To Transfer or Not to Transfer: That is the Question!
September 3, 2008 11:30 am Posted in Reality ccandysuzie g+ page
Remember your senior year of high school? Touring colleges, trying not to get your hopes up. Retaking the SAT for the tenth time, wondering if you’d get a better score with the ACT. The love/hate relationship with collegeboard.com, and endless trips to the college counselor.
Then, THE WAIT. And running to the mail box every day. Staring at your application status page – pressing F5 over and over (refresh, refresh, refresh!). Until, one day that magical word appears: admitted.
Fast forward to September.
The move-in is over (your mom only broke down once, thank goodness). The awkward, “Hi, I’m going to be living in close quarters!” moment is over with your roomie(s) and classes have begun.
And an unsettling feeling set in. This place isn’t what you thought it would be. You try to love it – really you do – but it isn’t the right fit and you can’t seem to get into a groove. You know you could transfer but *argh!* you thought you were set! That the application insanity was done for good! What do you do?
This was my story.
I, an LA girl, decided I wanted to experience life outside of tinsel town and get down to my German/ Norwegian roots. Yes. I moved to Wisconsin!
UW-Madison was far too expensive, so I applied to a small private college nearby. It seemed perfect— a cute little campus, single dorms available to freshmen girls (walk-in closets!) and they were offering me a 50% scholarship on academic merits. Plus they had a consortium with UW-Madison. I was totally psyched—the best of both worlds!
Then it was September and suddenly my perfect little plan began to have some SERIOUS flaws:
1. Everyone was from a small town in WI, which was cool, but as a Californian I was a minor celebrity, which got stale super fast. I just couldn’t fit in.
2. I couldn’t have a car on campus and a trip via bus to the nearest shopping area took nearly an hour in transit time—and that’s once I made the bus. It came every 30 min or so. As it got chilly this became a major issue.
3. Similarly, the bad bus situation made taking courses at UW-Madison totally ridiculous. (Bye-bye consortium)
4. There was one prof for my major. ONE. Silly me, I assumed that if you were going to offer a major you’d actually have profs on hand. One prof doesn’t a major make (especially because he was HORRIBLE!!!).
The list goes on and on and on.
Suffice it to say that by the end of September I had decided to move on. I think that if it had only been the social thing I might have stuck it out. But the academic flaws tipped the scale. (Did I mention my French professor mainly spoke in English and would accuse me of “throwing a flying saucer into her lecture” if I dared ask a question?)
I knew that I wanted to go to a good grad school and I began to realize that staying at this school would be the best way to drastically decrease my chances.
I’m not going to lie—the transfer process was incredibly stressful. Getting letters of rec sucks when you’ve only been at the school for a few months. “Hi professor, ummm your school sucks so I’m trying to transfer to a better one.” Or even better: “Hi former high school teacher, I made a horrible choice in colleges and I need you to write ANOTHER letter of rec for me.” Even more, I knew that to transfer into a competitive program from my dinky college I’d need great grades.
Oh, and remember THE WAIT? Well it’s longer for transfer students—I didn’t hear definitively from my top choice until the middle of May.
But it was SO worth it. I transferred to GW in Washington D.C. and I looooove it. I actually had to study at GW (Ok, yes I’m a total nerd but this made me really happy) and my fellow students were similarly motivated. And, best of all there were lots and lots of profs for my department!
Transferring is not for the weak of heart. But if you know you can do better, whether it be academically, athletically, socially, etc. then you owe it to yourself to give it a shot.
Incidentally, I’m writing this during my insane apartment hunting in NYC—because I’m going to grad school at NYU. There’s a very slim chance I would be here had I not taken the plunge.
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Maria says:
Wed, 3rd Sep 20089:05 am
I recently went through a very similar dilemma, transferring from Mercyhurst College to Edinboro University, and I couldn't be happier!!
Amber - Old Dominion says:
Wed, 3rd Sep 20081:26 pm
If you're looking at colleges, I recommend that you do a thorough search and look in to ALL the possibilities you have, you'll be a lot happier later.
Michelle says:
Wed, 3rd Sep 20082:34 pm
I transferred universities and I am more happier and doing extremely better than at the university I was at prior.
Cali says:
Wed, 3rd Sep 20083:25 pm
I transferred for academic reasons. I went from a nothing school to a top 50 school. Although socially it's a lot harder here I'm glad I did it because now I will be able to get any top I want!
If you are considering transferring make sure you have a SOLID reason to transfer like something academic. I mean yea transferring to your boyfriend's school might sound like a good idea now but if you have nothing else at that school that you like besides your boyfriend, what happens if/when you break up?
Mollie says:
Wed, 3rd Sep 20085:07 pm
I have a feeling that had you just gone to UW-Madison, you would have had a fantastic time. I know I did. Hey, isn't Georgetown just as expensive or more so than UW?
Ree says:
Thu, 4th Sep 20086:09 pm
I transferred and I love it here. Best decision I ever made.
PublicSpeaker says:
Thu, 4th Sep 20086:48 pm
I transfered twice. I went to St. Johns University my freshman year because I was on the staten island campus and felt that I was paying too much money and not receiving the same education nor benefits of the queens/main campus. Besides the university was just a 13th grade of highschool for staten islanders.Then I went back home to the university of mo-kansas city. I should have known this was a mistake when I didnt get housing. I was forced to live in a dangerous neighborhood with a crazy roomate and slum landlord. Eventually in my semester there I was able to get into the dorms and my roomate was cool she just never left the room. the people were alot friendly than my present school and I had a amazing work study but in case you dont know there is absoultely nothing to do in kansas city, mo. and if you dont have a car your screwed even more. and i didnt have a car… I decided that i missed nyc so much I transfered back to nyc at pace university. I guess I like who I have become in a such a short time-semester. I mean I am on the model un team, director of weekly meeting and events for women in corporate america. Im in the honors program, and im volunteering again. the only thing I dont like is the price and the fact that its extremly hard to make friends as a transfer student. but for law school im making the right and only decision…Havard or Yale! lol
PublicSpeaker says:
Thu, 4th Sep 20086:50 pm
Sorry it was so long. But transferring really hits home for me. I never thought when I was a senior in highschool that I would go to 3 schools in 4 years but I am proud to still be in school and I am proud to say that I AM NOT TRANSFERING AGAIN…lol. But there is nothing wrong with changing schools if you know in your heart its not the right place for you. Always follow your heart!
PublicSpeaker says:
Thu, 4th Sep 20086:51 pm
Sorry it was so long. But transferring really hits home for me. I never thought when I was a senior in highschool that I would go to 3 schools in 4 years but I am proud to still be in school and I am proud to say that I AM NOT TRANSFERING AGAIN…lol. But there is nothing wrong with changing schools if you know in your heart its not the right place for you. Always follow your heart!!