Science Says: Bigger Women Get More Lovin’

October 31, 2008 3:30 pm     Posted in Buzz, Sex  Mandy - Hofstra g+ page

plus.jpgThe world’s fattest man, Manuel Uribe, recently married his girlfriend of 2 years, Claudia Solis, in Mexico. This left many a women pondering “…and why am I still single?”

The answer is simple: You aren’t eating enough.

Studies show that overweight women have more sex than women of average weight. In fact, according to research done by the University of Hawaii and Oregon State, “Ninety-two percent of overweight women reported having a history of sexual intercourse with a man, as opposed to 87 percent of women with a normal body mass index.”

92%. N-I-N-E-T-Y-T-W-O.

That’s no small number…

Dr. Bliss Kaneshiro from the University of Hawaii’s School of Medicine said that “These results were unexpected and we don’t really know why this is the case.”

Maybe it’s because these women have a bit more to love; maybe they are self-confident without any crazy body issues; or maybe we are finally seeing that men are not attracted to super thin women, but rather to women with a more natural and curvy body.

Which would be great news for women everywhere. Especially me…as I sit here eating a bagel. So this Halloween, ladies, all I can say is: indulge in your favorite chocolatey treats!

It’ll up your chances of gettin laid!

53 Comments on "Science Says: Bigger Women Get More Lovin’"
  1. Dustin says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 200810:47 am 

    Maybe they're over-reporting their sexual history?

  2. Karol says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 200811:06 am 

    Perhaps the reason they are "getting more lovin'" is because they are not used to male attention and they give it up to the first horny guy that shows interest.

  3. Stephanie says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 200811:23 am 

    I'll be sure to eat my ass off until I'm bedridden so that I can have more sex ASAP.

  4. Emily says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 200811:56 am 

    wow….these comments are a little rude.

  5. V says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 200812:07 pm 

    A LITTLE rude? More like down right bitchy. Science is science biatches, and if fat chicks are getting more than you don't be jealous.

  6. Sarah says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 200812:26 pm 

    I know it sounds awful, but I'm kinda incliced to side with Karol here. I've actually had discussions about this with my girlfriends after one of us has suffered through an extra-long dry spell. We came to the conclusion that maybe the bigger the girl, the lower the standards? And that's a blanket statement, I'm sure there's plenty of bigger girls with standards. Hell, I got a little extra jelly and I sure as HELL have standards. So…whos to say?

  7. Amber - Old Dominion says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 200812:58 pm 

    As someone of "larger proportions" I find this hard to believe. I DO on the other hand know a lot of different guys of different races who say they like girls with a little meat on their bones, as long as they're not sloppy. And no Karol just because I'm fat doesn't mean I spread my legs for the first guy I see with a hard-on.

  8. Jacks says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 20081:19 pm 

    92% is not a small number.

    But 92%-87%=5% and that is a small number.

    Also what does "history of sexual intercourse with a man" mean, anyways? To quote one of the commenters on Jezebel, "Doesn't this just mean that they are more likely to have had sex at all, rather than that they are having sex more often (a/k/a the MOST sex)?"

    And please stop referring to being overweight as the only "natural" or "real". Some people have a natural propensity to gain weight; other's dont.

  9. elizabeth says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 20084:07 pm 

    personally, i think the women are probably overweight from having sex with men. men are douchebags. stress + depression make you eat. eating makes you fat. issue solved.

  10. Tiffany says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 20085:50 pm 

    I'm shocked by the comments I am reading. It's like average size or larger girls must be jealous of the thin girls and easy. Not to mention have low self-esteem and no ability to control their eating habits. These comments could easily be reversed;the thin girls are jealous of the amazing personalities of the average/larger girls and think being stick thin is going to make up for their lack of intelligence and personality. Somehow no eating anything makes them better and have a higher self-esteem? I've been a size 6 and a size 12,at no point did my standards flunctuate. It would be great if we stopped judging one another based on our physical appearance, assumming we know everything about each others lives. It makes our gender look catty and unable of acceptance and higher reasoning.

