Comments on: You Cheated. Now What?

By: mrfixit

mrfixit — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 23:51:58 +0000

"Well, I am the cheater. First timer… I have no idea why i did it. It was with my ex who was my first love. I am guessing i never really let that die after we broke up. I did however meet my current ummm boyfriend?(we are trying to work it out) just after me and the ex broke up. I broke up with him because he didnt seem happy. he was avoiding me we had a very messed up relationship. Anways when thr dust semi settled from that I met john while i was on night shift and he was on night shift. He disappeared for a while and then out of no where he msged me on nexopia or maybe he didnt but whatever in the end we got together"

why the heck dont you people straighten out your baggage because bringing other people into it?

you did it because youre selfish, you dont care.

SIMPLE AS THAT!

Dont call that guy @H@E@N@R@Y@J@O@NG@ER@LN@G he probably has no idea about that girls private life.

By: mrfixit

mrfixit — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 23:49:02 +0000

sick

and

tired

girls

who

play

innocent.

id have more respect for all you cheats if you admit to just being corrupt and wear it with a badge of honor.

what is so hard about breaking up with the person you date, and having all the fun you want. these tricks want to have their cake & eat it too. pathetic!

By: kingofnyct

kingofnyct — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 23:44:05 +0000

Also you are pretty naive if you think your girls cheated on you once or twice. I have a girl buddy who slept with 25+ guys behind her boyfriend's back and these suckers all fell in love with her because she is smart and looks good. Some women are just that dirty, or confused, or both. The sooner you know this the sooner you will wake up with a clear conscience. Instead of feeling anger you should feel sorry for women who have such low ethics or self esteem, then look in the mirror and ask why you attract these kinds of women?

By: kingofnyct

kingofnyct — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 23:42:12 +0000

Hey before you sorry "im the victim" guys go mouthing off on the guys who sleep with your girlfriend, maybe you should consider that the guys have no idea what's going on. It is in my experience that girls who are shady will go out of their way to cheat and not let 'Current Guy' know they are in a relationship and think they won't get caught.

By: Seph

Seph — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 14:58:41 +0000

Well Eva I was that guy that wouldn't really put forth effort so I can relate to your guy…if you are still with him? He might not be as into you as he thinks he is or he might just have other things on his mind involving life but he still may care about you a lot, so talk to him about it and make sure you two really care about each other.

I have cheated before (just made out) with other girls. The first time I was in high school and I still had lust for the girl I was seeing before and she was suppose to be helping me out with math but she kissed me randomly, I ended up telling my gf at the time about it and we stayed together for a long time afterwards because I never cheated on her again. Another time I was blacked out and even though I'm a guy I will admit I cried in the morning when I found out what happend, it was my bday and we all got blacked out drunk with way too many shots at a club and my gf at the time made out with my friend while I made out with a girl friend of mine that she was jealous of…it was pretty fucked, we tried to make it work but the relationships fire was dead so I broke it off.

My last relationship I actually didn't cheat but I was a Senior in College and I had chances to hook up with other girls but stayed true to my gf at the time but I flirted online with a couple girls that I had liked since high school and she snooped through my myspace or facebook and found the conversations and our relationship pretty much went down hill from there. She started acting different, got upset more easily and we would argue about stupid shit like almost everyday. It wasn't that I was trying to hook up with those girls but I guess I got scared because I was really into the girl I was seeing and I felt like I might be missing out since I'm still young.

To end my rambling/rant I have since learned that if I am going to be with a girl, I better be fully into her and not flirt with other girls, even if it's online because it could mess up the whole relationship. Something that was once great.

By: eva

eva — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 02:05:27 +0000

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 5 months(this time around) (we dated before for about almost 5 years). the first time i broke it off because i was tried of the same old stuff (no cheating involved). this time around, he promises me that we will do more thing, you know have more fun together, so far nothing. right now he is out of town visiting with his family and I'm here thinking about wanting to cheat on him. I just don't know what to do, I do and I don't want to cheat on him, I just keep thinking to myself, I don't want to be that person who cheats, because I wouldn't want him to do that to me. I'm just mad at him for not keeping him promises.

Sorry I just kept rambling on.. I would like to hear what anyone has to say. Thanks

By: sarah

sarah — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 10:45:02 +0000

I have been with my boyfriend for four years…i thought he was an asshole so i cheated on him a couple of times early on in the relationship. but i have come to find that he is actually a nice guy. this year i kissed someone right in front of him when i was drunk. i dont remember a thing. he just told me he doesnt love me anymore and wants to remain friends. i want to tell him how sorry i am and how much i love him but he just doesnt believe anything i say anymore. its hard to let go of someone you feel like you are meant to be with

By: Ryan

Ryan — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 14:35:23 +0000

Confuckingfused, I can relate to your situation, although I have no sage advice for you. I find it amazing that my girlfriend still has strong feelings for her exboyfriend from high school.

Although even I have a hard time prescribing to this advice, I would recommend moving on and no longer talking to either of those guys. Especially the one that you feel has some sort of power over you, that guy will taint any relationship you have. Start anew, stay devoted.

By: the cheater

the cheater — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 16:08:46 +0000

Well, I am the cheater. First timer… I have no idea why i did it. It was with my ex who was my first love. I am guessing i never really let that die after we broke up. I did however meet my current ummm boyfriend?(we are trying to work it out) just after me and the ex broke up. I broke up with him because he didnt seem happy. he was avoiding me we had a very messed up relationship. Anways when thr dust semi settled from that I met john while i was on night shift and he was on night shift. He disappeared for a while and then out of no where he msged me on nexopia or maybe he didnt but whatever in the end we got together. We have been together for a year and a half, maybe more we never really had an official day when we got together it just happend. I love him more than anything but due to my lack of brain when i slept with my ex he won't believe a thing i have too say. Understandable. But hey things are even more fucked… he replied to a personal ad on craigslist… at 4 in the morning to some girl looking for sex. like really… really… and he still wants to get back together and work things out. He was just emailing someone to have a revenge sex. I bet he did but you know I have no idea what to believe honestly. this is just f#$%^ed. Now I am not even sure i want him back.. really… Obviously i did that for a reason. I know it was because my ex has some weird thing over me really i do some really messed up stuff when i am with him. with out even thinking like really. He messes with my brain. anyways I will stop ranting sorry

-Confuckingfused

By: matt

matt — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 20:20:41 +0000

we should create a group for guys who have been cheated on and want to speak out… say how much they hate the bish that messed with them or whatever…