Kristin says:
Mon, 27th Oct 200811:42 am 

I don't know how trim and slender is winning. These polls are always on interesting topics but have horrible choices. I would like to claim that I'm not shallow, but the truth is, I DO care about body type. I wouldn't date someone overweight–and not just because of the way it looks (although, if we're being truthful, that's one of the reasons). An overweight guy most likely doesn't take care of himself, and that's unattractive.

But the other options are trim and slender or beefy. What about in the middle?

And, maybe it's just my own insecurities coming out, but I could never date a guy who's thinner than I am, so thin and slender is OUT.

Anna says:
Mon, 27th Oct 200812:08 pm 

Agreed. I can't stand those little skinny emo boys. Do you know how much their elbows hurt when you cuddle?!

Stephanie says:
Mon, 27th Oct 200812:35 pm 

Hello. Trim & slender does not equal deathly skinny.

At least not in my book, I'd take it to mean he's slender and he's got nice abs…I mean that's what comes to my mind when I think trim & slender…

Sam says:
Mon, 27th Oct 20083:41 pm 

I like "average" guys. I don't like super skinny, or even skinny, but I don't want someone really overweight.. I care about my weight, but I'm not obsessive over it and I want someone that has the same feeling.

Rae says:
Mon, 27th Oct 20084:31 pm 

If trim and slender means they look like boy in the pic up there, then I am with Kristin- OUT. It's unattractive, as are the pants that boy is wearing. I'm all about medium, since I happen to be a medium person myself. I also agree that overweight guys probably don't take very good care of themselves. Also unattractive.

Jacks says:
Mon, 27th Oct 20084:42 pm 

MUSCLES.

Brittney says:
Mon, 27th Oct 20085:53 pm 

I'm for either way. It doesn't always mean a person is fat that they don't take care of themselves. It's a stereotype. I know many SKINNY guys who are just as gross and unclean as if they were stereotypically fat and nasty.

Personality needed plzkthnx.

Carolynn says:
Tue, 28th Oct 20086:22 am 

I like tall (a few inches over 6 feet or taller is very attractive to me), skinny guys. They have to be athletically skinny though. Not just all bones. But I'm not really into guys with lots of muscles (although its always nice to look at) or that are overweight.

L says:
Tue, 28th Oct 20088:31 pm 

I have liked skinny boys, muscley guys, and "squishy" guys. I care about the face more and as long as they don't look unhealthy I'm good.

I used to hate skinny guys because I couldn't deal with a guy thinner than me, but he just has to be tallish to make up for it. Just don't make me feel big!

Heather says:
Thu, 30th Oct 20087:45 pm 

i like to avoid the hulk look, personally. i like limited muscles, but not to the point of an athlete. i always found athletes rather unattractive. that being said, if a guy is like a stick i dont like it. i guess im a middle-of-the-road individual.

Caroline says:
Sun, 2nd Nov 20081:39 pm 

I think an additional category should be added of just "average". For me, height is a really important thing. I don't think one guy I've dated is below 6'. Overall, I like very tall men with average sized leaning towards somewhat slim build. But, I do not find sickly scrawny skinny attractive either.