I began shaving, did not like it, and I found out about waxing. I looked at “beauty salons” in the Yellow Pages, saw ads for “waxing” (remember this was 1983) and called one up.

The lady asked me what parts I wanted waxed. I explained about me being a nude model and needing it for my work, etc. and told her what I needed. She didn’t believe me but we made an appointment and off I went. I showed up, we went back, I got naked and had her wax the following: both butt cheeks, my butt crack, butthole, and perineum. I flipped over and she then did my entire lower belly top of my thighs, scrotum and penis.

It did not hurt! You see all these people saying how they thought they were going to die . . . Bullshit! I have since been waxed every 3 weeks since.

Let’s do the math – every 3 weeks = 17 times/year. From 1983 to 2010 – 27 years. 27 X 17 = 459 times that I’ve been waxed. Probably more like 475 or so.

That’s a lot of times so I think I can speak authoritatively on this subject. I’ve been waxed at dozens or hundreds of salons, all over the USA, big city to tiny town, either coast to midwest.

Everywhere I’ve been done, they tell me that I’m the only male that they’ve ever done in that area. I’ve always been done by females, I’m not gay and I don’t want a guy handling my junk.

Regarding pain there’s one dirty little secret. Most ladies do not know about this. Make them do it and you will not hurt. As soon as they pull off the muslin strip with one hand, have them place the flat palm of the other hand on the spot just waxed and press down hard for about 2-3 seconds. No pain. The only other main secret is to have the wax at the lowest temp possible. After the wax is liquid, turn off the heat. Keep the skin tight, keep the hair length between 1/8″ and 1/4″ in length and you’re good to go.

One final thing that I don’t object to is that the best way to remove any excess wax is to rub the area with baby oil afterward, which melts the wax. I always seem to get extra wax on my dick, so I just have to lay there and let the girl rub oil all over it . . .

I see dockers, firemen, policemen, students, counsellors, crane drivers, pilots, salesmen, barristers, management consultants, cooks, solicitors, businessmen, tree surgeons (you get the picture – I won't go on!).

Waxing has a list of advantages including it's cheaper, lasts longer, you get no burn from creams, no itchy stubbly regrowth and it's less prone to ingrown hair. If you even consider shaving – I would say give waxing a try. Finding a therapist might be a challenge. If I was looking for it – I'd certainly seek a male therapist. If you're near Plymouth in Devon – google me and give me a bell!

Jason at the back and beyond dot co dot uk