  11. Stephanie says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 20086:02 pm 

    Lmao @ these responses.

    I am far from stick thin, but I am not overweight.

    I'm a nice, healthy size.

    I'm sorry that my comments offend you, but I'm being honest–being overweight is not a good look.

  12. leebee says:
    Fri, 31st Oct 20087:50 pm 

    Stephanie- not a good look to who? You?

    So what if you don't like the way people with extra weight look… there are plenty of guys who like girls with meat on their bones… keep your offensive comments to yourself. Who are you: Karl Lagerfeld?

    I, for one, am a big girl who definitely has more than enough sex… and it's not because I'm easy or have low self esteem. It's because guys like my size and know I wont break when I'm in bed with them.

    Confidence takes you a long way… no matter what size you are.

  13. Pan_thefrog says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 20082:56 am 

    First, can I see what definition they used to come up with for 'Normal weight'. I am guessing it is BMI.

    I am 5'9" tall male and tip the scale at 185lbs. This gives me a BMI of 27.3 which means I am 17lbs over weight. Damn, I am a fat ass. No one thinks I am fat. You can see some definition in my abs.

    How many of these women are 5-15lbs 'overweight', and yet Dr. Bliss Kaneshiro is amazed that these women are getting laid?

    Oh, and allow me to say that I like women with curves, and brains. OK, I'll admit, brains over curves any day of the week.

  14. bruce says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 20084:32 am 

    why the fuss? some like women thin others like them..um, not so thin,lol. i like a women for her personality,who she is..ok i do like the tradional things..how they smell,how they look with their hair,nails done so..oh hell! i like women period!..LOL

  15. JoBu says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 20086:10 am 

    Hmmm. . . fat chicks or waifs. Let me see, there aren't any other types of women. Pretty binary, like on or off. I guess everyone must fit into a category. Me, I sleep with any girl that's willing, so your body size really isn't a concern for me. Mostly, I want your body up against mine.

  16. Karol says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 20087:50 am 

    I'm not saying ALL fat girls are the same, by any means. I'm just saying that there are plenty of fat girls out there who have low self esteem and who have never gotten attention from guys. Once someone does show interest, MANY of them decide to do whatever they have to in order to keep them around. And for MANY, that means sex.

  17. David says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 20088:08 am 

    C'mon, let's get some perspective on these results. Since these are statistics, they have some arbitrary cutoff point, and if you're ONE OUNCE above that, you're considered fat. That doesn't tell us anything useful. Another way to think about it is a continum. A certain weight is supposed to be maximum health. Another weight is maximum attractiveness, which is greater than the first weight. Since the study doesn't tell us how much greater (five pounds, fifty?) it doesn't tell us anything.

    Don't take these studies on face value; think about what they mean. Better yet, take a basic stats class.

  18. Joe the Drunk says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 20088:14 am 

    even if you dont care how you look to other people, don't be fat, at least for your own personal health. there is enough fat in this country already, and the trends are that there will be plenty more fat unfortunately. people are getting so fat that they need to be hospitalized for obesity-related complications (some don't even fit into CT/MRI machines and are sent to the zoo if they need a scan). you dont have to be a waif, just dont be fat.

  19. Brittney says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 20089:23 am 

    Bullshit Joe. How the hell did that makes sense?

    "Don't be fat, but don't be a waif. But DON'T BE FAT!!"

    Go to rehab, Joe the Drunk.

  20. Matt says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 200810:40 am 

    Right, because all fat chicks can't resist spreading their legs for every perv, hobo, and idiot that comes their way.

    C'mon. Get realistic. Fat chicks do NOT have less intelligence or ability to see if a guy is a scumbag. But it seems normal people have less ability to accept overweight or obese women as they are. Why is it so offensive if bigger women DO have more sex? Shouldn't this be a good thing? Or would you rather dictate how people have sex and who they should have it with?

