Comments on: Awkward Firsts: Losing Your Virginity Isn’t Always Fun

By: Olivia

Olivia — Mon, 02 Jan 2012 18:33:33 +0000

I'm 15. I dated a boy my age for about 5 months twice. He was always really kind to me, and he an interesting person, and we never did anything sexual aside from cuddling. We had just broken up the second time when I told him I wanted to have sex with him. We were both virgins. He invited me to his house a few months ago while he was babysitting, and we did it. It was awkward to say the least. It hurt like a bitch, and I bled a little on his sheets. When we were done, he walked around singing "I JUST HAD SEEEXXX!" And just left me in the room so he could go play video games.
Well, a month later, he hooked up with my BEST friend. Behind my back, of course. So they both lied to me. He was trying to hook up with me AT THE SAME TIME. Knowing that hurt me so much. I obviously still liked him, and we cuddled every day after school. But now I know a lot more about him. Now he calls me a stupid whore… Girls, wait until you love him and he loves you. Be in a relationship, it'll be that much better(:

By: shauna

shauna — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 21:22:43 +0000

well, i was 12, he was 17, i was in love, he fingered me for the first time ever, it hurt really bad but i loved it, he carryed me to his car and strapped me down with the seatbelt, i trusted him untill i realised i was to embrace a penis, i wasnt positive about my actions and it hurt like hell, im not sure why he did this but i didn't see him ever again, i couldnt even walk. i swear i was drugged.

By: lostitinthelovesack

lostitinthelovesack — Mon, 27 Dec 2010 17:04:01 +0000

I just lost mine last week….
I'm 19 and I had been waiting for that special someone and that perfect moment.
Of course it was nothing like that
I met him when I was drunk and after I sobered up (I think) we had sex in his room on a beanbag chair with his roommate sleeping not 10 ft away
needless to say it wasn't what I imagined but it was good and he was sweet and gentle
now the question is……Do I try and contact him? or wast a one night stand?

By: kerry-anne

kerry-anne — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 04:01:54 +0000

Hmm im kindar confused and need help ? i had sex with a guy and it was my first time im only 14 and i think it was because i was too tight his penis kept slipping in and out and i had no pleasure what so ever i dont think my cherry poped but straight after i felt sumet wet and i like checkd and a little bit of blood come on my finger then after that none blood came at all jus like a drop on my finger does that mean my cherrry poped or not i couldnt carry on with the sex after 5mintues becus it hurt to much i mean the pain was horrible :/

By: Ella

Ella — Tue, 05 Oct 2010 20:25:27 +0000

my first time was definetly not romantic. just like you i was 16 and a junior and feeling left out that all my friends had had sex and i was still a virgin. so one night at a party i was at my ex boyfriend also started making moves on me. to make matters i was drunk and my judgement was definetly impaired. and he didn't use a condom. the one good thing about it was that it didn't hurt as bad as all my friends said it would and said it hurt them. i don't regret losing it then, i just wish that the circumstances had been different and i was in love… but it opened up the door to have great sex after that. i honestly don't believe your first time is the most important or most memorable, its just the beggining of better sex to come!

By: Sara M

Sara M — Mon, 27 Sep 2010 02:07:07 +0000

My first time happened when I was 19. I was a freshman in college and all my friends had lost it in college, so when a weekend football game trip came up I decided I was ready. It was a sorority/fraternity trip where all the guys ask a girl to go to the game with them, stay in the same hotel room, get wasted and have sex…pretty lame. I don't regret it but definitely wish it had been a more special experience

By: Sexy Time: The First Time : College Candy

Sexy Time: The First Time : College Candy — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 13:01:26 +0000

[...] that it? Sex gets better, I promise. The first time can be awkward and uncomfortable, but with time and practice, it all works out. [...]

By: Emi

Emi — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 08:25:02 +0000

I made my guy wait, it was a few months before my 18th and he was 19 and we had been dating for years. We had been fooling around for months, doing just about everything but. He had already accidentally ripped my hymen, but it still hurt like hell the first time. Basically we were fooling around on the living room floor and I remember him being on top of me and I just told him to just do it, but he chickened out and I got ontop and did it myself. It hurt so bad I kinda fell off and we stopped for the night but we tried again in the morning and it was fun.

By: Willy

Willy — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 00:25:21 +0000

shit man, I pops all kinds of Cherries in my bed

By: Brittany

Brittany — Sun, 31 May 2009 21:29:45 +0000

Oh God. First time, I was seventeen. We were at a party, I had had (quite) a few too many and decided to take a nap on my friends bed. A guy I had been talking to all night came in, we started talking, one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. It actually didn't hurt, but it definitely wasn't great. My friends boyfriend walked in about halfway through, and I ended up getting said friend very very angry. Oops