He Said/She Said: What Makes a Girl Bad in Bed?

September 10, 2008 4:30 pm     Posted in Relationships, Sex  Candy -- NYU g+ page

asleep.jpgI know full-well what makes a man not-so-good in bed. I know it when I can’t sit comfortably the next day, or when I want to fall asleep during the most boring sex of all time. And I definitely knew it that time the dude licked me from my mouth to my ear..and left a nice puddle of saliva in my hair.

But I have no idea what makes a woman bad in bed. Can a woman be bad in bed? Could I be bad in bed? I started to develop a complex after a male friend of mine told me he had faked orgasms…on multiple occassions! Guys fake orgasms? Could a guy have been faking with me?

OMG! WHAT IF I AM BAD?!

I turned to my male advisor for the answers. (Note: I did try and convince him that it was “my friend” who was worried, but we all know it was neurotic, self-conscious me.)

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12 Comments on "He Said/She Said: What Makes a Girl Bad in Bed?"
  1. huh says:
    Wed, 10th Sep 200811:43 am 

    I have a theory that no woman has ever wanted to have sex ever, with a man that she could land.

    Men that would never fuck them, they want to fuck, but only because subconsciously they know the opportunity will never present itself.

    I don't want you to make me 'feel' like your having a good time. For fucks sake, if your not having a good time then why are you letting my have sex with you.

  2. Jackie says:
    Wed, 10th Sep 20084:51 pm 

    huh-hate to break it to ya, but your theory is totally incorrect.

    and some women? can land a LOT of men.

  3. christy says:
    Thu, 11th Sep 20089:10 pm 

    I definitely agree with this article on all points. Sex is about pleasure for both people, not fancy moves. It's all about being completely relaxed, doing what feels good and being in tune to what the other person is feeling and how they are reacting to everything. :)

  4. Matthews says:
    Mon, 22nd Sep 20084:48 pm 

    I agree with christy. In fact, I can't even climax if I can't get you off once or twice. So no faking, be as real as possible.

    Non & verbal communication is key. If you have a dude with a big ego, then make your wants not commands but suggestions. And when he gets it right and dead on, then make absolutely sure he gets the message. Next time would be even better.

    I'm the competitive type in bed. Whereas I like to see talent & performance after an hour and a half.

    I consider the first stage just getting to know each other's body for what we enjoy the most. It helps me to close my eyes and listen while I touch babygirl a certain way. Or I would gaze at her facial expressions, her chest's breathing pattern, the tightening and relaxing of her stomach, hands and toes to tell me how well I'm doing. So yes, laying there looking dead and still doesn't help me.

  5. Hannah says:
    Sun, 28th Feb 20108:36 pm 

    what happens if I do everything posted there and I've been TOLD, yes people T O L D, that I am bad in bed. It freaks me out to be with this or any other guy for that matter ever since. I have no idea what to do, been surfing the net all night. ADVICE, PLEASE..

  6. Michael says:
    Wed, 19th May 201011:07 pm 

    Hi Hanna,

    If you are not having to just "act" as if things are good/great, then I think your guy was just being a jerk for some reason. I suppose "some" guys may need to try out every sexual thing known to man (humans?) on their first night with someone but I don't believe that is the case for most of us. The key eliments for me the first time is knowing I truly have your interest and that I can satisfy you. I have only had one experiance where the gal just laid there and nothing I did seemed to make any differance, that was so frusterating and the aboslute worst time I ever had sexualy. This being the first time I have ever mentioned it to anyone. Interestingly (to me at least), her view of that same event was not anywhere near mine. As I had heard back "through the grape vine" that it was her best sex ever… go figure.. wish she would have shown it then as it left me very discontented. But then, I am a pleaser and feed off my partners' excitment.

  7. kayla says:
    Sat, 25th Dec 20108:07 pm 

    i dont get the teeth part? whats bad about teeth?

  8. lea says:
    Tue, 7th Jun 20119:43 pm 

    when you bite his dick haha!

  9. Charlie says:
    Mon, 29th Aug 20112:23 pm 

    A girl is bad in bed when:

    1) She lies down almost lifeless waiting for you to do something and during the whole sexual act she remains silent and emotionless (pointed in the comments above)
    2) She REFUSES to have oral sex with a man. I have had a bunch of friends that say: if she wont suck it, there wont be any relationship, period…
    3) She is hardly ever in the mood for sex, either because she always seems to be tired, sick, on her days or not willing to have sex. Infrecuent sex is terrible and can bring down a relationship. If you want to get more details, infrequent means around once a week or less…
    4) She wont even try new things out with you, causing a boring and predictable sex all around…
    5) She doesnt enjoy sexual talk and will be deeply disturbed if you ever talk "dirty" to her

    Girls, if you have found the man of your life, the best way to keep him is to have a great sexual relationship. No matter how attentive, good looking, caring or loving partner you are, bad sex WILL END your relationship sooner or later.

    Please keep in mind that girls can also be bad in bed and that this might well be the answer for of his "distant" behaviour in your long term relationship. I hope this helps the community

    Wish you a lot of success,

    Charlie

  10. Tony .D says:
    Sat, 1st Oct 20114:57 am 

    For decades women have made a point of telling men how inadequate they are in bed and all the countless things they do wrong i.e 'he's a one minute man' ,' he pounds at it for hours' , 'he has a small d**k' etc,etc .It's time women realize that there is more to being a good lover as a woman than just showing up

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