Top 5 Things You MUST Do In College Pt. 1: Befriend a Professor!

profstudent.jpg[The following is the first of a five-part series I'm calling "The Top 5 Things You MUST Do In College." Everyone's already heard about buying flip-flops for the shower, stocking up on veggies to avoid the Freshman 15, and to steer clear of mojitos before midterms, but there are other tips for enjoying college that the experts might have neglected to tell you about.

This series is meant to provide advice for getting the most out of college, rather than just getting through it. So whether you're a freshman just starting out, or a senior on the job hunt, you've still got plenty of time to live it up (and do it right) as an undergrad.]

If there is one thing you should do before you graduate, it is to make friends with at least one of your professors.

For one thing, a professor has to be well established in his or her field, whether it’s philosophy or business, or something in between. If you get along really well with one of your professors, chances are they can connect you to a job or recommend you for an opportunity you might not have even heard about yet. You remember that old adage when it comes to getting a job, “it’s all about who you know”? Not many twentysomethings are chummy with CEOs or top magazine editors, but your professor might be. Besides, what if some day you do decide to go to law school? Imagine how hard it will be getting a recommendation letter from a professor you had years ago, especially when they see so many students in such a small window of time.

I know, I know, your school is so large you need to text your professor so he can answer your questions in lecture. Or maybe you’re thinking you just don’t know what to say. Valid excuses, but not good enough to get out of this one.

One way to go about establishing a good relationship with a professor is by checking out their curriculum vitae (most colleges and universities will have this information online); see if he/she has had any articles published recently that interest you and send them an email about it. Ask them if you can meet up during their office hours to talk about it (everyone loves talking about themselves!), or just let them know you’re having trouble deciding what to major in or what to do after college. If you don’t have the time to make it to office hours, try stopping by before or after class.

All in all, just try to make an impression upon them. They will remember you for being a curious and conscientious student, if nothing else. And the better your relationship with a professor, the better you’ll be apt to do in their class! You’ll find that you won’t want to let him or her down by being late or unprepared for lecture — just like you wouldn’t want to let a friend down by showing up late for an event.

Professors are really powerful people to have on your side. Knowing the cute football stud might get you a date for the weekend, but befriending a professor will be worth it years from now when you need a make-or-break recommendation, or a connection to that dream job.

Come back to find out about my next college must-do: Get To Know Your College Town Beyond The Pub Crawl

2 Comments on "Top 5 Things You MUST Do In College Pt. 1: Befriend a Professor!"

  1. Debra says:
    Sat, 13th Dec 20082:35 am 

    I have befriended the most wonderful teach at my school.

    She was my former Lit teacher and she’d often talk about gender equality, sexism, metaphors, comicbooks as art and meaningful reads and symbolism in our readings.

    I was golden in that class and everyday after our classes we’d talk about what we read, current politics, fashion trends, and even how cute scared chiuauas are when they rattle.

    We’ve become such good friends she’s paid me to dog sit and proof read papers. NICE!

  2. Phil LaPier says:
    Mon, 16th Feb 20092:01 pm 

    Great article and definitly a must do in any college environment.

    I can’t tell you how important befriending a professor is, especially when you need a letter of recommendation. To get just one outstanding LOR from a professor, out of say 3, can help you tremendously in getting that job or w/e it is you’re applying for.

    Keep that in mind, because fresh out of college the job market will be tough and if you can go to an employer with strong words about you, then you’re that much ahead of the competition.

    http://phillapier.com

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