Comments on: Don’t Leave Me This Way: Being Jealous Of a Friend’s Luck in Love

By: Ron

Ron — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 16:21:00 +0000

All of these apart….

Do we have a cure or we just wander blindly till we bump into somebody????

Cheers,

Ron

By: Jane

Jane — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 19:54:12 +0000

Im tired of being single. My roomate always has boyfriends. I dont get it…shes a bitch!!! Im nice so I always end up hurt and single. Life sucks.

By: Kate

Kate — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 23:39:14 +0000

i'm 110% convinced that my roommate is jealous of my relationship with my boyfriend…it drives me crazy..bc she likes to bring everyone else down!! wtf..just cause ur not getting laid..dont be a jealous bitch

By: Ski

Ski — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 19:50:14 +0000

I completely understand. My bff has been with quite a few boys and has been engaged 3 times. Every time she's been soooo happy and glowed like no other! And DAMMIT! I want to glow too!

By: Jill

Jill — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 18:58:39 +0000

Gah. Totally get it.

One of my best friends is floating on cloud 9 these days because she's met a guy and they really like each other and are now dating.

And I'm still single. *siiiiigh*

Not that there's anything wrong with that. I'm just super envious of her lovesick glow.

I want to glow too!!

By: C

Thu, 18 Sep 2008 11:37:16 +0000

How about trying to be happy for your ex-boyfriend who can now be seen around campus… ours is a very small liberal arts university, so there's no esacping it?

I know I should be happy for him, but I'm quite jealous that he got into a new relationship before I did.

By: Molly

Molly — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 09:04:07 +0000

I was always the single one in my group of friends, both in high school and in college. It was actually sort of weird, that just about EVERY SINGLE one of my good friends (even males) had a significant other. And I haven't had a technical boyfriend since my sophomore year in high school. I'm now almost 23…

Sad day, haha.

By: biz

biz — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 19:40:54 +0000

Yeah. My bff from high school, who abhored men all her life, got herself a boy already. And I am still guyless.

By: J

Wed, 17 Sep 2008 19:07:39 +0000

Uh…I lived with 5 of my girlfriends in a house my last year of college, and all of them had boyfriends except for me. And they all went on a couple's spring break together to Florida. I went to Acapulco with another group of girls and had a FANTASTIC time, but sitting around listening to them dish about their guys all the time while I was struggling with random hookups and being slighted by different guys at school kind of sucked.

And it didn't help that when I went home, all of my close girlfriends from home were in relationships too…

By: Emily

Emily — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 15:46:10 +0000

My best friend and I went back and forth about this for quite some time. Things were going really well for her with this one guy and I was single, then while she and her guy were on a break, I met the most amazing guy. At that point, she decided that we could never be happy at the same time, which ultimatly upset me (for obvious reasons), but as soon as she stopped looking at what I had and what she didn't, she and her guy got back together and we are both extremely happy with what we have.

Basically, I am just saying that we both had to stop looking at what the other had and stop lusting after it, because (as cliche as this is) you can't find love while you're looking for it.