Comments on: I Like Sex. Does That Make Me a Slut?

By: @CeciHrrHrr0_0

@CeciHrrHrr0_0 — Sat, 28 Apr 2012 02:57:07 +0000

Ok well I'm not 20 but I am 18..
I have had relationships that were very serious and the sexual intamicy was great, but the relationship ends after a while and I am still a woman. I like sex! I like having sex with people I know. There was a point in time where I did go around more that usual,I got an STD(and all you rude motherfuckers saying go get and std go die, you are not helping at all so shut it).
Getting that STD did make me think twice about having sex. I layed low on the sex! Now all these people labeling you based on something that society thinks is wrong is bull. Sex is as natural. I dont have random encouters with guys, sure i have guys hit me up to fuck, but that doesnt mean im going to fuck them all!!
people are quick to judge…
You know what you are doing, yu know how to protect yourself

By: Weather

Weather — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 01:11:10 +0000

Disgusting whore. Hope you die a slow painful STD related death you slut.

By: Onika

Onika — Thu, 15 Mar 2012 05:02:53 +0000

Ah, me. Been there, done that. I guess what I’m wondering is if you’re a slut by your sartdnads? I tend to think not or you would change your behaviors. So, that leaves two (or more) other explanations. One explanation that I think is pretty damned sure to play a role is socialization. In our culture, women are between that proverbial rock and hard place. We’re supposed to be BOTH madonna and whore. By that I mean we’re supposed to be sexy, be everyman’s route to sexual release, and at the same time be virgins. i suspect this has to do with the ownership thing that goes with the male role in this culture. After all, men own women. If they didn’t, women wouldn’t be branded with the name of what ever man owns them. (Mrs. John Doe? HUH?) So, no matter what you do, you’re doomed to feel you’re doing something wrong.A second explanation that occurs to me is to wonder if there isn’t some awareness that caring easily for others (and that sounds to me like you do love indiscriminately ) leaves you open to a whole lot of pain. By loving indiscriminately, I mean it sounds like you have a big heart and let people in quicker than most. That’s a good thing; very good. But it makes for a lot of hurt, too.Or, perhaps the best explanation is neither of these. I’m just free associating here. Oh. I think i just explained my own psyche. Oops.

By: oh yes.

oh yes. — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 01:09:47 +0000

tis hedonism ;D

By: good advice

good advice — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 01:08:52 +0000

a little violent.. but , I guess it gets the point across.

By: aim for the future

aim for the future — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 00:39:02 +0000

yes, it kinda does..

a lot of people seem to think it has to do with what people are wearing, which is pretty mean in some cases
but that's not 'neccesarily' related.

the first comment "OMG! I admire everything you just said and i believe havin casual sex with guys doesnt make u a slut cause ur out there enjoying yourself like you should be and u get a good tip or two from it.
I do it to, its my daily sex-exercise haha" is pretty much defining slut.
the analogy, does the evil man think he;s bad? no.. probably not. or the crazy think he;s crazy?
at least you have a conscious!
and to the double standards yaddha, guys get the same gavel. sometimes they aren't so loud or talk about it as much maybe?

By: Jason

Jason — Sun, 27 Nov 2011 09:18:41 +0000

Most people hate paying for their actions. It's actually not politically correct for someone to feel bad about mistakes they've made anymore. At this rate we will tell our children "as long as you stay out of jail you can do whatever you want" at 12. I'm sure that will end up well, but if it doesn't at least they won't feel bad about anything.

By: Lorina

Lorina — Fri, 22 Jul 2011 02:11:43 +0000

Women tend to be judged more upon their sexual history, granted most of the judging comes from other women.

By: Cornelius Parkin

Cornelius Parkin — Thu, 23 Jun 2011 15:50:27 +0000

Not at all… Enjoying SEX is fantastic, I guess, it just depends if you do it with everyone you see or if you enjoy it with a life partner which makes the difference…

By: hayley

hayley — Wed, 06 Apr 2011 20:13:23 +0000

also..i'd like to add…
i hate how some of these people are like.. EW!-aids. EW!-100s of guys.
no. its protected sex. and its not every night with a different dude.
hell,none of mine were just random hook ups.
i knew the guys VERY well.
and then the whole basketball player doing an abortion is like assuming sexual girls have a pregnancy test and a coat hanger in their purse like its a survival kit!
wtf?