    Also, I don't think fat women are over-reporting having sex more than thin women. How pathetic is it to assume that just because a person is bigger than you, they lie about sex and throw themselves around needlessly? There's not a valid connection there, if you ask me.

    Lastly, I wouldn't paint with such wide brushstrokes. Many of my friends are overweight and they do not have low standards. Again, having a little extra meat on your bones doesn't make you blind. Fat women aren't going to sleep with any guy they get. However, a woman with low-self esteem might. But you can be skinny and have shitty self-esteem as well. Generalizing overweight women as these commenters have is sexist and utterly ignorant.

    Just because you have hips rather than hipbones does not mean you are stupid, or lazy, or slutty, or a liar. It just means you'll just be called that by a brainwashed society. The problem here is not whether fat women are having sex or not, it's that our society seems unable to accept this as a rational thought.

  21. Matt says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 200810:43 am 

    My last comment, to many of you who say that being overweight isn't a good look or that fat women don't get attention – Maybe YOU don't think being overweight is attractive, but I promise you, there are people out there who don't find YOU attractive. Beauty is subjective, and there is NOT one standard of beauty that everyone agrees with. Just because you don't find someone big attractive doesn't mean someone else won't.

  22. Tiffany says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 200811:41 am 

    This is in response to Joe the Drunk. Obviously you equate having extra pounds to being unhealthy. That is not the case. You could line up a person with 18% body fat next to one with 30% and find that the person with the 18% has higher cholesterol, abnormal liver enzymes, higher blood pressure, and an array of other health problems the 30% BMI person doesn't. While there are risks to being obese and on the way to morbidly obese, there is a large amount of people who are overweight, who work out dialy, and are in better health than their thinner counterparts.

    Karol, the comments you make about overweight girls applies to all girls. Anyone with low self esteem is easier to manipulate, regardless of their weight. You've never seen a thin person with low self-esteem jumping on whatever comes their way? If not, you obviously don't get out much.

  23. Leinad says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 20083:54 pm 

    There are a few factors that make the observation that fuller-figured women have more sex true;

    1. What makes a woman's body fuller is very often a higher-than-average production of testosterone, making her as horny as hell on a par with your average highly-sexed guy.

    2. Eating and sex are almost chemically identical in terms of how your brain reacts. People who enjoy their food more than average tend to enjoy sex more than average.

    3. Thinner girls have to constantly deal with the "trophy factor", and since they have had to deal with sexually predatorial men since like the age of 13, some have a subconscious resentment of men and do not share a genuine enjoyment of lovemaking that fuller figured women do, who men only approach on account of their own attraction to as opposed to wanting to impress their friends etc.

    I could go on all night, but those are the main points.

  24. Casey says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 20089:46 pm 

    Ok I really don't get the whole "she's so tiny I'm afraid I'd break her" thing. Being FAT is not good, no matter whether someone finds it attractive or not. It's not healthy. Being Average or healthy is perfectly fine. I'm a size two i'm also 5'3 I'm not stick thin, I have weight issues (well not really weight but I would like to tone up) Everyone has weight issues, whether they are skinny, big whatever. But being fat and overweight is NOT healthy and you shouldn't be worried about how you LOOK as long as you are healthy, functioning properly, and feel good and confident. Confidence can be everything.

  25. Karol says:
    Sat, 1st Nov 200811:45 pm 

    Obviously you can argue that girls who aren't obese also have self esteem issues. Every girl is insecure at some point, as Casey points out. But Casey is also correct when she says that "being FAT is no good, no matter whether someone finds it attractive or not."

    Fat girls are gross to a vast majority (again, obviously not ALL) of guys. That may hurt some of you, but it just reaffirms what you already know. Nobody wants to be overlooked, so once some guy comes around who "likes fat girls?" I'm sure the fat girl is going to LOVE the attention.

    You can argue whatever you'd like, but we've all seen it happen.

