Comments on: I Don’t Remember How to “Make Love” http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Sat, 26 May 2012 16:48:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Single Girl Society: Trust Your Instincts : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/#comment-118488 Fri, 21 Jan 2011 21:00:55 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12440#comment-118488 [...] the last year, it seems as though being single has been my specialty. While flings and hookups have come and gone (pun intended) and dates have left me with some less [...]

]]> By: Single Girl Society: Being Single Doesn’t Mean Being On The Prowl 24/7 : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/#comment-117791 Fri, 14 Jan 2011 21:00:23 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12440#comment-117791 [...] the last year, it seems as though being single has been my specialty. While flings and hookups have come and gone (pun intended) and dates have left me with some less [...]

]]> By: Single Girl Society: Take A Chance On Someone You Dont Think Is Your “Type” : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/#comment-117125 Fri, 07 Jan 2011 21:00:30 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12440#comment-117125 [...] the last year, it seems as though being single has been my specialty. While flings and hookups have come and gone (pun intended) and dates have left me with some less [...]

]]> By: Dave http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/#comment-17113 Wed, 24 Dec 2008 05:35:03 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12440#comment-17113 Some Guy.. I wholeheartedly agree.

Plus these comments about how empowering and promiscuity do not go hand in hand. Amen to them.

Noa.. it looks like you broke yourself… you'll sort it out eventually.. if not you could always just keep on doing random men to keep yourself busy(/feeling empowered?)

]]> By: Some Guy http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/#comment-17112 Wed, 01 Oct 2008 06:20:18 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12440#comment-17112 If some chick told me that she wanted to "wait until the time was right", and I found out that she was banging other guys, I'd not only drop her like a bad habit, I'd give any of my friends a warning to keep their distance.

]]> By: Some Guy http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/#comment-17111 Wed, 01 Oct 2008 06:11:56 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12440#comment-17111 This story is a great example of why men should avoid college girls. Guys, if you're still in college, go find yourself a full-grown woman (30 should do it), and let these silly little bimbos like Noa spend a decade or so crashing and burning after one-night stands.

]]> By: Emily http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/#comment-17110 Wed, 24 Sep 2008 10:53:32 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12440#comment-17110 I'm sure your mothers, who spent years fighting for womens equality, would be so proud to know that you college-age women are now using it as an excuse to sleep around under the guise of empowerment. It's a shame that your generation thinks that female empowerment is throwing your body around for your own satisfaction and "doing it like a dude." What a joke. What a waste. I feel sorry for your generation – you have been so desensitized to sex that you have to question whether you'll ever be able to have the emotions that are supposed to go with it. Maybe you should take a second to re-evaluate what you are really looking for. I bet it isn't just a good lay.

]]> By: Tyler http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/#comment-17109 Wed, 24 Sep 2008 09:23:49 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12440#comment-17109 I agree with Casey. I don't see the link between being promiscuous and being empowered. I don't see a problem with being promiscuous. Who anybody wants to hook up with is his/her own choice. I just don't see a reason that women talk about being empowered because of it. You hook up when and who you want to, I think it's as simple as that. It makes you feel good to go and have sex and feel attractive/wanted. I'm not sure if there's really much more beyond that.

]]> By: ela http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/#comment-17108 Tue, 23 Sep 2008 12:06:25 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12440#comment-17108 oy yoy casey (what up girl!) and i find ourselves again in this situation where we have to somehow express how promiscuous ҂ (doesn't equal) empowerment. i think almost EVERYONE here went thru this phase. i did after a traumatic break up after 4.5 years, and sex was more about rebellion than anything else to me. i look back and i have to admit i'm pretty displeased with my previous choices but i guess it's all in the school of life. I think NOA had an epiphany that hey, maybe random sex really doesn't do it for me anymore. i hope this dude ends up being awesome and hold out just a little longer bc when you finally give in it will be that much more satisfying!

]]> By: Capri Sun http://collegecandy.com/2008/09/22/i-dont-remember-how-to-make-love/#comment-17107 Tue, 23 Sep 2008 10:08:59 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12440#comment-17107 I went through this stage too, except I was mostly just hooking up with my friends I'd always been kind of attracted to. Then when I got a steady booty call, it eventually morphed into a relationship somewhere along the line so there was no awkward transition from sex to love, it just happened. I don't think it works like that normally, but I feel like it's almost something you want to get out of the way. I don't recommend it for everyone, and that might make you look kind of easy I guess, but sometimes giving into your animal instincts early can get that tension gone and you can focus on making love when there's actually love to make.

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