Comments on: Not getting laid? You’re Probably Just Not Trying

By: professorx

professorx — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 21:32:28 +0000

Yeah wait till yer older and get married. you wont want sex then , trust me! http://www.hateyourprofessor.com

By: neil

neil — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 01:36:08 +0000

i could give great advice, being a jr in college ive experienced a lot…hit me up, leave ur sn or something

By: Melissa

Melissa — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 05:22:53 +0000

So is that the reason? I think I agree with Jess though… I'm totally down with getting some, but on the other hand, when I go out, I don't see anyone cute/fun/smart enough to get busy with…

By: Professor

Professor — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 15:58:29 +0000

Isn't this why a lot of young ladies forget about dating the college guys and seek out a relationship with older men? Someone who is as stimulated by her mind as by her body?

If you would like to chat more on this – let me know…

By: mallory

mallory — Sat, 07 Jun 2008 22:32:30 +0000

I'm in the same boat right now. it's horrible! Normally booty calls are ringing off the hook for me, but of course when it rains it pours and then comes the drought.

By: Quan

Quan — Fri, 06 Jun 2008 11:31:05 +0000

there are lots of good guys out there, but they're hard to find.

You will make mistakes anyways so why afraid? learn from experience

By: Anna

Anna — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 21:31:26 +0000

I think that guys have more going for them than you give them credit for. And any guy without "a lot of standards about who they’ll sleep with" is probably not one you want to be having sex with. Do you really want to get laid by someone with no standards?

By: Chih

Chih — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 12:11:38 +0000

I couldn't agree more with this blog. I think there is a huge difference between getting laid and having physical intimacy. This is true for both guys and girls, but I think it is more about getting laid for guys versus girls. I think women (and some men) need physical intimacy. What is that you might ask? Well, in my opinion, it's when you have found someone that you totally click with and they understand where you are coming from. They are your friend whom you trust and whom is honest with you when it comes to things. It probably doesn't hurt that they are cute too! Anyways, it's someone that you feel comfortable around and who isn't going to hurt you in the end.

By: Amber

Amber — Wed, 28 May 2008 23:52:33 +0000

I too, have this problem. So are you saying if I gave a f*ck more about sex, I'd be getting some? And Jess, I think you just answered your own question…if girls stopped looking for men straight from the pages of GQ, there would'nt be this problem.

By: Michael

Michael — Wed, 28 May 2008 19:08:10 +0000

You sound a little hard on yourself like you are blaming yourself for something. There are shallow people in the world, who just need to have a physical relationship to feel ok about themselves. You have an opportunity to find a relationship that meets all your needs, physical, emotional, and spiritual. You might use your own awareness when talking to a guy to see if you are actually making a genuine connection with him or is it just small talk.

Good luck

P.S. I have never been on this site before but your comments brought me here.