Comments on: Sexy Time: All I Ever Needed to Know I Learned from a Porn Star http://collegecandy.com/2008/11/20/sexy-time-all-i-ever-needed-to-know-i-learned-from-a-porn-star/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:35:34 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Steph http://collegecandy.com/2008/11/20/sexy-time-all-i-ever-needed-to-know-i-learned-from-a-porn-star/#comment-19203 Steph Tue, 23 Dec 2008 06:10:25 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/14185#comment-19203 The hardest thing we learn about most things is that there isn't a standard. What works for one RARELY works for all. It's ridiculous to tell people when and how to explore their sexuality. I really like what she says about confidence and her quote "when in doubt slow down" is perfect. I'll probably be reading her book within the week ;) The hardest thing we learn about most things is that there isn’t a standard. What works for one RARELY works for all. It’s ridiculous to tell people when and how to explore their sexuality. I really like what she says about confidence and her quote “when in doubt slow down” is perfect. I’ll probably be reading her book within the week ;)

]]> By: Lindsey http://collegecandy.com/2008/11/20/sexy-time-all-i-ever-needed-to-know-i-learned-from-a-porn-star/#comment-19202 Lindsey Sat, 22 Nov 2008 18:45:38 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/14185#comment-19202 I think women should learn to embrace their sexuality and not be insecure about acting or being open as a sexual being. However, I'm not really talking "porn star", more like "sex and the city". I am open about sex and my sexuality and am always willing to explore it. I think it's healthy for women to talk about it and be comfortable with it, and come to terms with it. Easier said than done - and for everyone it's different. Just don't deny yourself the right to behave as a sexual being, no matter the capacity you choose to do so. I think women should learn to embrace their sexuality and not be insecure about acting or being open as a sexual being. However, I’m not really talking “porn star”, more like “sex and the city”. I am open about sex and my sexuality and am always willing to explore it. I think it’s healthy for women to talk about it and be comfortable with it, and come to terms with it. Easier said than done – and for everyone it’s different. Just don’t deny yourself the right to behave as a sexual being, no matter the capacity you choose to do so.

]]> By: Joe the Drunk http://collegecandy.com/2008/11/20/sexy-time-all-i-ever-needed-to-know-i-learned-from-a-porn-star/#comment-19201 Joe the Drunk Fri, 21 Nov 2008 14:46:51 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/14185#comment-19201 nina hartley is a total skank. she was nasty back in the day when she was at her prime, now she's just old and nasty. i wouldnt jack off to any of her videos. nina hartley is a total skank. she was nasty back in the day when she was at her prime, now she’s just old and nasty. i wouldnt jack off to any of her videos.

]]> By: Minky http://collegecandy.com/2008/11/20/sexy-time-all-i-ever-needed-to-know-i-learned-from-a-porn-star/#comment-19200 Minky Fri, 21 Nov 2008 04:50:26 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/14185#comment-19200 I haven't commented on CC before, but I had to chime in here. This advice is so well-timed for what I'm thinking about right now. I love that you chose to interview Nina Hartley, I doubt it would have occurred to me to seek advice with her! And to the previous commenter, exactly, it's your prerogative whether you want to attempt to separate sex and emotion. To each her own. I haven’t commented on CC before, but I had to chime in here.

This advice is so well-timed for what I’m thinking about right now. I love that you chose to interview Nina Hartley, I doubt it would have occurred to me to seek advice with her!

And to the previous commenter, exactly, it’s your prerogative whether you want to attempt to separate sex and emotion. To each her own.

]]> By: Word http://collegecandy.com/2008/11/20/sexy-time-all-i-ever-needed-to-know-i-learned-from-a-porn-star/#comment-19199 Word Thu, 20 Nov 2008 20:28:18 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/14185#comment-19199 I'm definitely skeptical regarding any advice given by a porn star...I'd say that although sexual freedom is beneficial to female autonomy, I think it's unsound to ever separate sex from emotion--it might be easy for say, Nina, but for the average person? I wouldn't recommend it. http://ridiculove.blogspot.com I’m definitely skeptical regarding any advice given by a porn star…I’d say that although sexual freedom is beneficial to female autonomy, I think it’s unsound to ever separate sex from emotion–it might be easy for say, Nina, but for the average person? I wouldn’t recommend it.

http://ridiculove.blogspot.com

]]> By: AnnMarie http://collegecandy.com/2008/11/20/sexy-time-all-i-ever-needed-to-know-i-learned-from-a-porn-star/#comment-19198 AnnMarie Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:12:42 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/14185#comment-19198 I think more women would be willing to embrace porn( and be more confident in our sexualities) if we had more ladies like Nina Hartley and Tristan Taormino out there. I think more women would be willing to embrace porn( and be more confident in our sexualities) if we had more ladies like Nina Hartley and Tristan Taormino out there.

]]> By: kate http://collegecandy.com/2008/11/20/sexy-time-all-i-ever-needed-to-know-i-learned-from-a-porn-star/#comment-19197 kate Thu, 20 Nov 2008 14:25:55 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/14185#comment-19197 Very good advice! I love it! Thanks for posting this:) Very good advice!

I love it! Thanks for posting this:)

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