I'm not particularly really big, but let's just say a size 10 isn't enough for me. (maybe a size 12-15 depending on the type of clothing)

Anyways, what I have to say pertaining to this issue:

To be overweight and have a healthy sexual life is fine.

To be skinny and have a healthy sexual life is expected.

I have a boyfriend, he's a musician, he's an artist, you'd expect him to have one of those skinny artsy girlfriends, and instead he prefers me.

It's not about being over-confident, or under confident, it's about living up to your standards, but taking chances with those who you think might not like you back.

Whether or not you're overweight should not be an issue, and if this article is the do-all-say-all over all other articles then let the world rejoice, but honestly? THIS article?

Skinny girls can hate on overweight girls and vice versa all they want, but the real truth is:

self-respect.

Both sides can be just as promiscuous as the other.

And that's the reality.

No way in hell would a person with 18% body fat have higher chances of weight-related diseases compared to a person with 30% body fat. A thin person may very well have diseases that an overweight person doesn't but if that person ain't exercising or eating properly, they're what we call 'skinny fat'. Measure their bf% and you'll see it's comparable to an 'average' woman.

In my book, if you can complete a physical fitness test (sprints, chin-ups, jumps etc) with excellent results yearly AND maintain a healthy level of body fat (in my book, 21-24% as this indicates regular rigorous exercise without going overboard, if it's lower and still hitting essential fat it's extremely excellent), you're good to go. Otherwise, shut up already about 'curvy' being 'real' or thin being better. We should focus on fitness and health and there's no way around this you need to eat healthfully and exercise.

Hell, people even exercise wrongly and then whine about not losing any weight. Progressive exercise is the key here. If you're only 'jogging' steady state for an hour each day and wondering why you plateau, YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG. Try doing some sprints and progressively increasing the intensity and then come back and tell me exercise doesn't work.

Think of it this way, if zombie apocalypse descended upon us, would you be able to escape and survive?

And yeah BMI is Bull, I got a letter saying I was overweight when I weigh 180 and am 5 10 which doesn't make sense considering I can barely grab any fat off myself.

I also believe that when a man talks to an overweight woman he can talk to her much easier and is able to be much more upfront without in his mind fear of regection, women like self condidence BAm your sexing it up everynight.

Can I tell you why I have a nice mix of casual and relationship sex now? Because I am so excited at my core that I am in my sexual prime! OMG the sex is STELLAR! Better than ever! I have had drunk sex, hate sex, love sex, your leavijng sex, mindblowing sex, forgetable sex, kinky sex and quite frankly hideous as well as amazing sex. Everyone has sexual self esteem issues when they are young and full of themselves, thinking that in the long run sex has anything to do with what you look like! I mean seriously, if you break your toe and it leads you into financial ruin and you are alone and scared and someone comes along who is 300 pounds but loves you for and and wants to love you inspite of your gangrene ass leg, I promise you, you will jump on his cock so fast and NEVER let go. So stop having sex with your eyes and start doing it with your mind and heart and sense of humor. Find someone that you can laugh with in bed. It is the BIGGEST turn on.

PS I am a fatty and I get such nice compliments about my beautiful brests and my sexy voice and my sense of humor. I value those, and ignore the rest.

PPS We lose the weight when we are ready. When WE grow up too and realize that YOU DON’T MATTER and we don’t care what the skinny girl is doing down the hall either, unless she is our friend. You should try that, befriending a fatty, help her out with your kick ass work out routine and she can help you get over being a bitch.

PPPS FYI sometimes people stay fat as a protection against the bullshit that people dish out when you are only that 10-20 lbs over weight.YES! You WERE probably that big of a bitch in highschool! DONT FOOL YOURSELF!

PPPPS And lastly, for us fat girls, we have an advantage…we ALWAYS know what a guy is thinking, or if they like us for us, not just our looks. Meaning we are all in the same boat so be kinder to yourself and others.

This study is basically a load of bullshit due the vast amount of grey-area left out. So everyone should just get over it and stop being such bitches.

I know that's a horrible generalization (since it's not 100% true), but take it from a guy who's been around lots of woman and knows what other guys think, aswell. Most of us have a common understanding that we believe the aforementioned statement to be primarily, or majority, true.