  26. Arthur says:
    Sun, 2nd Nov 20081:56 am 

    I don't like Karol's use of vocabulary. I'm a guy and I find it offensive. Fat girls are not "gross." That being said, what the above posters say about being overweight is true – to a certain extent. There's a reason why guys seem to find girls of average size the most attractive; being of average size does imply good health. On the other hand, people have different amounts and distributions of fat cells in their bodies and some people are naturally inclined to be a little on the overweight side.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-D99n9f3vU4

  27. Sara says:
    Sun, 2nd Nov 20081:36 pm 

    Dear Arthur,

    We're not talking about girls of average size… we're talking about fat girls.

    They might not be gross to you… but as an "average girl" I think fat people in general are disgusting to look at… whether they can help it or not.

    If they can't even respect their bodies… they can't respect themselves. No wonder they are having so much sex…they take what they can get!

  28. Casey says:
    Sun, 2nd Nov 20087:19 pm 

    Wow girls are bitches- point proven above. I'm pretty sure Tyra banks has been over weight and may currently still be. Did anyone at anytime call her ugly or tell her she has low standards for men?? Dont think so. You so called skinny girls can just get over yourself because you are not the best things around.

  29. natalie says:
    Sun, 2nd Nov 20088:46 pm 

    i just read this whole conversation thing and danggggg there are some megaa bitches here. I think that being confident and yet still healthy is the most important thing. Confidence gets guys to notice. Now what the curvy girls have that the skinnier girls lack is nice round butt and some nice breasts. All these bitches calling overweight girls "gross" is just plain rude. Forget those jealous haters. Personally i would not want to be stick thin, but i am healthy. Im confident to say what i weigh. Im 5'7'' and i weigh 140. According to BMI thats what? 5-10 pounds over weight? Thats really not what this article is talking about. but there are plenty of over weight girls that are still gorgeous and sexy. Confidence and personality can either make or break a persons image.

  30. nex says:
    Mon, 3rd Nov 20084:08 am 

    You shouldn't let your personal bias cloud your judgement when analysing scientific findings. Most women who aren't overweight simply have an average figure and aren't "super thin". An average body is not less natural than an overweight one.

    Anyway, the blog entries I've seen about this study are wonky in general. If the study even attempted to find out who has more sex, then why are the only numbers you see cited in reports those indicating who had sex _at all_? Those percentages simply distinguish between virgins and others; a single drunken incident at some party is enough to get you into that club.

    An alternative interpretation would be that these numbers are a result of the fact that people tend to gain weight throughout their entire lifetimes. Women who haven't had sex yet are much younger than the average, and for young people who tend towards higher weight it's common that their weight is above average but hasn't crossed the 'overweight' mark yet, though it will later in life, at which point they'll be more likely to have sex as well.

    I'm not particularly convinced that this interpretation is super correct, I'm just presenting it to illustrate this point: The numbers cited don't tell us who has more sex, at all. The study also surveyed "number of partners and frequency of sexual intercourse" — why don't the reports cite these numbers? I think I know why: because the responsible journalists prioritised sensationalist attention-grabbing way above providing actual information.

  31. Sarah says:
    Mon, 3rd Nov 20087:35 am 

    I think ti is really anti-woman, no matter what her size, to assume that there are self esteem issues in sexually liberal women.

    There is nothing wrong with having a sexual appetite, and you do not have to have low self esteem or low standards to enjoy being with other people.

    Stop the fat hate. It is a pointless article based on crappy statistics gathering, without evidence of the subjective standards the researchers used to define overwieght.

    I am a big girl, with standards, and a sexual appetite.

    I don't assume every skinny woman is a bitch, so stip assuming fat women have problems. A body is a body, and some of them are big while others are small. Stop hating women and judging them on how they look, or what they chose to do with their own bodies.

  32. DZ says:
    Mon, 3rd Nov 20082:08 pm 

    this data is flawed by itself… the data needs to correlate with how many of the fatties are actually in real relationships over the same periods of time. as a guy, i've banged some fatties when i could'nt have anything better that night.. but i'd never date a fatty beyond that…. i've dated dozens of thin hotties where i wanted them more over time… so yeah.. of course the fatties get more "action" , cos most guys will screw one or 2 for the heck of it, but…. they don't get anything more :) /… so please ladies, before you go running for the chocolate based on some dumbass "analysis" think the whole thing through.

