Comments on: A**holes Finish First http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Tue, 24 Nov 2009 23:01:33 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Muffins http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12099 Muffins Sun, 15 Feb 2009 22:58:51 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12099 It makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint, read about cads vs. dads. Females tend to be more sexually attracted to cads aka bad boys for short term liasons, while attracted to dads aka nice guys for long term parenting and resource acquisition. Some guys even the playing field by playing a mixed strategy. Nice and sweet on the inside while bad and trouble on the outside. The issue with playing this mixed strategy is that the exterior will always be in conflict with the inside( who you reallly are as a person). Honestly it is better just to be yourself, even if you are seen as weak and even if you end up single for a long time. No boy or girl is gonna make you happy anyways. good luck out there and girls give the nice guy a break once and away, and guys give the girls who might not be Vida Guerra's and Hally Berry's a break too. It makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint, read about cads vs. dads. Females tend to be more sexually attracted to cads aka bad boys for short term liasons, while attracted to dads aka nice guys for long term parenting and resource acquisition. Some guys even the playing field by playing a mixed strategy. Nice and sweet on the inside while bad and trouble on the outside. The issue with playing this mixed strategy is that the exterior will always be in conflict with the inside( who you reallly are as a person). Honestly it is better just to be yourself, even if you are seen as weak and even if you end up single for a long time. No boy or girl is gonna make you happy anyways. good luck out there and girls give the nice guy a break once and away, and guys give the girls who might not be Vida Guerra’s and Hally Berry’s a break too.

]]> By: C-Lady http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12098 C-Lady Sun, 04 Jan 2009 09:21:28 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12098 I love my hot nerd! He treats me like all guys should treat their girlfriends: with respect and consideration! I love my hot nerd! He treats me like all guys should treat their girlfriends: with respect and consideration!

]]> By: Erin http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12097 Erin Sun, 07 Dec 2008 04:16:39 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12097 I agree with Sam, I too have a nice boyfriend that opens doors for me and other people! We've been together for over and a year and have been living together for 6 months...the girls who think men are too nice have low self-esteem and just understand that they are being nice cause they like you and care about you and your well being. If that's too much for you to handle, that's just down right pathetic! I agree with Sam, I too have a nice boyfriend that opens doors for me and other people! We’ve been together for over and a year and have been living together for 6 months…the girls who think men are too nice have low self-esteem and just understand that they are being nice cause they like you and care about you and your well being. If that’s too much for you to handle, that’s just down right pathetic!

]]> By: Yogusto http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12096 Yogusto Sat, 06 Dec 2008 13:51:29 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12096 I am a nice guy and yes women are assholes. They go for the jerks and leave us nice guys holding our puds. Why do you think older rich guys date little hotties 20 years their junior? You made them sit out their sexual prime, so now that they're rich and more powerful, they are going to make you sit out yours. I bagged a really hot chick once by being a complete jerk to her. Walked right up to her in a bar after watching her interact with everyone else and told her "you are such a bitch there's no way anyone would want to even try to pick you up." As I walked out the door she came running after me. She grabbed my arm and said "YOU are coming home with ME." We then proceeded to go to her apartment, watch pornos she had (!!) and bornk for the next 1/2 day. I had such bad rugburns on both my knees and elbows but damn it was worth it. And she was HOT, much hotter than anyone I would normally want to approach. Yea, I'm 6'5", told I'm good looking, trim and fit (not fat), but I never believe it really, and I aim too low. And of course, the hot chicks don't even bother with me, they can see through my self-esteem issues... until I treat them like SHYTE. Then they love it! WTFO! I am a nice guy and yes women are assholes. They go for the jerks and leave us nice guys holding our puds. Why do you think older rich guys date little hotties 20 years their junior? You made them sit out their sexual prime, so now that they’re rich and more powerful, they are going to make you sit out yours.

I bagged a really hot chick once by being a complete jerk to her. Walked right up to her in a bar after watching her interact with everyone else and told her “you are such a bitch there’s no way anyone would want to even try to pick you up.” As I walked out the door she came running after me. She grabbed my arm and said “YOU are coming home with ME.” We then proceeded to go to her apartment, watch pornos she had (!!) and bornk for the next 1/2 day. I had such bad rugburns on both my knees and elbows but damn it was worth it. And she was HOT, much hotter than anyone I would normally want to approach.

Yea, I’m 6′5″, told I’m good looking, trim and fit (not fat), but I never believe it really, and I aim too low. And of course, the hot chicks don’t even bother with me, they can see through my self-esteem issues… until I treat them like SHYTE. Then they love it! WTFO!

]]> By: Lorna http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12095 Lorna Fri, 05 Dec 2008 00:34:06 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12095 Girls suffer from the same problem though. I consider myself the "nice girl" mentioned in the article. My best friend however is more of a "bad girl", kind of a bitch sometimes, loud, always has to be the centre of attention and yet guys fall over themselves to be with her and im always ignored. I dont get it. Girls suffer from the same problem though. I consider myself the “nice girl” mentioned in the article. My best friend however is more of a “bad girl”, kind of a bitch sometimes, loud, always has to be the centre of attention and yet guys fall over themselves to be with her and im always ignored.

I dont get it.

]]> By: ANONYMOUS-GIRL http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12094 ANONYMOUS-GIRL Thu, 06 Nov 2008 12:47:46 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12094 I don't know. It just seems like most assholes are more physically attractive than the nice guys for me. I don’t know. It just seems like most assholes are more physically attractive than the nice guys for me.

]]> By: Michelle http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12093 Michelle Thu, 23 Oct 2008 06:49:26 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12093 Girls must have extremely low self-esteem to be with an a-hole. Why would anyone in their right mind be with someone who puts them down; manipulates them or just blatantly makes them feel like s*it. I have no sympathy for women who can't understand a bad relationship. It's not f-ing rocket science. Girls must have extremely low self-esteem to be with an a-hole. Why would anyone in their right mind be with someone who puts them down; manipulates them or just blatantly makes them feel like s*it.

I have no sympathy for women who can’t understand a bad relationship. It’s not f-ing rocket science.

]]> By: Kurt http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12092 Kurt Mon, 20 Oct 2008 22:21:27 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12092 Who is the chick on the left? (in the photo above). Damn she's shapely and I could wear her a$$ out, with fury. Who is the chick on the left? (in the photo above). Damn she’s shapely and I could wear her a$$ out, with fury.

]]> By: abdalraheem http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12053 abdalraheem Sun, 19 Oct 2008 23:57:27 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12053 any thing any thing

]]> By: filll http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12091 filll Sun, 19 Oct 2008 09:28:36 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12091 The nice guys posting here have to recognise the difference between being nice and being boring! Its not enough just to be nice, you have to have a bit of something else. Its good to be polite but you have to do the other stuff too. Tell women that you want to do disgusting things to them, argue with them, if they like you they dont mind that! Take them somewhere nice for dinner but then get them home and bend them over the table and give them a good seeing to. Works for me. The nice guys posting here have to recognise the difference between being nice and being boring! Its not enough just to be nice, you have to have a bit of something else. Its good to be polite but you have to do the other stuff too.

Tell women that you want to do disgusting things to them, argue with them, if they like you they dont mind that! Take them somewhere nice for dinner but then get them home and bend them over the table and give them a good seeing to.

Works for me.

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