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	<title>Comments on: This Just In: NOT Having Sex is Fun&#8230;Or So They Say</title>
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		<title>By: Sturat</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/04/06/this-just-in-not-having-sex-is-funor-so-they-say/#comment-45635</link>
		<dc:creator>Sturat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 14:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In my opinion i believe that every womem has a right of what they should do. Men should not pressure them into having sex. We should realise it is them who makes us have an enjoyable life. Thank you ladies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my opinion i believe that every womem has a right of what they should do. Men should not pressure them into having sex. We should realise it is them who makes us have an enjoyable life. Thank you ladies.</p>
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		<title>By: abbas</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/04/06/this-just-in-not-having-sex-is-funor-so-they-say/#comment-45070</link>
		<dc:creator>abbas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 16:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>poorly written</description>
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		<title>By: TheUnforgiven</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/04/06/this-just-in-not-having-sex-is-funor-so-they-say/#comment-44775</link>
		<dc:creator>TheUnforgiven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 20:26:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>it is to each their own.fate/life..throws u a curve ball each time. i don&#039;t pass judgement on anybody. sad to say, the world is not as forgiving.there is this unwritten rule u have to follow the stereo typical lifestyle. ignorance of others is the challenge. try saying u don&#039;t have a sex life to everybody. in the real world, not everybody can have a sex life.disabilities.etc..all i mostly see is people cheating on their wives, with friends girlfriends.. golly, whoopee.. sheesh.. later..pain..divorce..broken friendships. over what? no self respect or control. if anyone choses no sex for whatever reason. nobody in the world has the right or qualifies to critisize u. me, i have my reasons too. i stand alone so far.so be it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it is to each their own.fate/life..throws u a curve ball each time. i don&#8217;t pass judgement on anybody. sad to say, the world is not as forgiving.there is this unwritten rule u have to follow the stereo typical lifestyle. ignorance of others is the challenge. try saying u don&#8217;t have a sex life to everybody. in the real world, not everybody can have a sex life.disabilities.etc..all i mostly see is people cheating on their wives, with friends girlfriends.. golly, whoopee.. sheesh.. later..pain..divorce..broken friendships. over what? no self respect or control. if anyone choses no sex for whatever reason. nobody in the world has the right or qualifies to critisize u. me, i have my reasons too. i stand alone so far.so be it.</p>
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		<title>By: Boo</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/04/06/this-just-in-not-having-sex-is-funor-so-they-say/#comment-12687</link>
		<dc:creator>Boo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 06:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;you can always lose your virginity, but you can’t ever get it back.&quot;



But what exactly are you supposed to be &#039;losing&#039;? I personally don&#039;t ascribe any value to a persons virginity or lack thereof - and nor do the vast majority of people that i know - so i don&#039;t understand how exactly the first time that you have sex entails a loss and if it does i have no idea what it entails a loss of.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;you can always lose your virginity, but you can’t ever get it back.&#8221;</p>
<p>But what exactly are you supposed to be &#8216;losing&#8217;? I personally don&#8217;t ascribe any value to a persons virginity or lack thereof &#8211; and nor do the vast majority of people that i know &#8211; so i don&#8217;t understand how exactly the first time that you have sex entails a loss and if it does i have no idea what it entails a loss of.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/04/06/this-just-in-not-having-sex-is-funor-so-they-say/#comment-12686</link>
		<dc:creator>Kevin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can&#039;t we all just get along?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can&#8217;t we all just get along?</p>
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		<title>By: Kalina</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/04/06/this-just-in-not-having-sex-is-funor-so-they-say/#comment-12685</link>
		<dc:creator>Kalina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 02:19:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with your definition of what a strong woman is. It&#039;s true. If I choose to be sexually active, I shouldn&#039;t be oppressed for that just the same way I wouldn&#039;t oppress you for choosing to abstain. Just because what I do looks wrong in your eyes, doesn&#039;t mean that I&#039;m not thinking things through or that I&#039;m making the right choices for myself. It&#039;s not right for someone to think bad of me bc of personal choices that I make. It&#039;s a two way street, not a one way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with your definition of what a strong woman is. It&#8217;s true. If I choose to be sexually active, I shouldn&#8217;t be oppressed for that just the same way I wouldn&#8217;t oppress you for choosing to abstain. Just because what I do looks wrong in your eyes, doesn&#8217;t mean that I&#8217;m not thinking things through or that I&#8217;m making the right choices for myself. It&#8217;s not right for someone to think bad of me bc of personal choices that I make. It&#8217;s a two way street, not a one way.</p>
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		<title>By: herpesgirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>herpesgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 07:25:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>NOT Having Sex is Fun…Or may have STDs! you can check more detail for this case at Std dating place STDromance</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>NOT Having Sex is Fun…Or may have STDs! you can check more detail for this case at Std dating place STDromance</p>
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		<title>By: zoe</title>
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		<dc:creator>zoe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Apr 2008 23:13:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i agree with christine and also i would like to point out that yes, in my opinion, marriage should mean forever. it&#039;s just that unfortunately it seems that it can&#039;t always be the case, maybe it should also be mentioned that on average people who choose to abstain from sex untill marriage have a higher percentage of failed marriages (possibly as they, on average, marry sooner).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i agree with christine and also i would like to point out that yes, in my opinion, marriage should mean forever. it&#8217;s just that unfortunately it seems that it can&#8217;t always be the case, maybe it should also be mentioned that on average people who choose to abstain from sex untill marriage have a higher percentage of failed marriages (possibly as they, on average, marry sooner).</p>
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		<title>By: Christine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Apr 2008 22:14:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would just like to point out that aside from pregnancy and some disease, even if you&#039;re abstinent that does not make you immune to rape, stalking, emotional, or physical hurt. And someone who is not a virgin does not automatically receive these things more than someone who is a virgin.



The way you stated your comment, Janers, implied that only people who have sex are subject to such things. Although I&#039;m sure it&#039;s not what you meant, it&#039;s still what I first read it as.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would just like to point out that aside from pregnancy and some disease, even if you&#8217;re abstinent that does not make you immune to rape, stalking, emotional, or physical hurt. And someone who is not a virgin does not automatically receive these things more than someone who is a virgin.</p>
<p>The way you stated your comment, Janers, implied that only people who have sex are subject to such things. Although I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s not what you meant, it&#8217;s still what I first read it as.</p>
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		<title>By: Janers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Janers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Apr 2008 17:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>...oh and risking sounding terribly cliche&#039;



you can always lose your virginity, but you can&#039;t ever get it back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230;oh and risking sounding terribly cliche&#8217;</p>
<p>you can always lose your virginity, but you can&#8217;t ever get it back.</p>
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