  33. interesting says:
    Mon, 3rd Nov 20083:18 pm 

    hmmm.. they should do a survey for underweight women as well it would interesting to see those numbers. i would not be surprised to see a decrease, just speaking from personal experiance. i'm 5'8 and my weight vacillates from 112-118 on a normal diet (i'm very active), so the fact that i'm a rather unwilling virgin (i DO have some standards- but not super strict ones) makes me believe in a decrease as weight drops

  34. Jacks says:
    Mon, 3rd Nov 20083:44 pm 

    Natalie says:

    Now what the curvy girls have that the skinnier girls lack is nice round butt and some nice breasts.

    ….Um, you can be thin and still have curves.

    People on this forum are acting as though you can only be very overweight or runway-model thin. There are thousands of sizes and stomach/breast/hip/butt/thigh combos in between.

  35. sadistic1 says:
    Mon, 3rd Nov 20084:45 pm 

    IMHO I would much rather be with a woman with curves than a really thin one. Thin women do not feel so great when you can feel their bones when going to town. A woman with some curves, or meat on their bones, feels far better. I have had both and tend to be more attracted sexually to larger women. I still think thinner women are sexy too just not as pleasureable.

  36. Joe the Plumber says:
    Mon, 3rd Nov 20089:50 pm 

    The "study" is vague and the statistics obviously have no credibility to speak of.

    That being said, I love bangin fatties. I am a bigger guy myself and like to have sex with girls that are closer to my size. I also enjoy having sex with normal size girls, and very small girls.

    Perhaps the reason why "bigger" girls said they got laid more is because 90% of people these days are considered overweight?

  37. Joe the Drunk says:
    Tue, 4th Nov 20083:50 am 

    why is it ok for everyone to be fat? i cant believe all the pro-fat comments here. no wonder the health of the nation is going down the toilet. fine, if you want to eat yourself to death (obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, etc) then go ahead; but don't make me pay for it with my tax dollars, or society's responsibility to support the health care of these people. I once had to sit on a full flight next to a guy who was easily over 400lbs; his excess was taking up half of my seat. I had more space in the cramped bathroom where i sat for the rest of the flight until the stewardess got me before landing.

  38. Alexis says:
    Tue, 4th Nov 20085:47 am 

    fat girls try harder

  39. JohnE says:
    Tue, 4th Nov 20089:39 am 

    Maybe it is what men like to call "hot chick attitude" Not all attractive women have it but many do. It is a completely bitchy attitude that they are entitled to treat guys like shit because they are attractive. These women end up with douchebags and don't understand why the not quite as attractive but pleasant personality girl has guys throwing themselves at her. They rationalize it with the idea that they are so attractive they are intimidating. No girl is that attractive but many are that bitchy.

  40. Eliza says:
    Thu, 27th Nov 20089:24 pm 

    I am 5'6'', 156 lbs. Does this make you think I'm fat? Maybe. But since I mentioned my weight, I may as well mention that I work out 2-6 hours every day and I eat, but I eat sensibly, healthily. Knowing what you do, in your mind does this make me fat or fit? In your mind do you picture a not too small not too large toned, lean body or do you picture a body that has rolls and quiveres when it moves? Or for those others do you picture a thinner more fragile body that may have little fat on it, but little muscle as well? Ask yourself as well which appeals to you more in the present and then which appeals to you more when you think about the future.

