Deflowering The MALE Virgin

March 31, 2008 Posted in Reality

Deflowering a virgin is something that guys think about…and they usually think about it in one of two ways: they either are dying to do it because they love the idea of being a girl’s “first” OR they’re terrified of it because they can’t emotionally throw down and they don’t think it’d be fair to rob a girl of her innocence without being able to give her foot massages and take her out on dates.

However, when I deflowered my first and only (or so I hope to be my first and only) virgin; I wasn’t thinking about either one of these things. Because I didn’t know he was a virgin. I had just met him.

Here’s what I DID know:

-He was bangin’ hot.

-He was a few years younger than me. However, he was 19 and legal.

-He was shy around me and I thought it was cute.

-He was willing to drive two hours to meet up with me the day after he met me.

-He still lived with his parents.

-He worked at Jamba Juice.

Here’s what I found out during the act:

-He was afraid of giving oral. I taught him how. (In my defense; I believed that there was a possibility he could have been inexperienced with oral, but still experienced with intercourse.)

-He had no idea how to take charge in sex. (Yawn. I hate that.)

Here’s what happened after the act:

-He invited himself to stay at my hotel with my friends.

-He cuddled with me as if we were stranded in the arctic.

-He asked me when he’d see me again when I had to leave (take note of the fact that he and I live about a 24 hour drive apart from each other.)

-He texted/called me incessantly during the days after…toying with ideas of coming to visit me…and even MOVING to L.A.

I eventually cracked.

“Had you ever had sex before me?”

I finally asked him this via a text message after yet another voicemail at 3am about how much I meant to him.

“No….so?”

UGH.

I have no idea why he didn’t mention to me that he was a virgin. However, now I know why so many guys out there are terrified of deflowering one. The pressure is frightening! I hope I’m never any boy’s first ever again.

I’ll make sure of this by keeping away from 19 year old boys who live with their parents and work at Jamba Juice.

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jes says:
Tue, 1st Apr 20084:35 am

Okay so I'm gonn asound like a total slut but I've actually had sex with TWO guys that were virgins before me… One I knew about and we were friends, drunk… you know the rest.. And the other was a guy I was dating that simply hadn't mentioned it before.

Needless to say they both got psycho-attached and freaked me out, resulting in me hurting their feeligns in the end. tisk, tisk…

It really is scary.

christi says:
Sun, 11th May 20084:19 pm

I've had a little bit of sexual experience, and 4/5 guys were all virgins. The one who wasnt? worst and needist of the bunch.

Ade says:
Mon, 16th Nov 20093:10 am

This is exactly why men do not give themselves emotionally to a woman and seem to only care about sex.

http://hope.gameurb.com/how-to-love-men/

You threw something very very precious away for 'hurting those guys feelings'

wtf says:
Wed, 23rd Feb 20114:24 pm

Haha, stupid bitch. This is why most guys lie their first time, because of precisely what you said towards the end: you hope you're never a guy's first time again. Women like you are why I lied my first time… no woman wants to be with a virgin guy, which leaves them as virgins. While you might've hurt his feelings, in the long run, you did him a favor, because he prob. now has a normal/healthy sex life where as the guys who are honest about being virgins never do. Idiot.

Werty says:
Tue, 2nd Aug 20116:31 pm

You're the reason why he lied, you shallow bitch.

Stephane says:
Mon, 15th Aug 201110:07 am

All of this is because our culture, educational system is fucked… they indoctrinate boys in one way, and girls in another way via magazines and women litterature and then people expect to fit and match like natural organic beings… PEOPLE ARE BRAINWASHED into Cultural MEMES.

Guys operate under alot of assumptions that their mother, and father, and people around them make them believe. Same thing for womens, they watch shows on ''How perfect people behave'' and they dreams of those guys wich don't exists or are from elitist families, have cash and do not respect epople for what they are….

Overtime Man grow with frustrations created by females, and females grow with frustrations created by males…. But it has nothing to do with their sex… it has to do with the culture and the myths they we're brainwashed with.

UE says:
Thu, 26th Jan 20124:57 pm

Well, he didn’t say he was virgin and she didn’t say she was a slut, caring only about sex. Poor guy.

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