Comments on: Stripper Do or Stripper Don’t: The Girlfriend Dilemma

By: someone

someone — Sat, 05 May 2012 07:31:34 +0000

Dude, she really isn't worth your time. No one with that little ambition in life should be talking to you on an intimate level period. I can't stress how much I despise her for playing with your feelings that way. But better women out there exist. And the one's who fall somewhere under the category of stripper or a person who likes to objectify themselves isn't going to ever be that girl that you put a ring on. Maybe there is chance that she may be the one but that's one in a billion. Strippers are a dime a dozen buddy, don't sell yourself too short. You'll regret it in the long run, the same way I have and many others have.

By: Nino

Nino — Sat, 05 May 2012 07:20:43 +0000

Lol, you're kidding right? Please tell me that in the land of opportunity that where a man / woman can do and or become anything they choose to in life, they choose to sell themselves short and strip for money. It's not about the moral or the ethics it's about doing something that you can't be proud of. I'd never try to persuade someone otherwise or to "do what I can to get by 'BECAUSE IT'S LEGAL'".

If selling dope were legal would you do that too? It pays a shit ton doesn't it? Why is it that your justification is just a false pretense of someone trying to deny the fact that actually being a person to society and not a mindless pawn for some degenerate males' plaything is worth doing? Since when did stooping to lower standards of self worth become okay, if the justification is money or survival. For some women, Yes, it may be their only way out of the hell they live in. But for others, there are better opportunities.

I don't even want to beg the question why 99% of female strippers are superficial, plastic, and have an IQ comparable to a 4th grader. If they knew they could do better with their lives or didn't become the fuck up that they did they'd being doing something better and making way more money and NOT STRUGGLING. Oh, that's right, that's what women with a modicum of self worth and intelligence do. Thanks for your statement but please understand that nothing can justify being a rat to society. Not in any form of your linguistic capabilities can you defend the argument of why it's okay to be a stripper.

ps- I don't necessarily mind strippers or the act of stripping and most (successful) males and females love being strippers and do what they do best. I can respect that. But don't come bullshitting around saying you're doing it because you "have no other choice". Or you're "just" paying your way through college. That's the biggest load of horse shit I have ever heard in my entire life. And on that note you can shut your stupid ass up.

By: Sex Addict

Sex Addict — Thu, 03 May 2012 19:16:46 +0000

IM A STRIPPER AND IM PROUD SAY IT LOUD! IM A STRIPPER AND IM PROUD!

By: Rach

Rach — Thu, 22 Mar 2012 18:04:48 +0000

If it's only for a good time with your mates and you aren't there for the girls then why not go to a bar or somewhere else that doesn't involve the strippers? Your excuse is flawed.

By: Serina

Serina — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 06:06:35 +0000

“kelly says:
Mon, 14th Sep 20094:23 pm
I hate the idea of my boyfriend going to strip clubs, even if it’s only for a bachelor party. i don’t like the fact that he’s staring at hot girls’ bodies and is enjoying it.. it really hurts my feelings and i get extremely jealous. at the same time, i feel guilty saying i don’t want him to go, because then he’d miss a good friend’s or family member’s bachelor party. i think what makes me so jealous is that i know he enjoys how the strippers look and they way they move, and although he loves my body, i know i could never show it off the way a stripper can.”

Kelly, I completely agree with you. I know my boyfriend going to a strip club is innocent and he will only go “for the atmosphere”, but I still don’t understand why he wouldn’t be content with just going to a bar with them and I can do a striptease for him when he gets home. I won’t stop him from going when he does decide to go, but when he gets home he can relieve himself. No way am I having sex after another woman’s ass sweat is all over him.

By: Cassandra

Cassandra — Thu, 16 Feb 2012 08:21:42 +0000

A lot of strippers are dancing to put themselves through college. Hell, some of them already HAVE degrees and dance to pay off student loans. And since when is doing whatever it takes to put food in your kids' mouths a bad thing? Would you rather be paying for their welfare checks? Because that's where a lot of your taxpaying money would go if these "bastard children" didn't have moms stripping to support them. If anyone is a "disgusting human being", it's your hateful, ignorant ass.

By: ...

... — Mon, 19 Sep 2011 04:36:33 +0000

Just a bit harsh?

By: John

John — Mon, 19 Sep 2011 04:28:13 +0000

i dont understand how guys in a relationship could do this…how hard is it to consider the feelings of the one you love (i hope its only one)
i think if your in a relationship with someone and they are not ok with you going to watch strippers… then dont!
id just like to say that most guys would never do this, myself included of course

if your in a relationship and your not ok with him being at a stripclub and he goes…do you really want to be with that man

all that crap about going just to have a good time with your friends is BS …if you want to have a good time with your friends…then dont go to a place with naked women

if your single on the other hand you can do wat you want you wont be breaking someones heart back at home

By: Yup.

Yup. — Sat, 17 Sep 2011 09:11:40 +0000

The reason is simple: those men think they need a variety of women to look at, like a woman's body is a form of entertainment, and they get bored with their girlfriend's/wife's. I don't even waste my time with men who want to go to strip clubs while in a relationship; someone who needs a naked woman to have a good time is probably lacking quite a bit of intelligence, anyway.

By: Dierdre

Dierdre — Mon, 12 Sep 2011 03:18:17 +0000

if she went to that extent then you're right to break up with her. She was basically just saying she had no respect for the relationship. people are supposed to be faithful in a relationship, and what goes on between 2 people should only go on between those 2, not any guy who pays for it. You made a good choice