Comments on: Sex, Lies, and Breaking it Off

By: Fl girl

Fl girl — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 23:02:54 +0000

Gregory above is an idiot

By: Fl girl

Fl girl — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 18:23:54 +0000

Gregory above is an idiot

By: gregory

gregory — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 09:52:08 +0000

i want information about you sex waht the wamen

By: Jen

Jen — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 01:52:14 +0000

I once told my Jewish ex-boyfriend that I had to spend the summer with Jesus. It worked.

By: sara

sara — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:28:59 +0000

I think in any relationship it is important to tell the truth. This especially goes for a longer relationship. When I dumped my guy after 9 months I told him all the reasons why and the problems I had with him. I know it sucked for him to hear it and I felt like a bitch, but he needed to hear what he was doing wrong, otherwise he won't change for the next girl and he will wonder what he did that made me dump him. If its another guy, say so. Just tell the truth. In my situation it was a combination of another guy and just losing that lovin' feeling.

By: Lauren, University o

Lauren, University o — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 13:05:24 +0000

I dont think telling someone the truth is gonna make them hat you less. Being dumped sucks, no matter how it happens.

By: Bagger

Bagger — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 12:56:15 +0000

First off I love reading the girls point of view on things, this is one of the first web-sites i read when i get to work.

Second coming from someone that just got dumped it is always better to hear the truth from someone then to have the person you dated lie to your face about why they are breaking up with you. This just happened to me, not only could I tell she was lieing to me when she broke it off, i found out a few weeks later that i was right, she did lie to me about her reason for breaking it off. This just made me mad and instead of ending as friends i F..ing hate her. If you tell someone that you want to focus on your school work and not a relationship, then you are only giving that person hope for the future. Just tell them, "dude i think you are a tool" and move on. If the guy can't handle the turth about why you are leaving him then there is something wrong with him.

By: ela

ela — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 10:19:00 +0000

i don't enter 'committed relationships' unless i'm 100% head over heels. i hate causal dating…that doesn't make you my BOYFRIEND. if you make things clear and be straight forward you can avoid the crutches…too bad for the percocet tho lol.

By: Steph

Steph — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 09:01:07 +0000

"The Five Love Languages" by Dr. Gary Chapman is a book that helped me learn to communicate with my partner better. And not just my partner, but everyone in my life. Excellent read, try it out.

By: Shira

Shira — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 00:19:45 +0000

I agree with Molly, Sarah, and Claire.

Honest communication is the key to a good relationship, and also the key out of a bad one (at least in my experience).