and i love how you mention that you think there is not the “one” for you yet you tell yourself about “mr. right”.

you are a stupid slut. nothing more, nothing less.

You might be free from becoming pregnant. However, you are not free from parenting or from getting an std.

Saying you have 0% of getting knocked up is stupid. You are taking just as much risk of being a daddy every time you have sex and you too have to deal with parenting should you increase your number to the point where you end up having a baby-wanted or unwanted-one day.

Although it is true that some women are promiscuous due to insecurity issues, this is not ALWAYS the case. A woman can still love herself, have self respect and confidence but choose to have many partners. Maybe she enjoys her freedom, wants to experiment before settling down, whatever her decision for doing it, it is her body, her choice, her life.

I also don’t believe that because someone has had many partners that they are more likely to be unfaithful. In fact, I feel the opposite to be true. People that settle down too quickly and don’t experiment enough are more likely to be curious than someone who has. Again I stress the phrase “more likely” that is not to say that this is the case for everyone. There are always exceptions to every rule.

The most important point that I would like to make is that whether you choose to have 1 or 50 sexual partners, you should be prepared to accept the consequences of your actions. It only takes 1 to get you pregnant or to give you an STD. Therefore, educate yourself and protect yourself at all times.

In addition, any man who dumps you because of your number, didn’t really love you enough to begin with.

A single girl of four years would have had more partners than a commited girl of fours years. The commited girl may view the single girl as a slut but later in life the chances are they would have reversed roles and evened things out.

Some people want a relationship but cant have one and others choose to be free.

Im 19 almost 20 and have had 8 sexual partners. Some people may look down on it but when its avaeraged out i’ve slept with 2 guys a year. Nt bad when i live in a country where it seems perfectly acceptable to go home with somebody new every weekend.

I was my exes first gf, he had slept with 11 women, all one night stands. I personally felt a lot comfortable knowing these women felt nothing to him than what i would have knowing he had cared about somebody else.

I just stumbled onto this site and won’t be visiting again since I’m not the right age but could not resist posting from a completely distinct viewpoint. My number is 8. It hasn’t changed since 1995 because I met “the one” in 1997 and we have been happily married for 10 years now. His number is 11. Some of them were one-night stands. My sisters are very religious and held out for their husbands – who were also I should add bouncing off the walls like immature puppy dogs when we met them as they, themselves had held out as well. It was cute, but the men’s countenances changed immediately after the weddings. And they have average marriages, good but typical arguments. We do not. We respect each other consistently and constantly. I would call ours much more a marriage of true equals, unconfined by the boxes some religions have made for men and for women to sit in. We don’t fight; we understand each other; we’re soul mates. Having children has made us respect each others’ capabilities even more. He’s my best friend. If what I did with other guys made me the person I was and thereby got me on the timeline to my husband even in a roundabout way, then there aren’t regrets, and regardless my husband could have cared less about my number. I considered it training, in a way. He is, happily, the best of all of those I had – and frankly how do you recognize an extremely good meal when you haven’t eaten at other retaurants? Helps that he’s also the cutest by far of my ex’es.