1) She lies down almost lifeless waiting for you to do something and during the whole sexual act she remains silent and emotionless (pointed in the comments above)
2) She REFUSES to have oral sex with a man. I have had a bunch of friends that say: if she wont suck it, there wont be any relationship, period…
3) She is hardly ever in the mood for sex, either because she always seems to be tired, sick, on her days or not willing to have sex. Infrecuent sex is terrible and can bring down a relationship. If you want to get more details, infrequent means around once a week or less…
4) She wont even try new things out with you, causing a boring and predictable sex all around…
5) She doesnt enjoy sexual talk and will be deeply disturbed if you ever talk "dirty" to her

Girls, if you have found the man of your life, the best way to keep him is to have a great sexual relationship. No matter how attentive, good looking, caring or loving partner you are, bad sex WILL END your relationship sooner or later.

Please keep in mind that girls can also be bad in bed and that this might well be the answer for of his "distant" behaviour in your long term relationship. I hope this helps the community

Wish you a lot of success,

Charlie

If you are not having to just "act" as if things are good/great, then I think your guy was just being a jerk for some reason. I suppose "some" guys may need to try out every sexual thing known to man (humans?) on their first night with someone but I don't believe that is the case for most of us. The key eliments for me the first time is knowing I truly have your interest and that I can satisfy you. I have only had one experiance where the gal just laid there and nothing I did seemed to make any differance, that was so frusterating and the aboslute worst time I ever had sexualy. This being the first time I have ever mentioned it to anyone. Interestingly (to me at least), her view of that same event was not anywhere near mine. As I had heard back "through the grape vine" that it was her best sex ever… go figure.. wish she would have shown it then as it left me very discontented. But then, I am a pleaser and feed off my partners' excitment.

Non & verbal communication is key. If you have a dude with a big ego, then make your wants not commands but suggestions. And when he gets it right and dead on, then make absolutely sure he gets the message. Next time would be even better.

I'm the competitive type in bed. Whereas I like to see talent & performance after an hour and a half.

I consider the first stage just getting to know each other's body for what we enjoy the most. It helps me to close my eyes and listen while I touch babygirl a certain way. Or I would gaze at her facial expressions, her chest's breathing pattern, the tightening and relaxing of her stomach, hands and toes to tell me how well I'm doing. So yes, laying there looking dead and still doesn't help me.

and some women? can land a LOT of men.