I am very, very tired of the low-cut shirts, the skin-tight jeans, the Ugg boots, and the makeup. But When I wear my makeup, I try to be modest. I don’t want or need anyone to look at me as an object of lust- I want someone to look at me for my mind, for our similar interests- that sort of thing.

However, your comment about lolita…

Lolita fashion is about being modest, and while that may not seem to make sense right now, let me explain. A lolita outfit typically consists of these articles of clothing: knee-length skirt, bloomers, blouse, over-the-knee socks, and mary janes. The most skin you can see on her (or him) is on their face and hands. Their legs are covered, arms are covered, and the blouse is collared.
There are many different styles of lolita as well. There is Sweet (and I assume you meant this particular style by saying Disney), which commonly uses motifs such as cakes and hearts and such. Gothic moves more towards dark colors and less cute things, like mini top hats. There is even a sub-style known as Ero or Erotic Lolita, but it is more of a tongue-in-cheek kind of erotic- things like a collar and all of an arm showing. Their skirts are still at their knees, and you can’t see into their blouses.

As a lolita, I feel like wearing it actually dissuades people from seeing me as a sex object. Also, close-minded people don’t talk to me as much.

I don’t like it because I’m not the kind of guy to go out and do whatever I can for sex. In fact, I’m the kind of guy who doesn’t socialize much at all- still a virgin, never went to a high school party, never had a girlfriend or been kissed. I didn’t realize people were having sex or how many people smoke pot until junior year of high school. It’s sad, and my point was that I’d rather have other people at the same stage of development as me.. and I guess I can add that I’d rather have an intelligent, pretty girl instead of a girl who only gets by on looks alone and the sooner that starts the more ingrained it will be.

Besides, the very woman’s lib movement and ‘female power’ you love has caused much of the problem. The same women who decry teenage sex think teens should be able to get an abortion without thier parent’s permission. Well…are they kids or adults?

We send kids mixed messages. The liberals have told us all morals positions are relative, so is it really a surprise what is happening.

And let me ask you. Did all you shocked women not wear makeup until you were 20?

It’s funny how it’s perfectly normal for woman to go for a rich, tall, good-looking older man. But if men go for what biology tells them to; young, healthly, fertile girls, they are criminals.

Truth be told, we are all apes for another 10,000 years anyway. But these discussions are a good way to stimulate the….mind.

I myself am a 16 year old girl– and I think I know what I’m talking about here, okay?

To the people who commented on this article saying it’s ‘not a big deal’: wake up. I am in the heart of high school right now, and it really IS impossible to escape pressures to ‘try everything’. It’s always the ‘popular kids’ who set social standards, and they learn the rules of the game from our oversexed media.

There’s a fine line between ‘flirty/cute/sexy’ and ’skanky’, but no one really know where that is anymore.

Thanks for shedding some light on this issue.