Comments on: He Said/She Said: Flirting With Someone Else http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 18:00:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: 6周2000万次页面浏览：调情社交网站Likealittle“有点意思” | 优酪网 http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/#comment-115464 Mon, 20 Dec 2010 07:52:42 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11229#comment-115464 [...] 顶部配图来自college candy [...]

]]> By: JessofOz http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/#comment-4150 Sun, 14 Sep 2008 07:32:50 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11229#comment-4150 The way I act with my guy friends is pretty much how I act with my girlfriends, ie cheery, bubbly, laughy… but oftentimes I get accused of flirting with them.

Does this mean I'm flirting my friends who are girls too?

Tis a bit of a grey area

]]> By: What http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/#comment-4149 Sun, 24 Aug 2008 01:27:30 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11229#comment-4149 'He said' sounds pretty much right to me.

]]> By: Kelly - UMass http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/#comment-4148 Tue, 19 Aug 2008 15:37:35 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11229#comment-4148 I think flirting is acceptable. Go flirt with whoever you want…as long as you're coming home to me, I'm good.

]]> By: Sarah http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/#comment-4147 Sat, 16 Aug 2008 22:11:26 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11229#comment-4147 Just a quick question – is the couple in the picture accompanying this article 15? Because if they aren't, the entire soul-sucking skinny/youth-oriented culture has leaked onto this site, and that makes me very sad.

]]> By: Jon http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/#comment-4146 Fri, 15 Aug 2008 23:28:40 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11229#comment-4146 As a dude, I have to totally agree with the "she said" on this one. There is a difference between harmless and harmful flirting, and I think she laid them out pretty nicely. Especially the point that you can seem flirty when you're really not trying to.

For instance, one time I was with my girlfriend at a party and one of my friends introduced me to a girl he knew who lived in the town my family had just moved to. Naturally I was excited to meet someone whom I could hang out with when I went home to visit my parents (since I obviously didn't know anyone else from the new town that was 2,000+ miles from where I grew up). My girlfriend then got a little upset because of how much I was "flirting" with this girl in front of her. Yes, I was interested in her in the sense that I wanted to know if she was someone I would actually want to hang out with in even the most platonic of settings, but obviously I wasn't looking for anything more.

]]> By: emily http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/#comment-4145 Fri, 15 Aug 2008 20:20:17 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11229#comment-4145 you can't generalise people… my boyfriend cheated on me, but not because he's flitatious. I think as soon as you panic about them cheating on you; you become more aware of other women around them. But let's be honest, all men and women love a bit of eye candy.

doesn't mean they don't love and care about the one they're with.

]]> By: michael http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/#comment-4144 Thu, 14 Aug 2008 10:54:03 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11229#comment-4144 here is the deal, flirting isn't personal. anyone can do it with anyone, i see girls do it to girls and guys do it to guys. its flirting, thats all.

my relationship with you (my gf/bf) is personal, and i am going home with you, so try to have fun and don't sweat it.

and i stopped reading the article when i got to “If a guy does flirt, he will cheat on whomever he’s with, eventually.” BS

]]> By: Lauren http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/#comment-4143 Thu, 14 Aug 2008 10:17:59 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11229#comment-4143 That guy obviously is a different breed of guy. He has no idea what he's talking about. There's such a thing as harmless flirting. Whether it's a guy or a girl doing it, it doesn't mean that its obvious the guy is going to cheat. I agree with the girl, a little flirting within reason is okay. There is however a line where it's definitely too much.

]]> By: Coco - University of http://collegecandy.com/2008/08/13/he-saidshe-said-flirting-with-someone-else/#comment-4142 Wed, 13 Aug 2008 19:23:13 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11229#comment-4142 I strongly disagree with the "If a guy does flirt, he will cheat on whomever he’s with, eventually." comment. Some people are naturally flirtatious, like my boyfriend and I. That doesn't mean he's going to cheat on me, or I him. Try not to generalize :)

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