the first code i would adapt would be the law of early communications. do not send 30 text the day after the first date tellilng him or her how much you had a good time. this scares people. a good rule is try to limit the call, text, or e-mails during the first two week to two of the above, no more. that means one call, and a text, or one email, and a call, or one text, and an email, etc.

If, during the first two weeks, that person doesn't answer the phone or anything else, do NOT freak out. The person could just want to be alone, or is busy, or it could even be a test. Or maybe they don't like you and are out looking for other people to bang. So what? Just don't freak out because then you've fucked up.

Most likely, he/she will call you the next day and tell you sorry blah blah blah. Just play it cool, daddio, it's all part of the game.

Also, guys, don't go more than 2 or 3 days without calling when first dating. This freaks the ladys out and if you go 4 days then forget about it, she's probably already found another guy.

- t

some good advice but:

Me and almost every other guy I know like it when the girl rings us every now and again -maybe not the first time after we meet and maybe not every minute of evey day, but at least once for every two times we call you.

Also being unavailable (especially if you go to the extent of flaking) just sh*ts us out right.

Also -three months before you have sex?!???

I'm a stayer not a player. I usually stick around but if the relationship was going nowhere (as the three months thing would indicate to me) I'd be out of there real quick.

"He Hates It When You Call Him"

"He Secretly Loves It When You Are Unavailable"

how many times do I have to call? 1? 2? 3? when are you going to call me back? why can't you call me when you want to – not, like, often… but try a text once and a while. It's nice.

You can only be "unavailable" a couple times. then I (we, men) will get the hint. you aren't interested, time for us to move on and not call you anymore.

it may be fun to tease, but don't mix signals – if you want the nice guys, be nice… if you want something else then play the games.

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