  41. johnny says:
    Mon, 1st Dec 200812:34 pm 

    i have to agree with most of what karol is saying.. i grew up with a sister who was overweight and while sleeping in the room down the hall from her i can still remember countless nights hearing her cry herself to sleep because,"she were fat." and from what i know from talking to her, she has slept with most of her boyfriends since she was young.. as a few people on here have said, its not because of the weight but because of the low self-esteem that women are sometimes easier to get into bed, and while there are always exceptions to a rule, i do believe that the statistics show that larger women do have more sex because of the self-esteem issue.. its not necessarily a reflection of the woman, but because society has told us for years and years that skinny is sexy, and therefore, fat is ugly.. and while not exactly true that is what most of the females that i know believe.. the point that i am trying to make is that it is not the weight that makes them easier.. but the lack of positive self esteem because they think they are not attractive according to society

  42. Y. says:
    Thu, 4th Dec 200811:52 am 

    Matt, I think I love you for that comment. I totally agree.

    Reading through the comments on this article made me realize that not only are most men still sexist, but women also have self-gender hate. What do I mean? Why the hell are you girls worried about how many times the obese girl who lives down the hall from you has had sex?! Why do you care about her weight? I'm pretty sure she KNOWS she is overweight. I'm pretty sure she also KNOWS she is having sex. What happened to women being supportive of women? There are so many haters that posted comments on this article. Instead of talking sh*t about bigger women, why not say "well hey, I hope you used protection" or something like that?

    I am 5'7 and I have a BMI of 37. Yes, I am considered 'obese', but I've also been considered for plus size modeling. Stop with the stereotypes, just because a woman weighs 250, doesn't mean her tits reach her knees and have so much stomach flab that you cannot find her belly button. But even in those conditions, everyone deserves respect for WHO they are, not what they LOOK like. I don't have sex because I have low self-esteem or because I can't get a boyfriend (I'm in a relationship), its because I enjoy having sex and I CHOOSE to have sex. It has nothing to do with my mental or emotional state.

    I just have the sense that a lot of people are hating cause bigger girls obviously, by scientific study, gets more dick, than smaller women. I don't really care about this study, nor should you. Are you really going to let some useless irrelevant research completely flip-flop your life? I know I'm not. I am a very confident, happy, overweight, horny woman; the end.

  43. Danie says:
    Fri, 5th Dec 20081:32 am 

    Y., I totally agree with you.

    I stand at 6 feet, with a BMI of 30, so yeah, I'm a big girl, and I gotta say, my boyfriend loves that and wouldn't want me any other way.

    Knowing there are so many women out there with such low self-esteem when it comes to their bodies sickens me.

    Come on! It's ridiculous. I'm probably younger than all of you and I have less issues with peoples bodies than you do.

    I mean, guys love girls who can be happy and confident with who they are. Did the skinny chicks ever stop to think that maybe the reason they aren't getting as much is because they aren't confident about their bodies?

    I walk around school all the time and hear little stick thin girls going "Oh my godd! I gained 2 punds! I'm soo fat!" And I just laugh at them. Because I know they hate themselves and aren't happy unless they see themselves as perfect, which they never will!

    Whereas, I'm tall, chubby, and I love who I am. And that gets me noticed.

  44. Ryan says:
    Sun, 21st Dec 200811:53 pm 

    Fat or ugly girls give it up easy, skinny or pretty girls are bitches.

    I know that's a horrible generalization (since it's not 100% true), but take it from a guy who's been around lots of woman and knows what other guys think, aswell. Most of us have a common understanding that we believe the aforementioned statement to be primarily, or majority, true.

  45. Cassie says:
    Fri, 2nd Jan 20099:22 am 

    So, through reading through everyone's comments, wow. All of the over-generalizations on here are amazingly cruel and often even wrong. I am 5'6", 185 lbs (used to be 215) and I've seen no difference between the two as far as sexual experiences go. I have really high standards and have turned down more than just a few offers. What weight and BMI don't tell you about a person is their actual body size. I share clothes with my friends who weigh in the 150s because I actually have muscle. So though my weight says I'm obese, my size fits into average sized clothes.

    This study is basically a load of bullshit due the vast amount of grey-area left out. So everyone should just get over it and stop being such bitches.

