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	<title>Comments on: Reconnecting with the Ex: Is It A Good Idea?</title>
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		<title>By: matthew</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/07/02/reconnecting-with-the-ex-is-it-a-good-idea/#comment-64533</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 10:48:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason&#8230;infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse...even the worst situations you can imagine&#8230;like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years! 
  &lt;a href=&quot;http://tinyurl.com/y9tofvp&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://tinyurl.com/y9tofvp&lt;/a&gt; ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason&hellip;infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse&#8230;even the worst situations you can imagine&hellip;like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!</p>
<p>  <a href="http://tinyurl.com/y9tofvp" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/y9tofvp</a> </p>
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		<title>By: matt</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/07/02/reconnecting-with-the-ex-is-it-a-good-idea/#comment-13977</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[matt]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Sep 2008 01:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[are you f&#039;ing kidding? 
 
 
 
f him if you want, don&#039;t if you don&#039;t.  you are a FEmale.  The FE stands for &quot;you can F Everything&quot; 
 
 
 
all this emotional bs is a youngin trying to work through how his momma f&#039;d him up... or some other bs.... 
 
 
 
get over it or hit it.  oh, and you grow up too... ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>are you f&#039;ing kidding? </p>
<p>f him if you want, don&#039;t if you don&#039;t.  you are a FEmale.  The FE stands for &quot;you can F Everything&quot; </p>
<p>all this emotional bs is a youngin trying to work through how his momma f&#039;d him up&#8230; or some other bs&#8230;. </p>
<p>get over it or hit it.  oh, and you grow up too&#8230; </p>
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		<title>By: light</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/07/02/reconnecting-with-the-ex-is-it-a-good-idea/#comment-13976</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[light]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 09:01:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey , have you ever had a pro file on Seek Rich.com? Someone tells me that you&#039;re a cer tified million aire there with many nice photos. .Is it ture? Are you still there? ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey , have you ever had a pro file on Seek Rich.com? Someone tells me that you&#039;re a cer tified million aire there with many nice photos. .Is it ture? Are you still there? </p>
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		<title>By: mo art</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/07/02/reconnecting-with-the-ex-is-it-a-good-idea/#comment-13975</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mo art]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:40:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[he&#039;s just had to learn his lesson about perfection. Can&#039;t really find that with tainted western woman. He just has to realize he won&#039;t be able to find a refined virgin well mannered wifey at short lengths. Tell me, is he ambitious...;) ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>he&#039;s just had to learn his lesson about perfection. Can&#039;t really find that with tainted western woman. He just has to realize he won&#039;t be able to find a refined virgin well mannered wifey at short lengths. Tell me, is he ambitious&#8230;;) </p>
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		<title>By: mo art</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/07/02/reconnecting-with-the-ex-is-it-a-good-idea/#comment-13974</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mo art]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:37:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[you could be soulmates. Only you could know. Just have to feel it out. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you could be soulmates. Only you could know. Just have to feel it out. </p>
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		<title>By: Star</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Star]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 16:46:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No no no no no! If you really want sex for the sake of sex, find someone else. This will end badly, trust me! I&#039;ve been down this road and it&#039;s the wrong road to take. You&#039;ll save yourself a lot of heartache and keep your self-esteem and pride in tact if you block his number and walk away while you still have the chance. Good luck :) ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No no no no no! If you really want sex for the sake of sex, find someone else. This will end badly, trust me! I&#039;ve been down this road and it&#039;s the wrong road to take. You&#039;ll save yourself a lot of heartache and keep your self-esteem and pride in tact if you block his number and walk away while you still have the chance. Good luck <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
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		<title>By: Kelly - UMass</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/07/02/reconnecting-with-the-ex-is-it-a-good-idea/#comment-13972</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kelly - UMass]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 16:19:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Truthfully, I wouldn&#039;t sleep with him. It seems like he didn&#039;t feel you worthy of being his first, for whatever reason (which could very likely be he liked you so much he was afraid of letting you down), however, now that he has had his awkward first encounter with someone else...he&#039;s NOW ready to be with you?? 
 
 
 
Personally, I&#039;d remain friends, but don&#039;t put yourself out there again. This guy is clearly unsure of his own life path and - not to sound meladramatic - BUT, if he broke your heart before you even slept with him, think of the damage he could do now. 
 
 
 
Decision is your sister, just keep your eyes, ears and heart out for any warning signs. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Truthfully, I wouldn&#039;t sleep with him. It seems like he didn&#039;t feel you worthy of being his first, for whatever reason (which could very likely be he liked you so much he was afraid of letting you down), however, now that he has had his awkward first encounter with someone else&#8230;he&#039;s NOW ready to be with you?? </p>
<p>Personally, I&#039;d remain friends, but don&#039;t put yourself out there again. This guy is clearly unsure of his own life path and &#8211; not to sound meladramatic &#8211; BUT, if he broke your heart before you even slept with him, think of the damage he could do now. </p>
<p>Decision is your sister, just keep your eyes, ears and heart out for any warning signs. </p>
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		<title>By: mo art</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mo art]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 16:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[His morals are conflicting within him, your in the middle of it all as a possible solve or affliction to it all. You are somone he can love if he doesn&#039;t love you already, and that can be scary to a man who is strong, sensitive, and passionate about a woman who has a lot of traits appealing to his being. There are plenty of factors still that we&#039;re in the shadows about when it comes to your story that you may need to be wide eyed about as a sleuth, Its times like these you have to take yourself out of the equation and use your deduction skills as to what&#039;s really going on... If he&#039;s a subtle communicator, thats a sign that he feels even stronger about you and wants you to ace the conversation. Feel it out, people are amazing and complicated creatures. If your a potential woman for each others lifetime it would make no sense for him to treat you like the &quot;blackout girl&quot;. Be cool, curious, calm and collective. Not every response you have has to have an emotional kick to it. Try to show some reservation. Nothing is as sexy to a man than his wife. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>His morals are conflicting within him, your in the middle of it all as a possible solve or affliction to it all. You are somone he can love if he doesn&#039;t love you already, and that can be scary to a man who is strong, sensitive, and passionate about a woman who has a lot of traits appealing to his being. There are plenty of factors still that we&#039;re in the shadows about when it comes to your story that you may need to be wide eyed about as a sleuth, Its times like these you have to take yourself out of the equation and use your deduction skills as to what&#039;s really going on&#8230; If he&#039;s a subtle communicator, thats a sign that he feels even stronger about you and wants you to ace the conversation. Feel it out, people are amazing and complicated creatures. If your a potential woman for each others lifetime it would make no sense for him to treat you like the &quot;blackout girl&quot;. Be cool, curious, calm and collective. Not every response you have has to have an emotional kick to it. Try to show some reservation. Nothing is as sexy to a man than his wife. </p>
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