Comments on: Slightly Irrational Fears: Spinsterhood

By: Sam

Sam — Thu, 29 May 2008 06:45:06 +0000

Just don't listen to Randi or you will definitely be single for the rest of your life.

By: randi

randi — Mon, 19 May 2008 21:23:12 +0000

You are a beautiful, funny, interesting, and smart individual. Your problem is that you are slightly intimidating for guys because you are as smart or smarter than most of them. Don't fret! There is a Mr. Wonderful somewhere for you. Do not forget to be picky because you are better than any man you will ever date!

By: Casey

Casey — Sun, 18 May 2008 19:02:39 +0000

well of course you're "looking" but just don't go out looking to meet someone, looking for a relationship, and don't contemplate whether every guy you meet will make a good boyfriend. Just go out, have fun, meet people. IF there's a chemistry with someone you happen to meet then fine, but don't go out desperately searching for someone to take home for the night, or longer depending on what you're looking for. It's always the ones who don't go out looking for someone who end up with someone, because those are the ones who appear to have it together. No one wants to be with someone who needs them to be happy in life, and if a guy does want a girl like that, well, you don't want that guy.

By: J - NYU

J - NYU — Sun, 18 May 2008 18:20:02 +0000

I have to say, the whole "you'll find the perfect man when you stop looking" line is pretty much a catch 22. Because how can you CONSCIOUSLY not look?

By: Elizabeth - Baruch C

Elizabeth - Baruch C — Sun, 18 May 2008 17:58:54 +0000

I really believe, for the record, that you're only capable of being in a totally healthy relationship that is actually GOOD for you once you're fully comfortable being 'alone' with your amazing family and friends. Plus, there are dogs.

By: Casey

Casey — Sun, 18 May 2008 15:20:02 +0000

i'll give you some advice. it may work it may not but it's up to you to try it.

1. Stop worrying so much about other people. Start dressing up for YOU, look good for YOURSELF and focus on YOU. No one will love you until you love yourself. And confidence is key, if you're confident in yourself others will take notice.

2. Don't look for someone. Looking for someone makes you look desperate and desperation is not attractive. If you are confident and care free in life acting as though every aspect of your life is perfect, people will notice that and maybe some man will come along and think to himself, "look at this girl, she thinks she's got everything, let me show her what she's missing"

I stopped looking for someone and started having fun and living life and that's when I found the absolute perfect guy. I hope it will work for you too.