Me, Myself, and My Favorite Fantasies

June 26, 2008 3:30 pm     Posted in Relationships, Sex  Noa - CU Boulder g+ page

fantasy1.jpgWhen I am not out slutting it up, I tend to spend my evenings alone watching TV, reading books and – to relieve a little stress – playing out some super sexy scenarios in my head. I crawl into bed, get under the covers with my favorite toy and imagine myself in the place I’d rather be; the man I’d rather be with.


By Noa

I find sexual fantasies to be both extremely liberating and enlightening. By opening myself up to any possibility – mostly things I would never do in the flesh – I learn a lot about myself and what turns me on. I can act out entire scenarios in my head and prepare myself for new situations that may arise sometime down the road. And, of course, I get to do something a little naughty with people I would never have the opportunity to be with in real life.

Like the dad of the kids I babysit for. I know that fantasy is as cliché as they come, but there is something so sexy and forbidden about that bond between babysitter and dad. He is sexy, smart, funny, and adorable with his kids. I know it’s so wrong, but I can’t help but wonder what it would be like to have him drive me home, kiss me, then take advantage of me in the back of his Mercedes.

Or my Psych professor. Real original, I know, but as over-done as this scenario is, it doesn’t make wild sex during office hours any less tempting. Or sneaking him into my sorority house for an afternoon siesta any less dangerous and totally hot. The fact that it is so off limits only makes me want it more.

My fantasies are always about people I cannot be with, in places I cannot go, but knowing how much I enjoy them in my head, I have really started to branch out and try new things. No, I am not going to try and seduce some married men (as awesome as it is in my head), but allowing myself to open up and imagine new things has made me realize just what turns me on. And it makes the real thing sooooo much better.

I think lots of women are embarrassed by their deep, dark fantasies and therefore do not discuss – or even entertain – them. If you fall into that category, you are doing yourself a great disservice. Take some time to really think about it; you will definitely enjoy the results.

Start now….and share your fantasies with us.

10 Comments on "Me, Myself, and My Favorite Fantasies"

  1. Molly says:
    Thu, 26th Jun 20086:50 pm 

    Oh, I love this. I'm constantly playing scenarios through my head all day.

    And I actually had one about my psych professor too, he kind of reminded me of James Spader (mmmm). And he was/is incredibly intelligent which made him that much more attractive. Plus, he was my professor during a 5 week study abroad session, so the environment was more laid back. Too bad his wife and kids were along for the trip… put a serious damper on my thought process.

  2. Kay says:
    Thu, 26th Jun 20087:33 pm 

    Fantasies make solo time that much more enjoyable! The professor one is super hot, however I haven't had a hot professor yet :( So I just take an actor's face and put it on my imaginary professor's body! haha

  3. Amber says:
    Thu, 26th Jun 20087:43 pm 

    While dealing with my current dry spell I constantly have little sex daydreams. I just had one about this bouncer who tried to hit on me the other night…he's ends up taking me to the back of the club "thoroughly check" me

  4. Jake says:
    Fri, 27th Jun 200810:22 am 

    Anal. Lots of hot anal with me very much in charge…

    I find I tend to fantasise about things I can't get or haven't yet experienced rather than any particular people or scenes.

    http://factsandfriction.blogspot.com/

  5. tissue says:
    Sat, 28th Jun 20089:03 pm 

    Fantasizing is fun!

    teachers are pretty popular it seems for fantasizing…ta's and research advisers.

    i have such a hot research supervisor right now it's hard not to think…

  6. Johnathan says:
    Fri, 29th Aug 200812:40 pm 

    I am a man with very dark fantasies too…

    I do not believe in sharing them though, as they may pique the most wrongest of interests, rather then the quaint personality that I prefer.

    Thanks for sharing, but alas, I shall not share to you!

  7. Tania says:
    Fri, 29th Aug 200812:41 pm 

    Definitely agree with the teacher fantasy.

  8. wegene megerssa says:
    Sun, 12th Oct 200810:24 pm 

    becuse fire ganarating het that whay i said the fire hot

  9. Bee says:
    Sun, 23rd Nov 20083:11 am 

    Girl, you're only human and i totally agree with Kay: "fantasies make solo time that much more enjoyable"…… As long as you dont engage in the really nasty ones in real life e.g hooking up with the dad of the kids you babysit.

  10. Prof10001 says:
    Sun, 7th Dec 20085:35 am 

    As a professor I know the fantasy works in reverse as well though it is even more risky for the teacher. I'm afraid I imagine my students having much more exciting sex lifes than I do being married for many years and having a couple of teen kids.

    I've never been hit upon by a student. I wonder if I just grade too easy.

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