sometimes i'm complete asshole telling girl to "go fuck themselves and just die" and sometimes i'm super sweet opening all doors for them. sometimes i love them and sometimes i hate the bitches. that's how it goes. there were times when some chicks loved me knowing very well that i didn't remember their namesd. dumb? of course! but they responded to it well so who cares whether that's right or not. it is what it is.

therefore bad boys have the advantage that they don't listen what these girls SAY and claim and expect that much but they do their thing and check how girls RESPOND to them. and that's huge. cause usually girls say plenty of shit just to save face and maintain reputation. however in right place and time these go out of the window and they get nasty. so empathetic and considerate nice guys take that seriously (they always use the word "respect") and treat girls exactly how these girls say they want to be treated. but bad boys don't have those constraints, they do what usually WORKS and see if the girl reponds well to that. so the main difference is that nice guys wait for permission from the girls and bad boys do their thing and deal with consequences later. usually these consequences are pleasant.

the best way to understand this chaotic world is to come to grasp with the fact that human nature is what it is. expect and force nothing

Great topic though, I'm glad you get it. Just had some girl telling me last night how all men specifically the ones she dates are aholes. I told her no, she is just attracted to aholes, and doesn't notice the nice guys. She didn't believe me.

"So, by the time the Nice Girl realizes said dude will never care about anything other than his hair, his car and sticking his you-know-what into every willing hoo-ha in town, she’s already said the “L-word” and picked out future children’s names."

Personal grooming and you-know-what in hoo-ha FTW.