Comments on: A**holes Finish First http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Tue, 14 Feb 2012 00:53:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: TipTop http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-142211 Wed, 10 Aug 2011 08:56:27 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-142211 Because most girls have low self-esteem and mistake douchebagery for traits of a strong/confidant man otherwise known in nature as alpha traits. And this is most often the opposite. The majority of men rolling around with tons of tatoos, the latest hair and clothing styles, and are overtly loud are most often insecure and craving validation through attention.

Great topic though, I'm glad you get it. Just had some girl telling me last night how all men specifically the ones she dates are aholes. I told her no, she is just attracted to aholes, and doesn't notice the nice guys. She didn't believe me.

]]> By: Superman http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-141992 Sat, 06 Aug 2011 23:02:03 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-141992 This is right on the money. Long live the Asshole!

]]> By: flyty http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-141841 Thu, 04 Aug 2011 21:11:29 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-141841 Yes treating chicks will get you laid but so will being the nice guy who can play the game. All you need is confidence and your money try playing both parts at two different parties see what happens.

]]> By: S.L http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-141840 Thu, 04 Aug 2011 20:56:44 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-141840 Nice girls..start acting Bad…go up to a hot guy and tell him he is hot or smile from far away and wink…its easy to get guys when you know how to play the game back. The best bet is to use the ass holes just dont let anyone get your heart. Playing the game is half the fun just dont stomp out the nice guys. I have learned the more loud and funny I get the more guys are comfortable to come up and start a conversation and I give them the benefit of the doubt and a chance to talk to offer what they can. Dont take dating guys too seriously until that person does appear in your life, till then let the guys chase you. It doesnt take much to put on a show. The best part DONT HAVE SEX WITH ANY OF THEM….watch how quickly your calander fills up.

]]> By: johnnymilfquest http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-141743 Wed, 03 Aug 2011 20:09:49 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-141743 Awesome post. I'm adding you to my blogroll.

"So, by the time the Nice Girl realizes said dude will never care about anything other than his hair, his car and sticking his you-know-what into every willing hoo-ha in town, she’s already said the “L-word” and picked out future children’s names."

Personal grooming and you-know-what in hoo-ha FTW.

]]> By: Tuffy Luv Tackles Nice Guys…To The Ground : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-100653 Tue, 28 Sep 2010 17:04:32 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-100653 [...] after two weeks, it may be time to move on. Just don’t move onto some other guy who treats you badly to compensate. If I get a letter from you as “Underloved,” I will cut [...]

]]> By: Hugh http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-63672 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 08:51:38 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-63672 because to put it quite simply, you are a dumb bitch (you even asked, answering was a pleasure)

]]> By: Muffins http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12099 Sun, 15 Feb 2009 18:19:51 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12099 It makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint, read about cads vs. dads. Females tend to be more sexually attracted to cads aka bad boys for short term liasons, while attracted to dads aka nice guys for long term parenting and resource acquisition. Some guys even the playing field by playing a mixed strategy. Nice and sweet on the inside while bad and trouble on the outside. The issue with playing this mixed strategy is that the exterior will always be in conflict with the inside( who you reallly are as a person). Honestly it is better just to be yourself, even if you are seen as weak and even if you end up single for a long time. No boy or girl is gonna make you happy anyways. good luck out there and girls give the nice guy a break once and away, and guys give the girls who might not be Vida Guerra's and Hally Berry's a break too.

]]> By: C-Lady http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12098 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 04:42:28 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12098 I love my hot nerd! He treats me like all guys should treat their girlfriends: with respect and consideration!

]]> By: Erin http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/09/aholes-finish-first/#comment-12097 Sat, 06 Dec 2008 23:37:39 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/12965#comment-12097 I agree with Sam, I too have a nice boyfriend that opens doors for me and other people! We've been together for over and a year and have been living together for 6 months…the girls who think men are too nice have low self-esteem and just understand that they are being nice cause they like you and care about you and your well being. If that's too much for you to handle, that's just down right pathetic!

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