Comments on: He Said/She Said: Guys and Porn

By: tisha

tisha — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 04:23:47 +0000

porn all the time is not good if you are in a relationship with someone that doesnt agree with it. ive read up on this because i thought i was the only one who thought that way. in my situation ive been with the same person for 5 yrs and we have kids together and we have sex a good amount per week and even if i dont feel like full on sex i pleasure him. he never goes without but yet he feels the need to look at porn either when he thinks im sleeping or not home. not all guys look at porn so when people say its what guys do then thats bull..ive tried to learn to deal with it but its like when i get on the computer thats not what i need to see first thing or when i open a cable bill i dont need to see all these charges. weve made videos together and he would use that but we lost them so maybe i should give that a try again. in the end when you think about it at least they arent cheating but it still doesnt sit right with me.

By: Sam

Sam — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 14:57:17 +0000

What a lot of bollocks of course constant porn usage isnt good…your all fooling yourselfs be intelligent about it
READ THIS AND STOP FINDING EXCUSES…THANKYOU

http://www.porn-free.org/porn_is_bad.htm

By: Dave

Dave — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 19:22:44 +0000

I remember when this conversation came up with my past girlfriend. It went a lot of directions but ended up in one very nice place.. I remember asking her about the female novels she reads all the time and she actually reads fanfiction of a couple of tv shows that she enjoys that get very raunchy.. I called it porn. In the end we decided to try out watching porn together = had a new way to have sex so we could change things up.. and she ended up making some porn for me to use instead of the websites.. and I ended up using it quite a bit.. with a bit of the websites thrown in too since the same pics and videos do get boring after being replayed THAT much

oh yeah.. and lol Sven xD

By: Sven

Sven — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 22:23:06 +0000

dragonflyaries27:

First off, male needs, if you compress them down:

Sex. Competition. Stroked Ego preferably by partner. Beer. Male comrades to drink said beer with.

If you think your boyfriend doesn’t want sex because of porn, it might be because porn is easier and you’re a pain in the ass. Sex is a time commitment and requires a lot of effort and energy he may not have. You sound like a pain, at any rate.

Sometimes men are just tired or not in the mood. You’re oversimplifying men if you don’t acknowledge this. Have you ever not been in the mood for sex? Did he angrily post comments on a blog about “my girlfriend is spending too much time doing X and it’s preventing her from fucking me”? Unlikely. Probably pulled up youporn, took care of business and left you the fuck alone because you didn’t want to fuck. If there wasn’t porn, I can guarantee you men would invent it. Either that or they’d harass you even more for sex.

It provides an outlet for any of our excess sexual energy that you don’t want to deal with. It’s either that or we go off and seduce some other chick when you’re not in the mood. Count your blessings that porn stills his sex drive.

Also, lastly: Haha, your boyfriend looks at shemale porn. Haha.

By: dragonflyaries27

dragonflyaries27 — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 01:04:53 +0000

OK…

Try this one on for size…

This guy watches alot of porn regarding shemales or girls with big tits. He turns off his computer when his girlfriend’s car pulls up and comes home horny and he wants nothing to do with sex. WHAT’S THE PROBLEM?

She confronts him about a shitload of porn on the browsing history. His excuse??? That was just pop-ups, and that he is only into his girlfriend – no one else. BULL!

Anybody care to comment?

By: Amy

Amy — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 04:23:29 +0000

It’s not appropriate to generalize, “oh, that’s what guys do–we watch porn.”

from the time i graduated from high school, i thought that WAS what guys did. but then i decided to go to an institute of technology where the male to female ratio was…3 to 1.

every guy i’ve talked to there has admitted to watching porn a few times. a FEW times. and every one said that if they were in a relationship, they’d have no interest in it.

i even tried to watch some with my boyfriend…but it didn’t do much for us. once the computer was turned off, things really got going.

By: That Guy

That Guy — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 23:02:20 +0000

Porn really isn’t a big deal at all. It’s just a tool us guys use to get off. I’ve never understood why girls seem so surprised that we have tons of porn on our computers – WE’RE GUYS. THAT’S WHAT WE DO.

Girls, it’s not that we don’t think you’re hot – it might be sometimes, though – it’s mostly that you aren’t around when we get horny. If my girl isn’t around when I need to blow my load, then that’s why the internet is there. That’s the reason it was INVENTED. Not military communication, not helping companies, but PORN.

By: michael

michael — Sat, 08 Nov 2008 12:20:12 +0000

i think a common misconception is what men think of porn. what i mean is, i look at it nearly everyday, but tomorrow i wont remember what it was i was looking at.

its strictly for the moment, and i hold no sentiments towards it at all. It doesn’t matter to me once i am done with it.

what did i eat for dinner yesterday, i dont remember

what kind of porn did i watch yesterday, i dont remember

By: Camk

Camk — Sat, 08 Nov 2008 07:21:05 +0000

I’ve never understood why some girls have such an issue with their boyfriends using porn. I guess I could understand if the guy seemed less attracted to you because of… but still. o.0

And I for one LOVE porn, I enjoy some at least once a day and masturbate two to three times a day. Hell my boyfriend and I even exchange porn.

Perhaps if a girl is that worried about it she should try watching porn with her boyfriend, its fun and it can be a turn-on.

By: Jon

Jon — Sat, 08 Nov 2008 06:45:01 +0000

to clarify the above: I don’t mean that it’s wrong per se, just that it’s really hypocritical