectic schedule, I feel we lack communication and I don't think what he thinks. We both have an interest in one another. When I'm with him I feel so happy, but when I'm not, I don't feel this presence. This bothers me. He did mention to me once that he's felt he was abused in this past relationships, so he's very careful in letting anyone get close to him. I'm in that exact same area most of you mentioned. I don't know if we are girlfriend/boyfriend. I've referred him to several close friends that I have a boyfriend, but in reality, we never had that "talk". He never asked me to be with him. Neither has he said anything about missing me or that he's at least thinking of me. I think I'm over thinking things. It's tough. Try being unemployeed and staying at home 24/7 where 1 min seems like 10 mins, while 1 min seems like 1 sec to him since he's always running around. I want to be reasured what status are we in. I'm thinking that I'm going to leave this V-day as a test of how much he cares about and wants to be with me.

]]> By: mike paahana http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/#comment-10372 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 23:50:22 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7183#comment-10372 everytime u have sex with 1 girl they like no if u there boyfriend y they no can jus have fun an no strings

]]> By: Trisha http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/#comment-10371 Mon, 31 Mar 2008 09:22:54 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7183#comment-10371 WEll i need some advice!Ive been seeing this guy like 7 weeks now! At first we were like Fuckbuddies!But then we started hanging out alot!And he bought me something for valentines day,well i was at his house tho that day! Then after couple days i wrote him a message if we were dating or FWB and he said he didnt want anything serious right now, so just friends!So i started hanging out with him more!And since 3 or 4 weeks I basically live with him now somehow!im always here, sleep in the same bed, cook him dinner!Well i talked to this other guy yesterday wanted to me him! then My FWB the guy i somehow live with was mad, i asked him what his problem was! Then after an hour being mad at me, he said if i wanted to fuck somebody else then i have to go home! He wants to be exclusive fuckbuddies! Does that mean he wants to date?or only that i dont fuck with anyone else?

Please help me, i really liek this guy!

Trish

]]> By: pprigkipissa http://collegecandy.com/2008/02/23/so-is-he-my-boyfriend/#comment-10365 Fri, 07 Mar 2008 02:41:21 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/7183#comment-10365 Demand a label. If he is sticking around he obviously likes you and is probably too much of a wimp to make the formal transition. I am having the same problem with my “boyfriend” at the moment. We agreed that we are a couple and he calls me his “girlfriend,” but we still act like we are just dating. I am waiting for him to call me back so I can demand an answer :) If he says we are, I will relax; if he dances around it further, ciao.

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