Comments on: Lolitas Make It Hard for Pedophiles (That’s what she said.) http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 09:46:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Kayla http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/#comment-133911 Sun, 22 May 2011 03:26:03 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/style/12956#comment-133911 I find it funny that people think girls who wear Lolita are trying to be Japanese, since Lolita fashion is based off Victorian and Rococo fashions, which were worn solely by European woman. By default, the fashion should therefore look more suited to caucasian women no?

I agree that it's definitely not a sexual fashion, nor is it worn to attract men, since most guys are a little put off by it. Which is fine, of course.

I don't understand why people pick on Lolita fashion so much and give girls who wear it flack for "living in the clouds" or dreaming in another era when they have no problems with other Victorian Goth fashions or even Steampunk.

]]> By: Kelly http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/#comment-80078 Sat, 22 May 2010 20:52:06 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/style/12956#comment-80078 also, lolita style is good for women. A lolita dresses the way she does because she does not want to be seen as a sex object. If that's not empowering, I don't know what is.

]]> By: Kelly http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/#comment-80077 Sat, 22 May 2010 20:49:38 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/style/12956#comment-80077 How dare you insult lolitas! They are awesome and I and starting to become one myself. And also, not ALL lolitas go to anime conventions. I for one HATE anime, and many people who wear lolita dresses to anime conventions are not REAL lolitas.

There is nothing wrong with grownups dressing like kids. People should express themselves, and if their real self is a kid, be proud and show your inner child off! (and by the way, despite what someone else said about people who are replying are wapanese, I am not a wapanese. I'm just really into fashion, and i just happen to like lolita fashion.

]]> By: Александр http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/#comment-64106 Wed, 06 Jan 2010 02:37:09 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/style/12956#comment-64106 Весьма спорно, но как вариант имеет право на существование

]]> By: Ash http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/#comment-49116 Tue, 11 Aug 2009 15:53:01 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/style/12956#comment-49116 While this was biased, and insulting to all lolita. I belive in

fredom of speech, so I'm not going to make a fuss over it. I just think that you should of read more to get a better understanding of the fashion. Yes, I said fashion, not costume.

It's a faishion, just like goth, preppy, nerdy, emo, ect.

I know that evey fashion has stereotypes, but for the most part there not true. I was friends with an emo, and she was one of the happiest people I'd evey meet. Then I became friends with the preps, and they weren't total skanks. It's the same with lolita stereotypes are just hurtful, and untrue.

There are many lolita who, would give you black eye if you even look at them funny. I belive the stereotype your talking about comes from the movie "Kamikaze Girls". And I do not dress lolita to look like little girl,[note: I'm 15, and the mature style do not look good on me yet.]There are many styles that are "adult" and most lolita shift into them by a certain age. Even sweet lolita if done right, can look like refined lady from the rocco era only with a modern twist. This does of course exclude looking like a buffet of sweets. I do not intend to make you a fan of the fashion, but to raise better understanding of not just lolita but every fashion far and wide. If you have any questions at all please feel free to ask.

P.S. What's animae?

]]> By: Rachel http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/#comment-43668 Thu, 16 Jul 2009 21:15:36 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/style/12956#comment-43668 @ Jo: actually, if you really look at it, the whole Lolita thing came from European culture anyway. I mean c'mon, Rococo, Victorian, and Edwardian influences, anyone?

So really, what most (specifically the Caucasian crowd) are doing is most likely embracing their own lost culture. They look great in it too, if done correctly: http://juliette-et-justine.com/list/2/

]]> By: Sexy Time: A Closer Look at the Taboo : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/#comment-34979 Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:00:24 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/style/12956#comment-34979 [...] are simply a little girl who is doing what their daddy wants them to. Other women enjoy playing the “Lolita” aspect, the naughty little girl who no man can resist. Daddy/daughter fantasies come in all shapes [...]

]]> By: Peril http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/#comment-32484 Fri, 15 May 2009 23:19:32 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/style/12956#comment-32484 Another lolita here, I just wanted to clarify that most of us actually *don't* act like pretty little princesses all the time. We yell, curse, have sex, drink, smoke, etc. just like anyone else. We just like frilly dresses.

]]> By: JOsie_says http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/#comment-28666 Sat, 11 Apr 2009 21:12:55 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/style/12956#comment-28666 I really think you're complicating things buddy. The lolita style really isn't as "wierd" and "sexual" as you may think. Its about bringing out the little girl inside. I think the fashion is really cute. Besides, you shouldn't shoot down a style like that. Try putting in pros and cons instead of insults.

]]> By: Cupcake Kawaii! http://collegecandy.com/2008/10/10/lolitas-make-it-hard-for-pedophiles-that%e2%80%99s-what-she-said/#comment-23094 Sat, 21 Mar 2009 00:14:33 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/style/12956#comment-23094 ok i for one think, yeah, its a little extreme. but i love it. im a sweet lolita, and ive never thought of it as sexual. its more modest than most other fashion. plus whats wrong with wearing dresses? you sound like a really butch woman. idk, i found this article to be kind of insulting to lolitas..

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