Comments on: 5 Tips for Sex with the Ex

By: Ex Sex | Seeking Men Match

Ex Sex | Seeking Men Match — Tue, 10 Jan 2012 17:33:17 +0000

[...] a reason, and if we want to find a relationship that does work, we need to stop having sex with our ex, even if it is fabulous, over the top [...]

By: Avocado

Avocado — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 05:57:11 +0000

Exsex is an emotional disaster if you still have feelings for the person. I ran into my ex after of 2 years of not seeing him and not having any sex. Of course, i never got over him and the exsex has thrown me back into hoping to rekindle things and constantly wanting to know how he feels about me now. But he is so nonchalant and avoids all relationship questions. I know what this really means- he just wants to keep it casual. So yes, proceed at your own risk because it is most definitely self-destructive.

By: elizabeth

elizabeth — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 03:05:02 +0000

I’ve been divorced for over 10 years – children with my ex. We hated each other in the beginning but because of other issues we started to talk-and have been able to become friends. Last year we met to talk about the kids but I knew something would happen. The sex with him had always been amazing and I hadn’t in a long time. Then we didn’t for a long time. He is in a committed relationship. Then over the past few mths we have started again. We meet – do it – then leave. We have both said – friends with benefits. I’ve never been able to have casual sex….but its comfortable. I know what I’m doing – and I think its wrong yet I can’t wait to see him again. We do ‘wild’ things that we used to do when married. My problem? I’m moving away, job opportunity and when I told him – he acted coy-but msg have gotten where he sounds upset that I am. I know him well enuf to know he will never change. He will never be monogamous – and I know I want to find THE ONE but having the right now works for me. He was my first love and I’m concerned feelings will happen, if they haven’t already. Its so confusing. I bounce between telling him we have to stop – to wanting him constantly!!!!

By: moi!

moi! — Tue, 24 May 2011 13:27:38 +0000

i think that, in essence, at the end of the day, there's no really such thing as r-e-a-l-l-y disconnecting sex from emotion or sense of attachment… apparently in summing up the post by saying she's "self-destructive," the author sense that…

By: danielle

danielle — Mon, 25 Apr 2011 18:53:25 +0000

sex with my ex was amazing. i was greatful to just be friends but more was amazing, though now its so difficult. im in love with him still, hes quite casual. but he tells me he will come to prom with me if i wanted, noticed that my nailvarnish had changed colour within a day! that must mean something? in a way i want him to either get back with me or say he never will but that wud b like splittin up all over again. he does text and reply but sometimes doesnt to .its so hard

By: danielle

danielle — Mon, 25 Apr 2011 18:50:25 +0000

By: Jack The Premature E

Jack The Premature E — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 05:50:07 +0000

I think you're right in that you need to just play it cool. Don't treat this sex like you're suddenly back together and in love. Just enjoy the physical side of it and have that be that. And you never know... By playing it cool things might just develop into something more, but if they don't you haven't lost anything. The one thing I would say is for the guy that he'd better be able to stop premature ejaculation, because if the love isn't there then he really does have to perform.

By: Jake

Jake — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 03:21:16 +0000

I believe that multiple times in multiple cities over multiple positions is impossible to accomplish in these harried/time sensitive/time shortened trials of tribulation in the great beyond of the world we think is the truth but is in causality a figment of the pain and suffering that afflict the preeminence of the world that we castigate in.

By: twinkyofalla

twinkyofalla — Tue, 30 Mar 2010 05:29:49 +0000

sex is really amazing especially if doing it out of love not lust. i am not into casual sex because for me sex is sacred!

By: delilah

delilah — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 18:49:13 +0000

i still love my ex.

but the best sex i've ever had.. so far we have decided to kiss/makeout, but no sex – since a principal of mine is not to have casual sex..

but it seems like everyday im thinking of more excuses and ways around it in my head..

i know how amazing the sex is, but i also know i couldn't help but feel more attatched if we had it.

i know when we dont have sex i feel distanced form him (which when we are broken up is probably a good thing!) plus, since i only have sex in relatinships, and he's my second guy.. i feel that entitlement.. which is no good either

damn emotionsss