He Said/She Said: Doin’ It When Aunt Flo Is In Town

September 17, 2008 6:00 pm     Posted in Other Stories, Sex  Candy -- NYU g+ page

tampax.jpg


By Candy

One of my biggest gripes about being a woman is not the fact that I can’t get paid as much as a man for doing the same amount of work (though that is up there), or the amount of maintenance that is expected our gender (hair, nails, waxing, working out, etc.).It is the fact that my period makes me really, really horny.

But it’s not like I can do anything about it, right? I mean, I don’t even want to think about what’s goin’ on down there, so how can I ask someone else to actually venture in that direction? At the same time, though, guys love sex and would do anything to have it. So maybe they really don’t care if their mate is currently hanging out with Aunt Flo?

I needed some answers, so I turned to someone who could get me the scoop: a dude.

picture-1.jpg

picture-2.jpg

picture-3.jpg

picture-4.jpg

picture-5.jpg

picture-6.jpg

35 Comments on "He Said/She Said: Doin’ It When Aunt Flo Is In Town"

  1. Mary says:
    Wed, 17th Sep 20081:29 pm 

    shower sex.

  2. Toni says:
    Wed, 17th Sep 20083:19 pm 

    I have done it once or twice… Its not really my thing. I mean I am really horny but Id rather not bug my boyfriend and make him deal with the ickiness. I don't know if it bugs him or not… But we have done it with the tampon in before. (it kinda hurts).

    Anyway, I usually stick to giving my boyfriend head all week… but that really does nothing for me

  3. Sarabeth - Universit says:
    Wed, 17th Sep 20083:31 pm 

    neither me or my guy even want to try…

    and i don't mind giving him a week of free blowjobs.

    i kinda like it actually (yeah, i know, i'm weird)

  4. LucyInTheSky says:
    Thu, 18th Sep 20084:06 am 

    I have yet to meet a guy who cares… in my experience, this guy is dead on. I have actually heard guys say they like it because it looks like their dick murdered someone- yeah, I realize how absolutely creepy that is.

    However, I have no problem doing it. I don't do it on the first few days of my period, but on the last few days, it's not a big deal. Just lay down a towel and take a shower together afterward!

  5. Hyena says:
    Thu, 18th Sep 200810:11 am 

    It's actually my favorite time of the month. I'll go down on my girl and come up looking like a lion that just killed a little baby gazelle. The best part is picking the little strawberry gummy bears pieces out of my teeth when i'm done.

  6. Lauren, University o says:
    Thu, 18th Sep 200810:52 am 

    oh. gross.

  7. Hyena says:
    Thu, 18th Sep 200810:55 am 

    Oh come on Lauren you know you'd love it

  8. Hyena says:
    Thu, 18th Sep 200810:56 am 

    Oh come on Lauren you know you'd love it, just sit back and let the good times flow

  9. Laura says:
    Thu, 18th Sep 20087:05 pm 

    I just threw up a little. …

  10. Candace says:
    Fri, 19th Sep 20085:27 am 

    I've had sex while on my period before. It's not a big deal when you're having a light day. Just use a condom and take a shower after. My boyfriend cares less than I do about it. Usually I don't want to when I'm on my period, but it really doesn't bothter him…he just wants it lol

  11. sara says:
    Fri, 19th Sep 200811:38 am 

    Hyena, my jaw dropped as you said that. Ew.

  12. Sarah says:
    Fri, 19th Sep 200812:26 pm 

    HYENA = HILARIOUS

    But yeah…sex on the rag isn't that bad. My guy wasn't into it at first, but when I showed him that I wouldn't bleed like a gored pig, it was all, "green lights go!" (or red?)

  13. Jo-Marie says:
    Sat, 20th Sep 20087:12 am 

    I also read somewhere that orgasms reduce cramps.

  14. Cole says:
    Sat, 20th Sep 20081:04 pm 

    As a guy, it doesnt really bother me. Its kinda gross but at the same time, its new and kind of a turn on… Some guys like doing all the work, ie… taking the tampon out… But it really depends on the girl. I would not do it if i wasnt close. I almost got married to a girl and we did it all the time… there is less of a chance to get her pregnant. If you love someone stuf like that doesnt matter.

  15. Bridge says:
    Sat, 20th Sep 20089:32 pm 

    Depends on what part of my period I'm on. There has been one time when I was in like my 2nd day and having sex gave me worst cramps then my period does. I don't mind it, as long as we have a towel on the bed and then take a shower together, we are golden.

  16. qwerrrty says:
    Sat, 20th Sep 20089:43 pm 

    i remember how exciteded i was to discover my guy didn't care in the slightest if i was on my period. he was so sweet. it made me feel even more comfortable with him.

  17. jjj says:
    Sun, 21st Sep 20084:15 am 

    If the girl looks like Scarlett Johasson I'll eat her pussy ANYTIME!

  18. Nat says:
    Mon, 22nd Sep 20087:15 am 

    Just do it in the shower!

  19. Matthews says:
    Mon, 22nd Sep 20084:27 pm 

    However the relationship, it should be talked about and planned out first.

