Why Do I Love it When Girls Love Me?

May 30, 2008     Posted in Reality, Sex

Sure, I’ve asked myself, “Are you into GIRLS”?


By CC Staff

I think a lot of girls ask themselves this at some point in time or another. After all, guys and girls communicate completely differently and it can leave a girl feeling emotionally helpless. And plus, we all know women are the ones with beautiful physiques. So I have asked myself this question and yet every time, “NOPE” seems to be the answer. If that’s true, then why do I LOVE it when girls hit on me?

A girl winks at me at a bar and then tells me I’m beautiful.

A hot girl I know asks me if I want to join her in sex with her boyfriend.

A lesbian tells me she wishes I were a lesbian.

Why, oh why, am I so thoroughly delighted by all of this supposedly unwarranted attention? I think I know why…

I think it’s because girls are notoriously VICIOUS with one another. Girls judge other girls like we’re all competing on America’s Next Top Model and the prize is endless chocolate and all-expenses-paid shopping. Even if I don’t wanna make out with the girl at hand, it feels nice to know she wants to make out with me.

Am I crazy?

Or have you ever felt this way?

6 Comments on "Why Do I Love it When Girls Love Me?"

  1. Kat says:
    Fri, 30th May 20086:23 am 

    I know exactly what you mean. One of my best friends is bi and constantly hitting on me- it can be awkward when it's your best friend, and I feel almost guilty liking it because I'm not a lesbian and it's like leeching attention from her.

    I dunno, but I know where you're coming from. And it does feel nice to have the complement.

  2. hanabira says:
    Fri, 30th May 20086:32 am 

    "we all know women are the ones with beautiful physiques"…. um, i really disagree with this. a man's body send me crazy but a woman's body to me may as well be an inanimate object…

  3. Sarah says:
    Fri, 30th May 20081:24 pm 

    Tooootally know where you're coming from!

  4. Ashley says:
    Fri, 30th May 20082:18 pm 

    I know what you mean. There are a great many gray areas when it comes to determining one's own sexuality. Trust me, it's not all black and white. You don't have to be gay or bisexual to enjoy compliments form members of the same sex. I've actually even had crushes on other girls before, and i still know that i am perfectly straight. The thing about it was i was attracted to their personalities, not their bodies. In my opinion, it's actually easier to be attracted to a member of the same sex's personality, because you can actually relate to them and understand them on a more fundamental level.

  5. Leann says:
    Thu, 5th Jun 20082:33 pm 

    I have felt this way many times, you're not alone 8D

  6. Sara says:
    Fri, 6th Jun 20086:25 pm 

    I don't think you're crazy, but this is something that makes you sound self-centered enough that I don't think I'd admit it in mixed company…or on a blog.

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