Comments on: Why Are Girls So Mean To Each Other?

By: kaybee

kaybee — Fri, 22 May 2009 04:29:35 +0000

Bitch means a female dog in heat. The term is accurate for girls going into heat and competing for males. Women have tremendous sexual power and can and will use sex as a weapon. Not just against other women but him and herself as well. Once she secures a mate, she usually isn’t such a competitive conniving bitch anymore.

The prettier and the smarter she is, all the meaner she is maligned by other women, so take it as a compliment if girls are mean to you. The meaner they are, the prettier and smarter you are. My Dad taught my brothers how to find the most beautiful women by following all the malicious gossip by the other girls. And she really does need a friend. If you think guys are being your “friend in need” we must talk about that. Believe me, he is hoping it gets to you so bad he gets some sympathy sex from you. When they grow up, the girls who didn’t really understand why they were so rotten do feel bad about being such a jealous bitch.

Life evens the score and humbles us all. Yeah, and those insides catch up with the outsides in a hurry so if he or she is rotten inside, it doesn’t take much or long for it to show in a few years.

I will walk a mile around men or women who talk trash and especially if it is about women. Misogyny and malicious gossip are red flags of toxic people. You can’t expect a healthy friendship or partnership out of a sicko. You get what you give. If you trash women, you attract women haters.

There is nothing more beautiful on a woman than kindness and humanity. The doors are wide open all over the world and whereever you want to go in life if you know this beauty secret.

By: patrick

patrick — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 15:31:01 +0000

hey, i have more female friends than guys and anyone of them can bitch like crazy to anyone but then the next day be friends with them. You all do it! it’s mad. i think guy are way more loyal but that’s only cause they don’t give a crap if someone saying they’re to skinny or if they see a proper buff guy walking past. But if they do fall out then they stay fallen out with them and therefore are only friend with guys they really get along with.

what i’ve seen is they’ll be a big group of girls. not everyone gets along, but yet they are nice to there faces just to keep the group together. but yet they’ll bitch about them behind there backs but they’re not bitching about there friends just girls they dont like.

so it not really that bad.

you all just need to relax and be more lay back tbh..

By: Tiffany

Tiffany — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 22:52:11 +0000

Wow, what a bunch of pessimistic responses. It’s a little silly to be asking why are girls to mean to each other when you just judged the general female population. Why did YOU do that?

I think we need to stop this illusion that girls are worse or bitchier than guys… Sorry, but girls aren’t the only ones who stab each other in the backs. You should see what guys will do when they like the same girl or just because of a girl.

It IS insecurity, it IS human nature, but don’t go blaming /females/ and casting a halo over the heads of men. They hurt each other, too.

By: C

Thu, 25 Sep 2008 06:40:05 +0000

In all fairness, girls judge guys pretty harshly too. We’re just not competing with them so we don’t vocalize it as much, but let’s not pretend that we don’t think “OMG he is too skinny” or “what a slut!” about guys too.

By: E

Wed, 24 Sep 2008 23:53:45 +0000

I used to wonder the same things, then I realized. Girls are just bitches. We all are, one way or another. Some are overt, blatant bitches and some are subtle, conniving bitches. You might not think you’re a bitch but when you think, “man, that girl is a slut… She slept with 3 different guys this week!” or “That girl is soo freaking skinny. I hate her!/I would kill to be that skinny…”, you’re being a bitch. In order to make female friends, you have to let go of your insecurities that causes you to think these thoughts. You have to have faith and trust that this girl will not stab you in the back. And only when you can be a friend too, then you’ll get a friend. The reason why many females find it easier to bond with males is because they don’t feel the competition that they feel with females. When you’re surrounded by guys, you can’t really mentally judge and compare yourself with them. It’s kind of hard to think, “Man, this guy has bigger boobs than me, so jealous!!” When you’re around guys, you let your guard down and become the friendly person that makes guys enjoy being around you, if you can act that way around girls, then you will find that it is easier and nicer to be around girls.

By: ashley

ashley — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 23:40:28 +0000

wow I love how the first comment is “thats why i have more guy friends” but this really isn’t about your “girl” friends it’s more why are girls just mean in general. Yes every girl has done one thing on list list at least once but you wouldn’t do any of these things TO your friends, just WITH them lol.

By: Brittney

Brittney — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 15:47:24 +0000

I gossip, but that’s about the only point listed that describes me. I agree though, I wish women were more loving towards others.

By: Mel

Mel — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 06:19:59 +0000

Oh god…this makes me so sad. I got called a slut today, and it’s the first time I’ve actually heard somebody say it about me, though they didn’t say it to my face. I’m not, that’s all you need to know.

All I can say is, I’ve never been a girl with girl friends, so i’ve never had opportunity to gossip much. But, man, I’m gonna be extra careful not to gossip.

And I don’t understand how they can judge me. the girl who said the word doesn’t know me from Adam.

i’m sooo pissed, i’m crying. i didn’t want to start a bitch fight, so after class i just turned to her and said, “do me a favour and don’t talk about me behind my back” (she was sitting right behind me).

But I think it would have been better if I could deal with it the way guys supposedly do: “you, me, outside”. Then I wouldn’t be stuck with this horrible anger. I think that eliminates a lot of cattiness from boy’s interactions.

Hey, sisters though, I’ll be your friend, I won’t stab you in the back. And I’ll fuck who I want to fuck without being a slut because I have a love for all of humankind, even though soulless bitches who attack me.

By: Caroline

Caroline — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 04:21:30 +0000

I think about 85% of women have a pageant mentality to life. To them, there can only be a limited amount of slots to things, particularly social influence and men. It’s really pathetic of them and I’m glad more women are pointing it out.

By: Shay

Shay — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 01:24:53 +0000

Insecurity. People tend to put others down when they are insecure. They feel better about themselves when they point out the flaws in others.

Society and culture tells us we have to be a certain way. TV…female violence towards eachother, everyone strives to be perfect weight not too skinny or fat etc;

A womans brain is different than a mans. It’s proved that we are much more in-tune with emotion and show more empathy.