  46. McQ says:
    Fri, 9th Jan 20094:20 pm 

    I think its funny when skinny girls say stuff like fat is just plain ugly and on and on. I mean really, do you feel that way about your mom or your aunt or your coworker that brings you a bagel every morning? You know these people and they are NO MORE FUCKING MISERABLE OR LONELY THAN YOU! Othrwise you’d be out NOT FUCKING anyone instead of doing this, while us fatties would be doing something we like, joining and making a difference AND GETTING LAID. nah nah nah nah boo boo!

    Can I tell you why I have a nice mix of casual and relationship sex now? Because I am so excited at my core that I am in my sexual prime! OMG the sex is STELLAR! Better than ever! I have had drunk sex, hate sex, love sex, your leavijng sex, mindblowing sex, forgetable sex, kinky sex and quite frankly hideous as well as amazing sex. Everyone has sexual self esteem issues when they are young and full of themselves, thinking that in the long run sex has anything to do with what you look like! I mean seriously, if you break your toe and it leads you into financial ruin and you are alone and scared and someone comes along who is 300 pounds but loves you for and and wants to love you inspite of your gangrene ass leg, I promise you, you will jump on his cock so fast and NEVER let go. So stop having sex with your eyes and start doing it with your mind and heart and sense of humor. Find someone that you can laugh with in bed. It is the BIGGEST turn on.

    PS I am a fatty and I get such nice compliments about my beautiful brests and my sexy voice and my sense of humor. I value those, and ignore the rest.

    PPS We lose the weight when we are ready. When WE grow up too and realize that YOU DON’T MATTER and we don’t care what the skinny girl is doing down the hall either, unless she is our friend. You should try that, befriending a fatty, help her out with your kick ass work out routine and she can help you get over being a bitch.

    PPPS FYI sometimes people stay fat as a protection against the bullshit that people dish out when you are only that 10-20 lbs over weight.YES! You WERE probably that big of a bitch in highschool! DONT FOOL YOURSELF!

    PPPPS And lastly, for us fat girls, we have an advantage…we ALWAYS know what a guy is thinking, or if they like us for us, not just our looks. Meaning we are all in the same boat so be kinder to yourself and others.

  47. anaku says:
    Tue, 27th Jan 20097:39 pm 

    I believe one thing is that the larger girls don't do the time or effort of dieting or exorcise so they have more time to have sex.

    And yeah BMI is Bull, I got a letter saying I was overweight when I weigh 180 and am 5 10 which doesn't make sense considering I can barely grab any fat off myself.

    I also believe that when a man talks to an overweight woman he can talk to her much easier and is able to be much more upfront without in his mind fear of regection, women like self condidence BAm your sexing it up everynight.

  48. Sandy says:
    Sun, 24th May 20094:40 am 

    Tiffany, what you're saying about the comparison between a person with 18 bf% and one with 30% is complete and utter bullshit. You're confusing body fat percentage with BMI there. BMI is a measurement based upon height and weight and is definitely not accurate. Body fat percentage on the otherhand is usually rather accurate at measuring the levels of body fat.

    No way in hell would a person with 18% body fat have higher chances of weight-related diseases compared to a person with 30% body fat. A thin person may very well have diseases that an overweight person doesn't but if that person ain't exercising or eating properly, they're what we call 'skinny fat'. Measure their bf% and you'll see it's comparable to an 'average' woman.

    In my book, if you can complete a physical fitness test (sprints, chin-ups, jumps etc) with excellent results yearly AND maintain a healthy level of body fat (in my book, 21-24% as this indicates regular rigorous exercise without going overboard, if it's lower and still hitting essential fat it's extremely excellent), you're good to go. Otherwise, shut up already about 'curvy' being 'real' or thin being better. We should focus on fitness and health and there's no way around this you need to eat healthfully and exercise.

    Hell, people even exercise wrongly and then whine about not losing any weight. Progressive exercise is the key here. If you're only 'jogging' steady state for an hour each day and wondering why you plateau, YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG. Try doing some sprints and progressively increasing the intensity and then come back and tell me exercise doesn't work.

    Think of it this way, if zombie apocalypse descended upon us, would you be able to escape and survive?