    During showers are great! With the lights out is even better.

    Lights out, on the bed, with a towel during the 3rd-6th days is fine with a bottle of lube by the bed & a shower immediately after.

    Lights out, on the bed, with a double towel during the 1st-2nd days is kind of cutting it. You see, because now we have to be very careful how we stroke you to prevent your cramps but still get you to nut off. It becomes like surgery, any wrong movement can ruin it. The one plus side is no lube needed. And don't forget to shower.

    That going down business… for me, that's crossing the line. Don't get me wrong, I luv to eat. :P Take naps down there even. But for a man that doesn't even like BJs; I will not feast that week.

  20. Sara says:
    Tue, 23rd Sep 200812:57 pm 

    Me and my boyfriend do it all the time. He doesn't mind at all, and as long as I dont feel too gross I dont mind it, it actually feels a lot better then I expected. However, I do know we didn't start trying it out until 2-3 years, so that could make a difference as to why he doesn't mind.

  21. Valerie says:
    Tue, 23rd Sep 20081:32 pm 

    I'm on the depo shot… which I love for many reasons besides not having to deal with this issue. But before… just use a towel… shower after.

  22. Stephanie says:
    Wed, 24th Sep 20088:11 am 

    Ew. Hyena. Ew.

    I always thought guys would be too freaked out.

    Buttt…uh no one is going down on me while I'm on my period. That's digusting. It's friggin bacteria. Ew.

  23. E says:
    Wed, 24th Sep 20083:55 pm 

    I've done it while I'm on my menstrual cycle. My boyfriend didn't want to at first but I managed to convince him and it worked out in the end. Now we just do it even if I'm on my period as long as we don't have somewhere to be afterwards.

  24. Tiffany says:
    Wed, 24th Sep 20085:24 pm 

    I have done it with my boyfriend. I was grossed out to begin with but he was so ready to go that he told me he didn't care and it really wasn't that bad. It felt pretty good actually. Our only mistake was that we were on a couch… his parents and that was weird.

  25. Carlo says:
    Wed, 24th Sep 20087:42 pm 

    Its great at that time, messy or not. Something primal, attractive about every part of menstruation. Too bad its also a drag for the woman, but its an act of nature that has appeal like a Spring thunderstorm.

  26. Stephanie says:
    Wed, 24th Sep 20088:59 pm 

    Uhhhh.

    If you're into finger painting and cherry ices then have fun, but that whole idea is just really gross to me lol.

  27. Sarah says:
    Sat, 27th Sep 20082:19 pm 

    To everyone who said it is gross, you have hangups and are not a fully mature sexual woman, sorry.

  28. bunny says:
    Mon, 29th Sep 20084:37 am 

    I can barely MOVE when im on my period, so im way to busy on the way to get some injection off the hospital or throwing up to think about having sex for at least 7 days :( (

  29. Jenny-WMU says:
    Mon, 29th Sep 20088:28 am 

    I've done it before but yeah I think you have to be in a steady relationship and talk about it. My boyfriend was excited because there was less chance of me getting pregnant.

  30. Emba says:
    Fri, 17th Oct 20082:53 am 

    So this sounds like an advertisement, but…

    Ladies, have no fear. The softcup is here! Check out this website: http://www.softcup.com/ It will change your life for the better, I promise. Not only is this little thing more comfortable, longer lasting, and less smelly than pads and tampons, you can have sex with it in as well! Just make sure you change it right before, or you will leak like no other.

    I used to only have sex on my light days, but now I can have sex any day I'm on my period, which is wonderful. And, my boyfriend can't even feel it.

    Sorry for sounding like an informercial, but I really feel the need to spread the word.

  31. Dave says:
    Wed, 24th Dec 200812:49 am 

    Wow.. I remember my first time doing it while my girl was on her period. She didn't mention that she was on it and I didn't realize she was on it until I flipped the lights on and there was blood EVERYWHERE.. omg it scared the crap outta me. I didn't know what the hell had happened, lolll.. other than that it isn't that bad. I don't like having to worry about dirtying up my sheets though so back when I was with my last girl we'd usually just take it to the shower.

  32. Mayce says:
    Sat, 6th Jun 200911:03 pm 

    How hard is it 2 just buy an effing vibro? See! Problem solved, all u dumb horny broads. I'm guessing ur blondes. :eye roll:

  33. eh says:
    Sun, 26th Jul 20098:13 am 

    if that's the case, why don't guys just buy blow-up dolls when they're single, huh?

    i don't wanna use a vibrator when i've got my period, not when i could be having sex with my guy instead! i reckon he'd agree, i was soooo nervous and scared the first time, i thought he'd get grossed out but he was all for it lol

  34. cola says:
    Thu, 6th Jan 20113:56 pm 

    you can ABSOLUTELY NOT have sex with a tampon in!!!! are you fucking mental? what part of your brain told you THAT was a good idea?! you can't shove something in there while it's occupado sweetheart! ow, and ew! that's how tampons get lost…take that shit out first

Tell us what you're thinking...