When Crazy Girls Attack…AGAIN!

August 19, 2008     Posted in Reality

girl-fight.jpgA few weeks back, I shared a story involving me, my boyfriend and one crazy bitch. The girl refused to leave my boyfriend alone and I thought that having my boyfriend tell her to back off, then me, very forcefully, telling her to back off, would’ve been enough. Not so, people.


By Kelly

She didn’t get the not-so-subtle hint.

This biotch, who I’ve dubbed “Rachel” has struck again and this time, I am unsure of my next move. If telling someone to leave you alone doesn’t do the trick, what will?!

So, I am enlisting the help of my fellow CC-ers to steer me in the right direction. Below are some plans of action that I am considering. I need your unbiased opinions to help me make the right next move and get rid this crazy girl once and for all.

I could confront her, again. This time, face to face, in public, so she has no way of hiding behind her phone or computer and her naïve little, “I’m too good for everyone” façade will be shattered into a million little pieces.

Pros: I could crack her. When I am mean and mad, I can be very intimidating. Nothing would be nicer than watching her crumble in front of my eyes, after she has worked so very hard to ruin my relationship.

Cons: I could crack. I’m real tough, but my rough hide can only last so long and the possibility of getting emotional is realistic. That and, I could snap and start kicking her butt.

I could call her boyfriend. Yeah, I have his number. Stored in my phone. In case of an emergency.

Pros: This guy deserves to know the type of girl he is really dating. While he’s falling in love with her and planning a future, she’s out screwing every Tom, Dick and Harry she meets. Also, this phone call would be the ultimate revenge. Mwahahahah.

Cons: If he dumps her, she would be single. Major dilemma in my mind. Nothing would be worse than a single “Rachel” that can’t let go of my man. Also, that could involve both my boyfriend and I, which could open a big can of worms for us.

I could set her up. This has worked in movies millions of times. I would just have to find someone who will help me catch her in the act cheating. Then, blackmail her and make sure she knows not to mess with me again.

Pros: It’d probably shut her up.

Cons: I got the idea from a movie. Might not work so well in the real world.

I could do nothing. I could shut up, get over it and realize that he’s with me because he loves me and whatever she’s doing is her own way of getting to me.

Pros: It will show her that she isn’t winning, that I am above her crap and that my relationship is stronger than her. By not sinking to her level, I’m stepping out and saying, you don’t phase me, something she clearly wants to be doing.

Cons: It may continue. She will continue to get away with meddling in my life and continue to cheat on her unsuspecting boyfriend. Oh, and I won’t get the chance to shove it in her face. How is that fair?

Tips? Ideas? Number for a hit-man?

11 Comments on "When Crazy Girls Attack…AGAIN!"

  1. hanabira says:
    Tue, 19th Aug 20087:30 am 

    you have forgotten a big con from the first two: in fact YOU may end up looking like a major bitch.

    stick to the higher ground, its the best way for you to feel good about yourself in the long run and hold your self respect.

  2. Jes says:
    Tue, 19th Aug 20088:09 am 

    I would just talk to your boyfriend again, and have him completely ignore her. If he see's how upset she's making you and affecting your relationship, he should basically cut communication with her.

  3. Crunchy says:
    Tue, 19th Aug 20089:33 am 

    Take the chill approach. As long as he's coming home to you, you have nothing to worry about. Guys don't like when you make a fool of yourself . . . Although a little cat-fight can be sexy.

    http://www.digitalfuntown.com/videos/103

  4. Sarah says:
    Tue, 19th Aug 200810:19 am 

    I say go with the last option. She's obviously just trying to get to you if your boyfriend has made it clear to her that things are over between the two of them. She may still bother you, but you at least won't let her get any satisfaction out of it by not answering or returning her phone calls. Also, I agree with Dina about letting your boy know what you're doing. If this girl continues to pester the two of you (or even just you), he should be the one to take action and tell her off a second time. If he won't, then I think it's time to start questioning him instead of her.

  5. Dina says:
    Tue, 19th Aug 200811:53 am 

    I suggest the last option, you should try it for a while and make sure your bf knows whats up so that he can deal with it too. Of course its the most difficult but taking the high-road is a decision you won’t look back and regret.

    You’re an adult you can do it! The other options will at best make you look like a petty high-schooler, or at worst a Hills wannabe, remember you aren’t get paid by the hour like Lauren Conrad.

  6. Richelle says:
    Tue, 19th Aug 200812:20 pm 

    Go for the last one!! In a way, you will get to stick it to her, because people (including your bf) will see that you are a calm, classy lady, and that she is a heinous ho-bag. Recently I had to deal with the whole crazy-bitch-girl situation, only not quite in the same way you are dealing with it now. I thought it was pretty satisfying to take the high road. When you do that, you get to go on through your life knowing you did the right thing, and that she chose to make herself look like an idiot (hopefully in front of other people!)

    Some tips- ask your bf what he thinks, and if you guys think it would be best for both of you to just cut out this hotch completely. That means either deleting her number out of both your phones, or just changing it to the word 'No.' If you call your phone carrier you can even block text messages from specific numbers if you want. Block and delete her from your instant messenger accounts, facebook, myspace.. all that. Then if you see her when you're out and about, you can choose to either completely ignore her, or be really polite and refuse to get into any sort of confrontation, even if she tries.

    Good luck!

  7. ela says:
    Tue, 19th Aug 200812:43 pm 

    honestly, if you keep giving her the attention she craves with all this drama she's causing this will never cease. just- both of you- ignore her. your bf can easily change his number or just not even react to anything that has to do with her. acting further on her bullshit is high school and we're so over that phase.

    oh and you still haven't told her bf? wtf are you waiting for? it's painfully fair to inform someone about something like that esp if it's complicating your life. PLAY HER ON LOGIC not TACTIC. it fs bitches like that up bc they're in it just for the dramz.

  8. Marie says:
    Tue, 19th Aug 20083:59 pm 

    Even though the others would be more fun, Go with the last. Not looking like a crazy bitch is always the best way to go…especially if she makes herself look even worse by not leaving you guys alone. Thats the sweetest. GL to you guys…(and to this girls poor boyfriend)

  9. Katy Brezger says:
    Fri, 7th Aug 200910:02 am 

    your boyfriend is giving her mixed signals or she just wouldn't be comiung on all that strong, he's done at least something with her in the recent [very recent] past

  10. Lindsay - University says:
    Fri, 7th Aug 200911:27 am 

    last option is the best, but you really should talk to her bf. Not even in a bitchy way, but let him know that this girl has been causing problems with your relationship.

  11. Battle says:
    Fri, 8th Jul 20114:12 am 

    Block and delete her from your instant messenger accounts, facebook, myspace.. all that.

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