  49. GIna says:
    Sun, 19th Jul 20096:03 pm 

    I'm overweight. Yes. I have the bakery hanging on my body, yes I do.

    I'm not particularly really big, but let's just say a size 10 isn't enough for me. (maybe a size 12-15 depending on the type of clothing)

    Anyways, what I have to say pertaining to this issue:

    To be overweight and have a healthy sexual life is fine.

    To be skinny and have a healthy sexual life is expected.

    I have a boyfriend, he's a musician, he's an artist, you'd expect him to have one of those skinny artsy girlfriends, and instead he prefers me.

    It's not about being over-confident, or under confident, it's about living up to your standards, but taking chances with those who you think might not like you back.

    Whether or not you're overweight should not be an issue, and if this article is the do-all-say-all over all other articles then let the world rejoice, but honestly? THIS article?

    Skinny girls can hate on overweight girls and vice versa all they want, but the real truth is:

    self-respect.

    Both sides can be just as promiscuous as the other.

    And that's the reality.

  50. mattyy says:
    Wed, 7th Oct 20097:08 am 

    bigger (not hugely fat) like chunky girls are so much more sexier.they are real women with beautiful curves. they do have bigger bellies yes, they may have stretch marks yes and probably cellulite too but i would way prefer that anyday to a skinny shallow bag of bones anyway. its all about persoanlity and from my experience biggger girls tend to have a strong and fab characters and 100 percent better in bed. theressomething to hold on to and something to cuddle. my girlfriend is 5'7 and 12 – 13 stone, she has the most beaaut figure and i love every roll of fat on her, it make sher the women she is!!! fuck off you shallow cunts who bum skinny sluts, give real women a break, after all they are only natural!! and how they are emant to be!!

  51. silise says:
    Mon, 17th May 20107:58 pm 

    hello everyone. I'am a big women. good looking too. i belive this fact becuz. i HAVE ALAWAYS BEEN VERY SEXUAL ACTIVE. WITH MUITPULE GUYS. AND I'M 24 YRS OLD. EVERYBODY HAS A PFERENCES. SOME MAN LIKE ALL TYPE OF WOMEN. SKINNY SLIM FAT THICK BLK WHITE. BUT SOME BIG WOMEN LOOK GOOD. LIKE SOME SKINNY WOMEN. IN THEY WANT TO FUCK US. I DON'T HAVE TO ATTRACK WOMEN. ONLY MAN. AND A LOT OF MAN FUCK BIG WOMEN. SOME GUYS ARE ASHAMED AND WILL KEEP IT TO THEIR SELFS. I DON'T MESS WITH THOSE KINDS. SO FOR THOSE SKINNY BITCHES TALKING SHIT CHILL OUT. AND GO GET LED. I FUCK WHEN EVER I WANT TO. AND IM BIG. ALSO BIG WOMEN ARE NOT JEALOUS OF SKINNY WOMEN. WE DON'T CARE NOTHING ABOUT YALL. ONLY THE GUYS AND THATS WHY WE GET MORE SEX LOL. AND BIG GIRLS SUCK DICK WAY BETTER. AND WE HAVE BIGGER TITS WETTER PUSSIESS.

  52. Randal says:
    Sun, 28th Aug 20113:26 pm 

    I Think it’s probably because…..well have you tried having sex with an average size woman lately? Well, it is extremely difficult for an average guy to hook up with a hot girl, most are so self centered and materialistic that you’ve gotta have money, look incredible (ie fake douchebaggy) or both. Most guys don’t try to be “The Situation” they just try to be themselves. So, average guys get passed up, but bigger girls tend to not be as materialistic and more in tune with things that actually happen, and not some dreamworld. But mostly I think it’s cuz guys have figured out that they’re rather get with someone that wants it, and not have to go through all the bullcrap that you wanna be divas throw out there. Get some brains, and get some personality and maybe these statistics will change.

  53. Nuore says:
    Thu, 9th Feb 20121:03 pm 

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