Comments on: A Girl’s Trip to the Gyno: Even if it’s Embarrassing, Tell the Truth

By: jean

jean — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 00:10:50 +0000

hi, i just want to thank you for this post, i really like your blog, thanks and more power.

By: andrea

andrea — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 12:34:14 +0000

funnily enough, i wanted to cry after my first visit to the gynocologist because the doctor didn't seem to believe that i hadn't had sex up until about a week ago. sure, i was a bit old (23), but the way this man reacted was so upsetting. he quickly looked at my file to check my age and had to reconfirm what i said to be sure he understood. he then proceeded to treat me as if i was mildly retarded, and, to top it off, i was actually concerned about a variety of things while he was more concerned with the fact that some guy hadn't nailed me earlier. i felt ten times more awkward and horrible with the damn doctor than my boyfriend. opposite problem, but definitely not any easier.

By: Gobo

Gobo — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 13:32:23 +0000

Women stop acting like attention whores when they lose their market value and can no longer attracted the thugs. Then they unload their drama and chaos to the guys they rejected when they were younger expecting them to clean up the mess.

By: gizmogurlie

gizmogurlie — Wed, 15 Oct 2008 13:21:41 +0000

Okay whats wrong with saving yourself for marriage because you are a christian just like I am?

Sorry but I had to jump in here after reading that religious freaks comment. Not only because of christianity but morals as well. I grew up being taught that I shouldn't have sex until I'm married. My parents did put limits on movies, tv and video games and I fully did not understand sex until I was around sixteen and by the time that sunk in. I already made the desicion to abstain until marriage

I'm 22 now and still going strong on my vow. Im not here to judge but I just wanted to say that I don't consider myself a religious freak for thinking that.

By: Courtney

Courtney — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 14:45:57 +0000

thats amusing because i dont have my "panties in a wad" if you cannot tell, i'm very patient and relaxed 99% of the time. i was simply playing devil's advocate in this post because i felt like you had some waking up to do. other than that, i feel like you and i see eye to eye on many other issues on this site.

By: Casey

Casey — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 11:02:32 +0000

i'm not simply talking about myself. i'm talking about the countless girls in this country who are making poor unhealthy decisions. you attacked me first so don't get your panties in a wad when I strike a comeback.

By: Courtney

Courtney — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 10:21:26 +0000

Why don't you stop making yourself out to be the victim in general? My life has been damn hard but I have gotten to where I am because of optimism and patience. Two things I feel that you lack in regards to "slutty girls" and promiscuity. I've agreed with a lot of what you had to say but now this is just old and my opinions remain unswayed.

By: Casey

Casey — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 22:59:31 +0000

well good for you for being stronger then most of the world, not everyone can see it that way, and it's ignorant of you to think that just because you can deal with it, everyone else can.

I don't mind talking to my FRIENDS about sex, it's the people I don't know that bothers me. And I can't choose the people I work with or have classes with, so It's hard to choose the people that I'm around daily. Why don't you look beyond your own experiences and realize that other people's lives may be a bit trickier than yours.

By: Courtney

Courtney — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 15:56:26 +0000

i think divorce is a very lame excuse to start having one night stands. my parents went through one of the nastiest divorces i have ever seen and started lives with two other people and ive had to balance my life the best i could between my 2 new families. that helped me grow, understand my parents wants and needs more, and understand that marriage isnt forever. it never sparked any sexual behaviors or motivation to seek love and attention from a stranger. if i hooked up with someone in the past and regretted it, guaranteed alcohol played a huge role and it was a learning experience. in fact, i usually roll my eyes when someone acts like its the end of the world when their parents get divorced. yes – it is so extremely painful, but life does get much worse. and i can't allow myself to feel so remorseful for something that made my parents more peaceful.

i dont mind when my friends talk to me about sex, their concerns or problems they are having, or even funny/rebellious stories they know i will laugh at. i honest and truly think everyone should have as much fun as they want as long as they are SAFE. if you dont want to hear other people talking about sex, don't surround yourself with people that do, and don't reply to articles pertaining to the matter.

By: dd120149

dd120149 — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 03:43:41 +0000

Christine says, "…I think one part of being a strong woman means accepting the fact that what other people decide to do with their bodies is their business. If they decide to share, good for them. But we have no right to start wagging our finger because we have no business telling them how to run their life. If someone wants to have a lot of sex, more power to them.

While the prevailing thinking agrees with the reasoning above I wonder what happens when such random happenings end up badly…such as an unwanted pregnancy, a nasty STD or worst of all HIV/AIDS? Your right to complete freedom of sexual activities should leave society with no responsibility to treat your resulting condition with society revenues.